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November Bus - testing first week of November 2019

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omikron · 01/10/2019 13:10

Hi all.

I'm out this month so I thought I would start the next bus. I hope it's our month.

TTC #2
Age 33
Cycle 6
Due / BFP 5 November

Fingers crossed for all. Smile

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Nic555 · 01/11/2019 08:45

@Maisy24 thank you. It's the exciting time of your cycle at the moment 😊 fingers crossed for you. I quite like the end of the 2WW and finding out either way. I'm 11 DPO today and at this point last cycle I was spotting so I'm pleased at least that my luteal phase is longer.

@SallyCinnamon3009 how many DPO are you? Still time. I've read lots of people felt she was on the way and then got a positive. You really just don't know.

@CouscousEvaporator does sound like you have some positive signs. You're not out until Af arrive.

@waitingformyturn still time for you as well 🤞

Really hoping for some BFP in the next couple of days xx

CouscousEvaporator · 01/11/2019 08:25

I’m due Sunday or Monday but I’m pretty sure I am out. My boobs are not hurting (although they are still massive) any more and cramps have stopped.
Whatever will be will be and I’m not going to test early to confirm 🙈 (repeats to self!)

SallyCinnamon3009 · 01/11/2019 07:27

Defo think I'm out did a FRER yesterday and not even a hint of a line. AF feels like she's gonna turn up today - three days early 😡

Maisy24 · 31/10/2019 23:00

@Crazywheeloflife I think I can see a line!! Especially when I zoom in. Test again tomorrow with FMU. I really hope it is for you.

@Nic555 got everything crossed for you, I'm on cd10 tomorrow so I'm back to focusing on dtd as much as possible. I'm starting my first clear blue opk tomorrow, and I haven't temped at all so this month to try relax me more. Excited to use the clear blue and hopefully get more confidence I'm doing it at the right time.

@TeeBagg I really hope af doesn't show up for you and you get your BFP with @Nic555 fingers crossed girls.

@waitingformyturn I know exactly how you feel, it's been a long journey for me so far and I've never had a BFP. it is heartbreaking every month, but once again af is out of the way you will be back thinking positive again ready for the next cycle, because that's what us women do. We crack on and we will get that baby eventually ❤️

Plaw · 31/10/2019 22:14

@TeeBagg thanks! I’m actually doing ok, there’s no point on dwelling on it as it was the first month. AF feeling like it’s the worst one ever sitting here with a hot water bottle on my tummy. Best wishes to all you ladies left waiting! Stay positive ♥️

waitingformyturn · 31/10/2019 20:58

I caved and took a test it was BFN but 11dpo and not FMU. Still got me upset though ☹️

Nic555 · 31/10/2019 19:03

@teebagg I was just the same felt a bit wet 🙈 but just CM can't remember if this is normal for just before AF or not xx

TeeBagg · 31/10/2019 18:34

@wantingformytime and @Mycrazylife85 I feel so sad reading what you wrote. I really hope it's your turn soon.

I just ran to the toilet convinced the witch had arrived but she hadn't! It must have been CM I could feel or something.

Nic555 · 31/10/2019 17:39

@wantingformytime @Mycrazylife85 so sorry to hear you think the witch is on her way. It's so easier to think it'll never happen to us but others have felt the same and it did. It may just take us a little longer. Praying you both get a positive soon. Xx

@Crazywheeloflife I think I can see something but it's really too early to tell. Fingers crossed 🤞 xx

Crazywheeloflife · 31/10/2019 17:12

Help me decide!!! I'm only 7/8 dpo but couldn't help myself! Partner is on hols for half term with his children this week so I have no one to share with

November Bus - testing first week of November 2019
Mycrazylife85 · 31/10/2019 16:13

@wantingformytime I'm in exactly the same place as you. I'm 11dpo and at usually arrives 12dpo. I have noticed the usual yellowish pre-af discharge. I know it's not my time. I wonder if it ever will. It's out of my hands. I know there is no reason it should be my time when there are so many people out there that also want the same. Why should it be me? But it's so hard. I'm 34, married for 7 years. I have lots of god children that I adore and lots of friends with babies. This week a friend has announced they are expecting their second. I don't have one friend with just one baby, they're all on multiples. I've never even had a positive test. I feel so sad. But I don't stress about it or obsess, I just ask it be me one day please

wantingformytime · 31/10/2019 16:00

This is heart breaking every month! AF has started to show her ugly face!

Congratulations to all the positives guys, wishing you a healthy happy pregnancies Smile

HopingforfirstBFP · 31/10/2019 14:09

@Nic555 I’m 7 or 8dpo today. Not 100% sure when I ovulated this month though so can’t be certain.

@TeeBagg I’m due either 7th or 8th but could be anytime from 4th as I’m never regular. No particular reason why I think I’m out just don’t think it’s our month. Also don’t want to get my hopes up Sad

TeeBagg · 31/10/2019 12:35

@Nic555 yay testing buddy! Grin Wink

TeeBagg · 31/10/2019 12:33

@HopingforfirstBFP when are you due? Why do you think you're out this month? Fingers crossed that's not the case xx

Nic555 · 31/10/2019 12:33

@teebagg that's my decision made. I'll test Saturday if she hasn't arrived by then. As that's 12DPO and she usually arrives by mid day. I was only tempted by tomorrow because it's two years since we bought out house.

@HopingforfirstBFP how many DPO are you now? It's so hard to decide. I've never tested before AF always arrives just after I've decided to get some tests. This is the first month I've had some in which makes it hard to resist xx

HopingforfirstBFP · 31/10/2019 12:26

Is anybody testing at the start of next week? I’m still unsure when to test. Although I’m fairly certain it will be a BFN anyway so doesn’t matter when I test Confused

TeeBagg · 31/10/2019 12:08

@Nic555 if AF doesn't show tomorrow I'll buy a test on the way home from work. Then if she still hasn't shown by Saturday I'll test with FMU Saturday morning. I am applauding my own self control here! You should hang on until Saturday and we can test together!!

Nic555 · 31/10/2019 11:04

@waitingformyturn I am the same usually love my cups of tea in morning but tasted disgusting today. I'm sure that's just my sore throat though x

Nic555 · 31/10/2019 11:01

@Mycrazylife85 my sore throat is making me feel Sick . So annoying. I'm off work today and have no plans so really hoping the day doesn't drag. I want to get to tomorrow at least before AF arrives.

@teebagg when do you think you'll test? I'm the same worried AF will arrive keep watching out for any little twinge x

TeeBagg · 31/10/2019 10:37

@Plaw I'm so sorry to hear that. I hope you're OK xx

My period is due around now. Every time I got for an wee I get really anxious in case I find AF is here. Nothing so far though. The last week or so the area around my old c section scar has got really chubby. It might just be that I've been eating too much! But I do wonder if things are starting to swell inside.

waitingformyturn · 31/10/2019 10:16

@Crazywheeloflife welcome! 👋🏻

I woke up today with a blocked nose and pressing head ache - seems to have got much better now I'm up though. My FMU smelt sweet too!

Normally I drink coffee every morning but the past couple of days I haven't fancied it at all and have switched to tea...

Clutching at straws 😹

Crazywheeloflife · 31/10/2019 09:53

Is it ok if I join in?

Af due 8th November and I'm 7dpo I think, temping for the first time this month which is really confusing me. Had positive opk on 22nd and 23rd plus a static smiley on 22nd.

Symptom spotting like crazy!! Feel like a crazy lady

Mycrazylife85 · 31/10/2019 09:28

I've got a sore throat today also @Nic555 I woke up a few times with cramp in my left ovary and today I have a bit of a sore back. Nipples feel hot today and sore. 11dpo and period usually arrives 12dpo. I reckon that'll be right. 😏

Nic555 · 31/10/2019 08:30

@12goldstars definitely a line there but with it being so early and over the time limit i wouldn't trust it.

I've got the worse sore throat. Still think AF is imminent. I may test tomorrow. First month I've ever had the urge to test and probably because I have some in the house. Would rather wait until Saturday but not sure if I can hold out. Usually when I decided to test AF arrives so she'll probably be here soon 😂 xx

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