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MisssC3025 · 17/09/2019 17:27

Hey everyoneSmile

Please join me on my journey of TTC baby no 1 (5 months of TTC). It can be a rollercoaster of emotions and I think a positive thread of news, updates and tips is needed!

Feel free to introduce yourselves and explain where you're all at in your journeys. Smile

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MisssC3025 · 23/09/2019 10:51

@StephyRose haha tingly nipple made me chuckle. I'm very excited for you. It's definitely there. Have you told your DP?

My boobs ache like never before and I'm going loo for a wee more than usual! I don't drink a-lot of water (which is very bad) so I'm wondering how can I be weeing so much! Got up to go loo 4 times last night. Sorry tmi lol.

I'm a little miffed as my basal thermometer wasn't working so couldn't work out when I OV! This morning it finally figured it out and apparently I ovulated on Monday! We didn't DTD on Monday but we did the days before Monday! I hope it hasn't ruined our chances 😢

Really want Sunday to hurry up so I can test!! Eek!

Have a nice day ladies.

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StephyRose · 23/09/2019 10:28

Thank you @Rinoa, trying not to get my hopes up as it is faint. But FC 🤞🤞

Nothing really @MisssC3025 which is making me doubt. I had almost 48 hours of a dull ache like period pains this weekend but no period which was very random. And I had a tingley nipple a few times. 🤣

MisssC3025 · 23/09/2019 08:36

@StephyRose have you had any feelings? Symptoms?

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Rinoa · 23/09/2019 07:32

@StephyRose second test is looking good definitely a bit darker and more visible! 😀

StephyRose · 23/09/2019 07:22

Thank you @MisssC3025 @Jurassiclover and @imnewtothis ... ❤ really got my hopes up now as its defo darker. Why do we do this to ourselves?

I've got four more tests (ouch, bank balance!) coming to work tomorrow ... so I won't test again now until Wednesday which is meant to be my AF due date. I have everything crossed. 🤞🤞🤞

Thank you all again 💗

imnewtothis · 23/09/2019 07:06

@StephyRose I see it, hopefully it progresses for you, keeping my fingers crossed

Jurassiclover · 23/09/2019 06:47

@MisssC3025 yeah definitely a bit of a guessing game atm Confused but we're just trying to BD every other day and hope for the best. I think if nothing this cycle I'll buy some OPK's just to double check when OV is happening and then I'll try following SMEP!

Yeah I'll keep updated how I'm getting on! Had some what could have been the start of EWCM this morning so maybe this cycle will be shorter 🤞

Sending lots of baby dust your way!

@StephyRose that looks promising to me! Keeping my fingers crossed for you!

MisssC3025 · 23/09/2019 06:36

@StephyRose I see it !! It wouldn't necessarily be darker! 🤗🤗🤗🤗 keep testing but I see it !!!

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StephyRose · 23/09/2019 06:12

Comparing the two, this mornings is definitely darker.

Gah. Going slightly mad! My cycles since coming off the implant are anything from 24 days to 28 but the average is 26. Based on average, I'm due Wednesday on the 25th but with two days to go, I thought it would be darker than that.

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StephyRose · 23/09/2019 06:09

Hi folks,

This is this mornings test. Definitely something there but again faint - after two days would have expected it to be darker. I feel like this is just a dodgy batch of FRER tests. 🤷🏼‍♀️

Still darker than Saturdays test. Not sure what to think. Hmm

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MisssC3025 · 22/09/2019 21:18

@SMiles14 thanks for sharing what you're taking !! I need to get some folic definitely. Took seven seas "trying to conceive for a baby" tablets a few months ago. Took just for one month and didn't work (but guess I needed to have kept taking them maybe 🤷🏻‍♀️)

I do wonder if most of the vitamins we take doesn't even get into our bodies we just wee it out 😂😂

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MisssC3025 · 22/09/2019 21:08

@Jurassiclover aw bless you so it's a guessing game for you atm! I hope you're cycles get sorted very soon!!

Keep us posted on how you feel etc won't you!?

My AF is due on Sunday 29th apparently but my app can't figure out when I OV as my thermometer wasn't working! They've sent me a new one but I have no idea now 🤷🏻‍♀️🤦🏻‍♀️

So if I don't get it by Sunday I'll take a PT! 🤞🏼🤞🏼🤞🏼🤞🏼 this week better hurry !!! I'm hoping this will be the month as I'm working in Germany next month during fertile window 😩😩😩 so will have to wait until Nov 🤦🏻‍♀️

Baby dust to all!

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MisssC3025 · 22/09/2019 21:05

@StephyRose have all fingers crossed🤞🏼 let us know and send send away pictures we will surely squint!

I need to buy some folic plus it's good for men too? So I've heard 🤷🏻‍♀️🤷🏻‍♀️ let me know how you get on with the lubricant! Heard people use egg whites and succeed but the thought of that 🤢

I get you 100% I used to be a primary teacher all my teacher friends tried to plan that too! I'm no longer a teacher in primary, so I don't have the holidays anymore but if I did I would have wanted to plan the same!

Good luck!!!

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SMiles14 · 22/09/2019 20:24

@StephyRose good luck, I see something v v faint as you say but definitely worth trying again in a couple of days! I hope you can keep busy til then and the days fly by!! 
I'm still only on cd 6, but been busy packing before we move on Thursday. We have started dtd every other day already to make sure the swimmers are super fresh when we get there!
@MisssC3025 I have been taking preconception vitamins with folic in, I believe it's best to take at least folic before you get pg as it's most important in the first few weeks. The rest is probably all pointless but I need the iron and B vits anyway 🤷🏻‍♀️

Jurassiclover · 22/09/2019 19:16

@MisssC3025 I'm feeling good! I still feel like baby number 1 is so far away though, like I feel hopeful but also feel like it's going to take ages idk why! My af according to clue is due 18/10 but that's based on my last cycle being bloody 42 days. Recently off the pill so I'm pretty sure my cycles will be weird for a bit, first was 28 days then 42 now I'm on cycle 3 after the pill so not really 100% when AF will show or even when I'll ovulate 😂

When's your AF due?

Rinoa · 22/09/2019 19:15

@StephyRose sorry for the typo 😂 obviously meant to put hope* !

StephyRose · 22/09/2019 19:14

Meant to tag @Rinoa in that last message 😋 x

StephyRose · 22/09/2019 19:11

Thank you!! Flowers I think DP would think he had super sperm 🤣😋

StephyRose · 22/09/2019 19:10

@MisssC3025 Thanks for being a cheerleader!! Flowers It is ridiculously faint but I keep thinking it's not pure white though ... I'll try again tomorrow and let you all know. I'm hopeful but at the same time its cycle #1 so I'll pick myself and start again. Smile

I'm taking folic acid and these tablets called Vital DHA. They are Omega 3 fish oils and they are for pregnancy and pre-conception. They are meant to be good at preserving egg health. See? I've bought it hook, line and sinker. Love a gimmick me! I might try Concieve Plus for next cycle but if not, I'll try PreSeed. Heard great things about both.

Another reason I'm really putting pressure on myself is that I'm a secondary school teacher and the perfect time to fall is Nov/Dec for a September baby so that you almost get a full year off and the maternity pay works out best that way. For example if I had a baby in June/July which wouldn't be the end of the world, I'd actually get paid less for August/the holiday than I usually would. So a lot of teachers plan to fall in Winter and so many colleagues actually do🤣

I think that is why I am trying every gimmick going. 😋

Rinoa · 22/09/2019 19:05

@StephyRose I totally see a super faint line hoe it gets darker for you ! 🤞

MisssC3025 · 22/09/2019 19:02

Hey! @StephyRose I can see it so so faintly! Omg fingers crossed for you! Try again in next few days and let us know! 🤞🏼🤞🏼🤞🏼

Yes I'm going to try that plan to next month if AF arrives! Haha I've been considering pre seed or any others too and folic acid. Have any of you started taking those?

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StephyRose · 22/09/2019 18:52

Oops sorry for the double (now triple!) post 🙈

StephyRose · 22/09/2019 18:51

Won't let me post a photo. I'll try again ....

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StephyRose · 22/09/2019 18:50

Hi @MisssC3025 and everyone,

Why does Sunday night roll around so soon? Literally cant wait for next weekend already ...

Feel ridiculous for posting this but here goes. It's a real squinter! 🤣 Will try again tomorrow morning at 13DPO but if not, on to next month. I'm going to try that Sperm Meets Egg plan.

Plus I bought that Concieve Plus Fertility Lubricant ... 🙈 I'm a consumers dream, I know!!

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MisssC3025 · 22/09/2019 18:49

@Jurassiclover great idea!

How are you feeling with it all? When's your AF due? X

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