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Katie1109 · 25/09/2019 09:44

Hi girls, started new thread because the old one is running out.
Tag anyone I have forgotten:
@Gigi318
@Hewie30
@Raizelrea
@claireb707
@flossy12
@Nicecupofcoco

@Makeafamily19

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claireb707 · 17/10/2019 09:58

Random pondering, if I got flashing smiley (as in high fertility not peak) do I mark that as a positive or negative ovulation test 🤔

amysara24 · 17/10/2019 09:52

Oh fingers crossed @Gigi318 and @claireb707 that sounds promising for you both!! Today is CD1 for me so I start Clomid tomorrow 😥

Gigi318 · 17/10/2019 09:42

@Lizziedu49 thanks again chick!!! I'm still 🤔

Lizziedu49 · 17/10/2019 09:36

Fingers crossed for you @Gigi318 and @claireb707 🤞🏻🤞🏻🤞🏻🤞🏻

claireb707 · 17/10/2019 09:28

Really don't want to read too much into this in case I end up disappointed but hopefully this is our month I have an interview for a job I was headhunted for today, I'm getting a substantial tax refund tomorrow, if I do get a bfp I would be due around our birthdays next year. The signs are there just need my body to behave

Gigi318 · 17/10/2019 08:48

Ladies, my total lack of symptoms has changed and despite me not wanting to spot them, I couldn't help it. Sorry if this is a long one or TMI for some. Butttt...
I woke feeling a bit wetter, especially after yesterdays seemingly dried up CM day. Watery CM. Then I went to shower and spotted a few thin lines of very pale brown CM. So, I freaked! I'm only 9DPO! On further inspection, it's a pinkish brown rather than my usual AF related dark brown. It was also mixed with non-pinkish brown CM - clearer/milkier CM. So not all pinkish-brown.
I don't want to overthink this, but I'm hoping it's IB 🤞🏻 I've got no other symptoms. No cramps or anything. Just literally spotted it!

What do we think???

@Hewie30 did your friend happen to have this??? 🙈

Gigi318 · 17/10/2019 07:39

@claireb707 perfectttt!!!

claireb707 · 17/10/2019 07:30

Someone (not me) woke up feeling frisky this morning so already in hand 😉😉

Gigi318 · 17/10/2019 07:27

@claireb707 hurrah! We have a result. Quick, get to DTD! Sounds like tomorrow is a winner chick. And you've covered last few days too so it is all sounding pretty perfect to me!

Morning, Morning - how is everyone? I'm 9DPO, still not sleeping well (wide awake at 4am 👀) and my crazy neck seems to be getting better. Woohoo. Not much longer to wait!!

claireb707 · 17/10/2019 07:21

Glad you could be there for your mum @Raizelrea xx

claireb707 · 17/10/2019 07:19

Flashing smiley on opk this morning, but temp dropped so ovulation potentially tomorrow?

Gigi318 · 16/10/2019 19:26

@Raizelrea you're a wonderful daughter, chick. I bet your Mum was so glad to have you there for her. I don't think an awful lot, to be honest. We're all going a bit doolalley. I'm got a stiff neck and like 👀 is this a PG thing. @Hewie30's cycle seems to be shortening. @claireb707 is hopefully about to O. @Katie1109 has rather annoyingly got her AF. And @Makeafamily19 is DTD!

Raizelrea · 16/10/2019 19:05

@Gigi318 Thanks hon! Just landed back in the UK though we still have a 3 hour train ride ahead. It's been a rough few days, completely drained but glad I could be there for my mum. What have I missed?

Gigi318 · 16/10/2019 18:59

@Hewie30 ahhh really 🙊🙊🙊 that's what it was. And so mild I barely noticed it. Eeeeek me either, I'm so excited for future us. Hehehehe so funny! Stupid emojis! Awwww so exciting! It's crazy to think that we will both have a baby one day. My goodness, I'd be the funniest Mum. You know the 'don't we look like sisters' kind - IT ME 🙋‍♀️ Me too. I've only had stark white BFNs and then obviously that whole palaver with flooding the test last month which is literally the most me thing ever to do 🤣🙈

Hewie30 · 16/10/2019 18:50

@Gigi318 Honestly!!! She said it was like a pulling sensation then like little twinges. I've got everything crossed for you 🤞🤞. I can't wait to get excited with you over your BFP 😍. Hahaha their definatly not what we're looking for!! Might have to email them and ask!!
Awwh id love a little boy 💙. I'd be happy with 2 lines even if their faint 🤣🤣

Gigi318 · 16/10/2019 18:23

@Hewie30 OMG are you serious? Like light pulling, barely noticeable, and like a day and a half max? Maybe two? I don't overly know as when I felt them I was trying to ignore them due to my vow not to symptom spot 😂 or do you mean she had this dodgy neck sitch going on too 🤣🤪🙈Oh I tickle myself!!!
What DPO is she?? Gahhh!!!
Oh no they don't!! 🎾🎱 these are the two closest and they are so un-pea and poppy seed like it's ridiculous 😂
Absolutely babe. It's just one little swimmer you need. And those old wives tend to say male swimmers are speedy so you may have a little 💙 on his way tonight 🙊😍😩 oh it breaks me! Can't wait for you to get your BFP!

Hewie30 · 16/10/2019 18:16

@gigi318 Oooo that sounds good!! Another friend I made on here got her positive tonight and she had those exact symptoms! Not trying to get your hopes up or nothing 😜. Oh nooo! How dare they?! They don't have a pea either 😂.
Yeah it definitely sounds it which is good! Thats calmed me down a lot!
Yeah this is true! Hopefully that one time will work 🤞🤞

Gigi318 · 16/10/2019 18:14

@Lizziedu49 oh yes!!!! So close to testing now. But if this is your first month off of BC it could also be a long one!

Gigi318 · 16/10/2019 18:13

@claireb707 no way, you're a scientist????? Hats off to you babe. I've just always been really aware of my cycle as not been on BC for years and used to keep an eye on CM so not to DTD then 🤣 it should be something like.... dry after AF then starts to get creamier, then watery/slippery/more wet on run up to O. On O day or just before its then like egg white consistency (EWCM) or sticky and stretchy. Theennnn it dries up again or goes creamy/cloudy colour post O! And can stop again before AF 😅 AND BREATHE. Sorry if you already know this 😂😂😂

Lizziedu49 · 16/10/2019 18:06

@Gigi318 I'm on CD 25, 11 DPO ☺️

claireb707 · 16/10/2019 17:54

Maybe I need to start rummaging as well as temping and opks then 😂😂

Honestly you'd never guess I was a 40 year old scientist 😂😂I'm useless at this sort of stuff

Gigi318 · 16/10/2019 17:50

@claireb707 I always find CM a real good indicator. Always wet and watery when before and during O. Then goes dry and creamy right after O done. So if you're feeling wetter (soz) then could be O!

Makeafamily19 · 16/10/2019 17:50

So from what I've read about charting (though as I said it can vary), you have a sharp temp spike which indicates ovulation. Then your temps should remain higher (above a cover line, my app did this for me lol), my temp then dropped dramatically the day AF started. If you are PG then they remain high. So I knew I was out the morning my temp dropped despite AF not coming till the afternoon.
Things can make it inaccurate though, as you have to temp at the same time, just after you wake up after prolonged sleep. If you are ill, wake at different times, have the heating on etc it can affect it. It definitely is a challenge!

I don't think you've ovulated yet @claireb707 though you won't know till you temp a few more days probably. Just have to go with it and see what happens and DTD as much as possible so you're covered like @Gigi318 says 😊

My husband has a bad cold and still DTD last night 😂 he's as committed as me that's for sure!

claireb707 · 16/10/2019 17:42

Er pass, I've not been checking cm 😂

Gigi318 · 16/10/2019 17:40

@Makeafamily19 literally I have idea what I'm talking about but because your peak looks as if it happened right at the end of your FW, maybe Claire's is tomorrow then?

@claireb707 you've still got tomorrow and those FW could be completely wrong and may adjust by the end of the month. I'd keep DTD just to be sure. What's going on with CM atm? Is it watery??