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When's the best time to get pregnant? Use our interactive ovulation calculator to work out when you're most fertile and most likely to conceive.

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35 replies

Chlandy · 13/10/2019 06:44

So my partner and I have been TTC for over 2 years now. We're not eligible for fertility tests on nhs and can't afford private, as we conceived our first naturally, although it took 18 months. I've been feeling 'pregnant' for over a week, completely off certain foods, tired and falling asleep at any opportunity, sore boobs... did a test yesterday morning and got the test on it’s own. Obviously rushed out to buy more tests, waited until this morning and all negative. I’m heart broken, I don’t know how to carry on this journey, with every month that passes I fall deeper into depression. How do people do this?

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Chlandy · 17/11/2019 20:59

@MrsN2121 everything crossed for you! Please keep us posted! Xx

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MrsN2121 · 17/11/2019 19:26

I'm only 8dpo @Chlandy so still a bit early, I'll hold out until I'm late. I've been so up and down today, just want this next week to hurry up so I'll be able to know one way or the other!

Chlandy · 17/11/2019 17:54

Have you tested or is it too early? Everything crossed for you! Spotting is deffo a symptom I've just not had it personally, my friend did all the way through her pregnancy till about 18 weeks! xxx @MrsN2121

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sarahc336 · 17/11/2019 17:42

Wow what a lovely dark line Thanks made up for you!!! Xx

MrsN2121 · 17/11/2019 16:40

Thank you @Chlandy my symptom spotting shall continue! 😩 Congratulations again x

Chlandy · 17/11/2019 16:11

@MrsN2121 of course! I've had regular cramps like my period was coming in my lower back and occasionally my tummy, but my boobs have been the worst proper throbbing and I've had hot flushes and nausea particularly the last 5 days or so. Thank you, mumsnet community can be so lovely 💕 baby dust wishes to everyone else TTC xxx

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aggitatedstate · 17/11/2019 13:17

Wow so happy for you Thanks

MrsN2121 · 17/11/2019 13:14

Congratulations @Chlandy would you mind sharing what your symptoms were as you said you felt pregnant? So nice to read a positive outcome

Chlandy · 17/11/2019 12:40

Thank you so much ThanksThanksThanks

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Nicecupofcoco · 17/11/2019 10:18

Yay congratulations!

Pawsin · 17/11/2019 10:15

I was just reading your post for the first time and my heart was breaking for you, and then I scrolled down and saw your BFP! So happy for you, congratulations xx

Mandatorymongoose · 17/11/2019 09:07

Too slow to post, not surprisingly confirmed by digital!

Congratulations!

Mandatorymongoose · 17/11/2019 09:06

Looks like a really strong line!

JimSlim · 17/11/2019 09:01

Just read your thread and am so happy for you. I have a friend who suffered multiple early mcs and fertility problems until giving up gluten, and then had a healthy natural pregnancy. Wishing you lots of luck and love Smile

Chlandy · 17/11/2019 08:49

Digital has confirmed it! Thank you so much everyone I can't believe it! We didn't actually try or track last month we decided to take a break and I decided to go gluten free after reading it can effect fertility and pregnancy's... not sure if it's coincidence or not, but either way I'm just over the moon! Thank you everyone means so much xxx

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DirtyWindow · 17/11/2019 07:54

Looks like it to me! Great news OP.

Greggers2017 · 17/11/2019 07:54

That looks possitive to me. Congratulations

Quiffy · 17/11/2019 07:50

Got everything crossed for you. Looks like your BFP for sure

SquigglePigs · 17/11/2019 07:37

Fingers crossed for you!

Chlandy · 17/11/2019 07:25

I think this is my BFP... everything crossed 🤞! Getting a digital later so will keep you posted. This is my first test, I'm 3 days late xxx

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Mooey89 · 18/10/2019 08:05

Fingers crossed we meet again on a BFP thread in 2020 x

MrsChicken89 · 17/10/2019 21:44

I know the pain all too well, I'm just starting cycle 21! The last few cycles have really gotten to me mentally, and with each one I always think I can't carry on with this.

Chlandy · 17/10/2019 21:39

Thank you @Mooey89 . We're going to do as you are and take a break, we've decided for the rest of the year now. Everything crossed you get your wishes in 2020 if not sooner Thanks xx

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Mooey89 · 17/10/2019 18:38

I’m so sorry @Chlandy x

Chlandy · 17/10/2019 06:45

BFN this morning, AF hasn't arrived yet but is due today and I'm 15 DPO... guess that's me out again this month. Too heartbreaking is this.

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