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anyone waiting for AF this week (w.b. 21/10)

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kwazycupcakes · 23/10/2019 07:25

Hi everyone 🙂

I thought I would start a thread for everyone that is due AF this week, if anyone would like to join?

I am 29 and have been TTC #1 for 10 months with no hint of a BFP. I have been tracking my BBT for the last 6 months and always have a 13 day luteal phase, with AF appearing on the 14th day after OV. Yesterday was day 14 and nothing sign of AF yet. Temperature hasn't dipped yet either. Too scared to test as i'm fed up of seeing BFN 😣

Scared that just by making this thread I am jynxing it and AF will arrive, so please keep me company 🙂 would love to hear from and support others! Baby dust to everyone, this journey is so hard 💐

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MrsN2121 · 26/10/2019 22:11

@Broom19 I've been seriously wondering if pregnacare have been having a negative effect for me too. When you ran out did you stop taking anything at all or just take folic acid and vit D? Interesting if you stopped taking them and that's the month you conceived.

Broom19 · 26/10/2019 19:33

I know the NHS website says that the only vitamins needed are vit d and folic acid (during pregnancy) and there is no research to prove prenatal vitamins work or are beneficial. My midwife said the same.

I did take some coq10 when trying to conceive too (however only during my last, successful cycle).

Bananaloaf88 · 26/10/2019 18:59

@Broom19 I've been taking folic acid along with COQ10. Not sure if that could be having an affect.

Lizziedu49 · 26/10/2019 18:25

Thanks @Broom19 ❤️

Broom19 · 26/10/2019 18:00

I just want to chip in about pregnacare.

I tried to conceive for 9 cycles and was taking pregnacare conception. Throughout this time my periods became closer and closer together and I also began spotting for up to 4 days beforehand.
I ran out of vitamins and, at the same time, had spoken to my doc who ordered some preliminary blood tests to check hormones. Blood tests showed irregularities in hormones, which would've been causing issues conceiving. However, I actually went on to conceive the very next month before any further testing could be done (I am currently 9+4) and I sincerely believe the pregnacare were messing up my hormones/ cycle.
If you google it, you'll find loads of stories from women who have experience the same.
My advice would be to stop taking them and just take folic acid and vit d.
Good luck everyone Thanks

Lizziedu49 · 26/10/2019 16:08

Yes @Bananaloaf88 every day I wonder maybe I am in the 2%. We definitely all do 😂

I think if this wasn't my first cycle of TTC I would also be on the bottle of wine boat. Probably in the next couple of cycles I will

Bananaloaf88 · 26/10/2019 16:03

@CrazyFooLady You just keep hoping your the 2% who don't ever test positive!

CrazyFooLady · 26/10/2019 15:41

@Bananaloaf88 ugh I dunno what to think now. OH thinks I am, I'm like naaaaaah I'm probably just late again. I literally have no symptoms other than a bit of an itchy/stabby tit every now and again. Should of come on on Tuesday x

Bananaloaf88 · 26/10/2019 15:38

@CrazyFooLady I keep trying to stay positive. But I was in such a foul mood waiting last night I ended up having a bottle of wine. I am 99.9% sure I am out this month, just fed up waiting.

Bananaloaf88 · 26/10/2019 15:36

@Lizziedu49 I had light bleeding on CD 12 (ish) it was a lot lighter than my normal period but it lasted about 2 days longer.

I put it into Ovia as "spotting" so it hasn't counted it in CDs as a period but it did move my predicted period date to tomorrow.

So I am either on CD42 or CD30. I'm starting to wonder if I did have a 12 day cycle. I had really bad side pains during that time, the doctor did an internal exam and took a urine sample but everything was clear.

I'm glad someone else has been in the same boat! I just want to be pregnant already! After my miscarriage I have suddenly went into hyper broody mode.

CrazyFooLady · 26/10/2019 15:34

I'm still late, but have been testing every morning and getting a BFN....... guess I'm not out until the old bag turns up

Lizziedu49 · 26/10/2019 14:43

@Bananaloaf88 was it bright red blood? Funnily enough i had the same between my last 2 cycles, I had one day of bright red blood but Clue did count it as AF
So I either had one 16 day cycle and another 22 day one or one 38 day one. SO CONFUSED

I'm am SO glad to hear it's not just me ☺️ also it's really interesting that Ovia didn't count it as AF

Bananaloaf88 · 26/10/2019 13:59

@Lizziedu49 It is so frustrating. I had some mid-cycle bleeding so i'm wondering if this has reset my cycle. According to ovia with the mid-cycle bleeding (which it didnt register as a period) I am due on tomorrow. Fingers crossed. Have just ordered 50 OPks for Nov 😂

Lizziedu49 · 26/10/2019 13:20

Oh gosh @Bananaloaf88 we are in the same boat, I'm CD35 and my longest ever was 38 so surely something has got to happen soon

KCT93 · 26/10/2019 13:00

I have the worst sore throat and cold today, just came out of nowhere! 8 DPO so could be a symptom but clutching at straws now!

Bananaloaf88 · 26/10/2019 11:34

Still no AF or BFP. CD 42. Really bored now waiting. 🙄

Annies1923 · 26/10/2019 09:55

@lizziedu49 let's hope so!! I'll keep you updated

Lizziedu49 · 26/10/2019 09:21

@Annies1923 sore boobs is a Verrrrrry good sign, especially if you don't usually get that before AF

Annies1923 · 26/10/2019 09:14

Hi @lizziedu49 thanks for the assurance, its so easy to start to think it may never happen, the cramps I had are mild now, and very sore boobs, hoping this may be our month x

Lizziedu49 · 26/10/2019 09:07

Welcome @Annies1923, sorry to hear it is taking a long time. I guess if one of your tubes is narrowed, you're counting on ovulating from the other in order to conceive.
My best friend has just gone through IVF and it all went through soooo quickly and she is due to give birth in a month and a bit!

@Crazymummyto3 no AF for me either and I am not getting cramping anymore. I calculated the last viable date I could have ovulated and that would put me at 12DPO today. I got a BFN yesterday! CD34 for me today

Crazymummyto3 · 26/10/2019 08:58

Still no AF. Tested again with an IC but still just the faintest of lines 😩

Annies1923 · 25/10/2019 21:57

Hi guys, first time posting, me and my partner have been TTC for 2 years now. I'm 23, him approaching 30, I've always known that I wanted to be a parent, had all the tests done and awaiting the appointment to confirm when we can start IVF. I recently had a HSG test, with a delayed tube, not quite sure how much that effects everything but trying to be optimistic each month, just becomes harder and harder.
AF due on a Tuesday but have quite a lot of cramping so hoping it's implantation. Fingers crossed.

Crazymummyto3 · 25/10/2019 20:00

@Macbless Yes I will, but really not holding out much hope

Macbless · 25/10/2019 19:01

@Chefwifelife sorry to hear that. I‘M pretty sure I’ll be joining you tomorrow. Hope you‘ve got some nice to distract you tonight.

@Crazymummyto3 are you going to rest tomorrow with FMU? FX to you

Chefwifelife · 25/10/2019 18:33

Good luck those left standing. AF has just arrived right on cue. Sad

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