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When's the best time to get pregnant? Use our interactive ovulation calculator to work out when you're most fertile and most likely to conceive.

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TTC Baby number 1 - Looking for buddies #2

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Katie1109 · 25/09/2019 09:44

Hi girls, started new thread because the old one is running out.
Tag anyone I have forgotten:
@Gigi318
@Hewie30
@Raizelrea
@claireb707
@flossy12
@Nicecupofcoco

@Makeafamily19

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claireb707 · 26/09/2019 15:46

Oh @ceebee21 massive hugs lovely, I can only imagine how you are feeling 😢

Which test is the best one to try tomorrow? I have wandfo amazon cheapys and these

TTC Baby number 1 - Looking for buddies #2
Gigi318 · 26/09/2019 12:52

@ceebee21 oh sweetie, I am so so sorry to hear this. But you sound like you're doing well mentally and that you're in the best possible place. Absolutely, you can make this happen. And you know you'll be fertile after the MC so you've got a good chance at making a go of it. I hope you're doing well xx

ceebee21 · 26/09/2019 12:44

@Gigi318 Well, at the moment I am in limbo.

I had implant removed in July, and fell pregnant straight away, within a couple of weeks.

Went for a scan at 9.5 weeks to be told either not developing properly, or dates are out (by about 3/4 weeks)... went back last week and not much change, still no heartbeat... going back tomorrow to be confirmed MMC, however I have started bleeding already.

I just want it all to be over and get back TTC properly, which I hope to do ASAP.

xx

Gigi318 · 26/09/2019 11:53

@ceebee21 welcome. What CD are you? What cycle? So exciting looking to make our first babas 🥰😍

ceebee21 · 26/09/2019 10:34

Can I join :)

So lovely speaking to other people in the same boat!

xx

Gigi318 · 26/09/2019 09:30

@Raizelrea I agree with you, a positive mindset does really work. I've noticed such a difference to my life by just changing my mindset!

@claireb707 excited for you either way chick!

claireb707 · 26/09/2019 08:56

Oh yes there is definitely lot of what ifs. I keep thinking it would also be amazing to be able to give my parents a fab birthday / Christmas present this year but I'm trying to be realistic to save my sanity

Raizelrea · 26/09/2019 08:40

@claireb707 Aww don't say that! I totally understand not wanting to set yourself up for disappointment of course, though I am into the law of attraction (I know, hippie stuff) so I do think your mindset can influence things to a degree. Either way rooting for you, bring on tomorrow - and bring on your holiday 🌞

Makeafamily19 · 26/09/2019 08:40

@claireb707 haha that's the logic I have as well but I really want to try and be more positive this cycle. I tell myself it's definitely going to be a BFN but the secret part of my brain is like oooooh what if 🤣

claireb707 · 26/09/2019 08:34

I just have that gut feeling, my age is against us, and the gods never seem to be kind to me so thinking negatively and then if it is a positive I can feel happy. That way I'm less disappointed (odd kind of logic works in my head though whether it works in reality is another matter)

Raizelrea · 26/09/2019 08:31

@Katie1109 Thank you for making the new thread! Sorry to hear your test was negative, the good thing is you can now put the last cycle behind you and focus on yoir fertile window rather than the continued limbo!

@Claireb707 What makes you think it will be negative? But you're right if it is you can let loose on your holiday, win - win!

Makeafamily19 · 26/09/2019 08:30

Ah cool thank you @Katie1109 😁

Gigi318 · 26/09/2019 08:30

@Makeafamily19 yay for the FW. Excited for you. Wish I was at mine but have 10 days or so to wait 🤣

Gigi318 · 26/09/2019 08:28

Woohoo, here we go, take 2!

@Hewie30 morning chick! Yay to no AF and cramps could be PG or AF. I usually come on at like 3am but mine arrived at 11pm-12am 🙄 wonderful! Hope she stays away chick!!!

claireb707 · 26/09/2019 08:26

@Makeafamily19 in here

claireb707 · 25/09/2019 09:58

Hey thanks for this 👍