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Smug? Please answer honestly

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Basil90 · 01/10/2019 08:43

Hi all,

A bit of an odd question to ask perhaps - but if you fell pregnant quickly, do you feel smug about it?

Please only respond if you're able to answer honestly.

Thanks

OP posts:
moonlight1705 · 01/10/2019 08:48

Mostly thankful, I have a high BMI and was dreading having to be investigated for any issues but luckily it all happened within 2 months. So definitely not smug at all, just relieved.

Whether no. 2 will be as quick is another matter.

Ledkr · 01/10/2019 08:47

No cos its nothing I did it's all down to timing.
I feel pg quickly with some and took years with another.

Justincase87 · 01/10/2019 08:46

Definitely not smug, but I felt relieved that we didn't have to go through the stress of worrying about whether it would happen - I concieved very quickly twice, sadly the first time I had a miscarriage, and the second time resulted in my 12 week old DD. I found the miscarriage devastating but not having had the struggle of TTC on top of the loss did have an effect on how I dealt with it.

BillieeNoMates · 01/10/2019 08:46

And thankful.
To be smug over such a thing would be a horrible reaction I think.

BillieeNoMates · 01/10/2019 08:45

I fell pregnant 3 times the first month trying.

Smug? No.
Happy that my body is efficient (in that department anyway, falling apart in most other areas!) and I didn't have to go through the nightmare some women do to get a child, yes.

iwoulddoanything · 01/10/2019 08:44

Why would I? As a haha to those who can't?
That's sick.

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