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Tww x2

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AutismFamily · 17/09/2019 12:03

@helensss @peassando @sauty @ripleysfirst hey ladies the thread says it's been closed when I tried to reply so started a new one as didn't want to lose contact with you all hope that's ok. Xxx

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Helensss · 21/09/2019 07:55

@Ripleysfirst glad you had a good evening out and hope you starfished the bed!!

Helensss · 21/09/2019 07:54

@AutismFamily I had a tiny bit of spotting on Thursday afternoon but it stopped so I think it’s fine, 7 weeks today!!! Such a rollercoaster this beginning bit after my losses but I’m feeling positive, how are you doing? Xx

Roxybaby12 · 21/09/2019 02:25

Hi @AutismFamily I’ve been having some slightly brown spotting but only when I wipe (sorry tmi) I think it’s af as now 19dpo (roughly). But on cd32 which is would be my longest cycle yet!!! Was getting cramps and boobs not so sore. Obviously haven’t bothered to test-I don’t think implantation spotting would show this late.

How have you been? Xx

Ripleysfirst · 21/09/2019 00:45

Hi @AutismFamily I’m doing ok, no symptoms to speak of... spent the evening out with friends, had a lovely time, home now in bed with the cats, have to admit it’s kinda nice having the whole bed to myself Grin How are you doing?

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AutismFamily · 20/09/2019 22:46

How are u? @roxybaby12 xx

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AutismFamily · 20/09/2019 22:44

Hey ladies how are we all? Any updates on anything @sauty @helenss @ripleysfirst xxx

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Sauty · 19/09/2019 20:16

Very true @Roxybaby I feel like a weight has been lifted, and that can only be a good thing.

Roxybaby12 · 19/09/2019 20:06

Hi ladies, sorry to hear it was negative @Sauty but as you said-at least you have an answer now! I bought loads of these cheapies that all looked like faints positives! it’s awful!! This is hard enough without crappy tests! X

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AutismFamily · 19/09/2019 19:25

@sauty I think me and u must both keep getting these dud test xx

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Sauty · 19/09/2019 19:14

Hiya everyone I’m back again!!
Just to let you know I stood my ground, got a Frer and also a negative result, so my mind can now be rested and for the record - DONT USE First Step tests from Amazon, the 10miu ones as they clearly mess with peoples minds giving potential positives when they are negative. I’m so relieved that in a way it’s not positive because I feel like I actually have a definitive answer. Well in so much as I trust the Frer brand. I’m now on day 35 of a cycle so I’ll just plod along, no stress no nothing. 👏

Helensss · 19/09/2019 16:22

Arghhh a bit more brown spotting, just noticed when went to the loo 😭

Roxybaby12 · 19/09/2019 16:09

@Ripleysfirst bless you!! I know how hard and long that wait is too!! Lol.. you’ll need to take up a new hobby for a few days! Keep strong-you can do it!

Thanks for the kind words ladies.. the ectopic was pretty rough and lost not only my tube and baby but also my job! But I do already have two beautiful daughters so I’m already lucky. I just don’t feel ready to throw in the towel yet!!
A few times today I’ve had slight cramps and twinges and thought af had arrived but when I checked...nothing!! My first two were easy and straight forward! The ectopic I didn’t show positive until 18dpo on a first response so holding out a couple more days!! My longest cycle has been 31 days so far this year so this adds to my need to wait a couple more days.

Hoping everyone’s feeling ok and had a good day? Xx

Ripleysfirst · 19/09/2019 15:23

@helensss I’m trying so hard to just wait for the first day of my supposed period. I’m pretty regular so if AF doesn’t come that day I’ll be doing alllllll the tests! I’m currently 9 dpo and a week to my period so by then I should be 16dpo and the test should be conclusive!

Helensss · 19/09/2019 15:20

@ripleysfirst I got the faintest faintest positive on clear blue at 13dpo but super strong on first response so I’d wait a bit perhaps even though it’s sooo hard x

Ripleysfirst · 19/09/2019 15:16

@autismfamily well the ones I have are the Clearblue early detection ones! But if both are negative I’ll shell put for a first response before accepting the inevitable.

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AutismFamily · 19/09/2019 14:33

@Ripleysfirst u should get some first response early detection they are the best ones Hun xxx

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Ripleysfirst · 19/09/2019 12:25

@Sauty the whole thing is such a mental strain isn’t it!

Ripleysfirst · 19/09/2019 12:23

I’ve got two Clearblues that I’m forcing myself to wait with until the first day of my supposed period... it’s torture waiting!

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AutismFamily · 19/09/2019 11:52

@helensss I know it's mental the amount we have got lol. My boobs a still tingley and achey a bit like I have something down my bra pinching my nipple lmao xxx

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Sauty · 19/09/2019 11:50

I’m really angry ladies. Hubby said no Frer til weekend, manages to convince him I needed one today. We’ve been out (he’s on annual leave from work) he called into Co-op n has come out with a cheap test. I’m fuming as this is really messing with my head.

Helensss · 19/09/2019 11:28

@sauty yes I’m not sure I can see something, maybe a squinter though! Have you tried a first response? Bodies are strange!!

@autismfamily ooo wonder why you were so tired! I have heard that about lines on those before positive test. I wonder how much we have all spent on tests collectively🤣

@Roxybaby12 so sorry for your loss, that must’ve been scary as well. us women have to go through a lot,
Maybe do another test in a couple ofdays? Xx

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AutismFamily · 19/09/2019 10:31

@sauty now I will be honest I couldn't really see a line in the other only if I squinted and turned my phone but that one I can see one definitely. How are u feeling? I have just woke up went to bed around 11 last night clonked out and slept right through my alarms and tbh could have easily slept longer. Xx
@Roxybaby12 every time is different so don't count yourself out just because its not the same as before. Also remember as the saying goes your not out until af shows. Sorry to hear about Ur loss we all know on here how that feels so our hearts go out to u and sending hugs xxx

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Roxybaby12 · 19/09/2019 06:59

these

Roxybaby12 · 19/09/2019 06:59

This tests are horrible aren’t they?? I wish it was easier.. I downloaded an app where I could convert to an almost photo negative type picture. Apparently it’s easier to see the second line (if there is one). Xx

Roxybaby12 · 19/09/2019 06:55

Oh and the back ache... oh my days it’s been horrible-I’ve never ever had pain in my back like this before! 🙀 xx