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November Bus - testing first week of November 2019

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omikron · 01/10/2019 13:10

Hi all.

I'm out this month so I thought I would start the next bus. I hope it's our month.

TTC #2
Age 33
Cycle 6
Due / BFP 5 November

Fingers crossed for all. Smile

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waitingformyturn · 04/11/2019 10:05

Spoke to soon started spotting 👹

waitingformyturn · 04/11/2019 08:52

@ItsAlwaysSunnyInPhiladelphia sorry to hear you're having a bad time ☹️

Af still hasn't arrived for me. Keeps threatening to but not. No spotting yet but cramps on and off since 12dpo now 15dpo. I wish she would get on with it if she's coming!

CouscousEvaporator · 04/11/2019 06:49

Hi @ItsAlwaysSunnyInPhiladelphia I’m sorry you’ve been having a rough time of it. Have you had your hormones checked?
Polycystic ovaries on their own aren’t necessarily an issue, I just wanted to reassure you of that.
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ItsAlwaysSunnyInPhiladelphia · 04/11/2019 01:24

Hey all,
Sorry for radio silence for a couple weeks (?)..
Had a really shitty time of it tbh...
After only DTD up to 6 days before ovulation I knew I was out this month, I thought I would project my positive energy onto my next cycle..
I found out Thursday my ovaries are polycystic.. so that’s probably why nothing has happened in nearly 11 months.. I’ve been rather.. broken the last few days...
To top that off from 7dpo (now 12dpo) I have been having very light spotting and of course I’ve been POAS like an idiot for nothing.. just my body being a twat.
Best of luck ladies and congrats to all who have got their BFP xx

MeganMama28 · 03/11/2019 13:16

@Tamalama that sounds horrible for you I hope it subsides soon. Are you able to take anything for it to take the edge off it a bit? Sending hugs x

@GoAwayAF me too I google non stop! Then when I have no symptoms to google, I search for stories of BFPs with no symptoms!

myttcjourney · 03/11/2019 13:08

@GoAwayAF

I am a serial googler too! IB is anywhere from 6-12DPO so that could be a good sign 🤞🏼

myttcjourney · 03/11/2019 13:05

Hi everyone

Hope it's ok to join

I am on CD27 of 30 day cycle

Ovulated on CD14- I had the whitest of white BFNs 9DPO & 10DPO so accepted it was a no this month

I had the tiniest bit of possible implantation bleeding 11DPO

Too scared to test again now, think I may just wait for AF on Thursday

TTC is so draining, thought I was def out for the month but then the IB has given me hope again

Smile xx

Plaw · 03/11/2019 12:39

@TeeBagg Massive congrats. So lovely to see!♥️

mrssunshinexxx · 03/11/2019 11:03

@Tamalama don't give up 💕

GoAwayAF · 03/11/2019 10:44

Yesterday I had a small amount of brown discharge which I don’t normally have and there’s nothing there today...
today is 13dpo and AF due tomorrow so I’m going to test tomorrow if I don’t see anything else 🤷🏻‍♀️
Crazy days!
So easy to get hopes up and then shattered!! I need to stop googling too!

waitingformyturn · 03/11/2019 09:49

@Nic555 I'm not sure as I've only just started to get the hang of using opks but last month it arrived exactly 14dpo. I just use the IC from eBay so maybe that was the surge and I Ov'd a few days later perhaps?

@Tamalama that sounds awful for you! Hope the painfulsymptoms subside soon!

Tamalama · 03/11/2019 09:21

I absolutely hate this, as if it's not bad enough that af is on its way I'm in absolute agony. Laying in bed with a hot water bottle whilst down below is having contractions and spasms. The pain is making me bite down on my duvet and claw at the mattress with my fingernails. I've had this for over an hour now. Just went to the loo, no bleeding yet but doing a wee was agony, like the pain I had doing my first few wees after I had my c section.

@mrssunshinexxx yeah I think I'll be moving on to cycle 9- I'm going to wait until the new year (if I'm not pregnant by then) and then I'll go to the doctor. I'll be 39 next month and part of me feels like just giving up though 😕

@Sophieb15 wow, how quickly it comes around that you're due to ov again! Keeping everything crossed for you 😊

Nic555 · 03/11/2019 08:54

@Maisy24 I usually got the static on the fourth day. I was just testing once a day. Although last month I tested twice a day as the morning on the fourth day I was still flashing. Got a positive cheapy in the afternoon as ran out of CB but then by the night when my new ones arrived the surge had passed and was still just flashing. I'd test twice a day if I was you. I think my fourth flashing was too early it was about 7 in the morning. When I usually get my static a bit later. I've been feeling so obsessed with TTC this weekend and googling everything. Decided I need to stop and just relax. Hopefully when I'm back in work I'll be distracted xx

@waitingformyturn what day does AF usually arrive for you? It's so frustrating isn't it. You just don't know what to think. I hope you get an answer soon. Maybe leave it a couple of days and if no AF test again. Maybe your predicted ovulation was slightly wrong x

CouscousEvaporator · 03/11/2019 08:50

I’m not going to test til after I miss my period... I can feel it coming so don’t want to waste a test!

MeganMama28 · 03/11/2019 08:37

@Tamalama thank you 😘 I think because last time I had loads of symptoms and got a strong positive at 10dpo I already feel a bit defeated. AF is due on Tuesday/Wednesday so I'll test again then if it hasn't already arrived x

Sophieb15 · 03/11/2019 08:20

@Tamalama I'm ok Just doing best we can DTD and hoping for the best due to O tomorr at the moment. Hopefully you will feel a lot better this month and be able to DTD a little more 😘

waitingformyturn · 03/11/2019 08:16

I'm so confused today. Yesterday I had af aches and cramps (13dpo) to the extent of putting a panty liner in 'just in case'. I also got a stabbing pain low down for half a minute yesterday evening. Af hasn't yet arrived. Normally before af my cervix is high but v firm. The past couple of days it's high but the opening feels squidgy. I have done a test this morning though (14dpo) and bfn. Usually my boobs get fuller and heavier after ov but they haven't which I thought was weird but they have just now started to get heavier. I feel sick but that is probably just stress. Not sure what to think?!

mrssunshinexxx · 03/11/2019 08:16

@Tamalama sooo sorry it's so frustrating do you think you will be able to get any checks at the docs soon just to check everything is ok are you in cycle 9 now ? Xx

@Sophieb15 I understand that take some time and do what's right it can become all consuming on here wishing you luck xx

Tamalama · 03/11/2019 08:06

@MeganMama28 I'm sorry to hear that and for you mmc but you're definitely not out until af shows x

Tamalama · 03/11/2019 08:05

@Sophieb15 thank you. Unfortunately I did a FRER yesterday because I was going out last night and I wanted to know if I could have a few drinks and I got a bfn, not even a hint of a line. I then had a tint spot of blood last night. I'm not bleeding yet this morning but I have all the cramping so I know it'll arrive today, which is the due date, so regular as clockwork. How are you doing?

@mrssunshinexxx the first few weeks are the worst but totally worth it. I hope the scan goes ok, you must be so excited!

MeganMama28 · 03/11/2019 07:54

Did a FRER this morning at 10dpo and was a stark white BFN. Was cycle 1 after MMC so felt really down about it and had a little cry that we didn't get our rainbow this month. Just want AF to hurry up so we can try again! I don't know why but really have it in my head that I want to be pregnant before Christmas.

I have everything crossed for you all left to test 🤞💕

Sophieb15 · 02/11/2019 22:15

@Tamalama I've everything crossed you don't get AF tomor 😘😘 @mrssunshinexxx I'm ok only on CD 14 not really interested In much posting this month just lurking every few days xxx hope your morning sickness isn't too ok bad it's the hardest couple of weeks 😘

Maisy24 · 02/11/2019 20:54

@TeeBagg congratulations so happy for you, wishing you lots of luck and a happy 9months!

@Nic555 no flashing smiley for me yet, I'm on CD11 today and my second opk stick but I didn't ovulate until CD 16ish last month so think it's too early. Can you tell me how many flashing smileys you usually get before it's a static one? Also once you get flashing ones do you still do just one a day in the morning?

NZlife · 02/11/2019 19:56

I'm feeling really ill this evening and have been struggling to keep my eyes open all day. I can't remember when I started to feel nauseous with my first pregnancy, I also noticed today my boobs don't ache at all, normally the week before I'm due af they ache so so bad. Not sure if I'm reading too much into things though

Crazywheeloflife · 02/11/2019 19:09

Crongratulqtions @teebag xxx

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