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AutismFamily · 17/09/2019 12:03

@helensss @peassando @sauty @ripleysfirst hey ladies the thread says it's been closed when I tried to reply so started a new one as didn't want to lose contact with you all hope that's ok. Xxx

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AutismFamily · 19/04/2020 12:33

@Sauty well least it's healthy food lol. I'm glad u not suffering with sickness Hun. Xx

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Sauty · 19/04/2020 11:25

Thank you @AutismFamily, yes we had decided we would all get together when social distancing is over. I don’t think this pregnancy is anything to do with my mum though as she never wanted me to have any more children after my first. In fact I think she would be horrified! 😬 I’m feeling good thank you, a little bit boob sore but nothing to complain about, no sickness, just an increased obsession with carrots and peas?! They currently taste so delicious I’m having them with every meal.

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AutismFamily · 19/04/2020 11:17

@sauty I'm sorry to hear about your mum and how you had to do the funeral. I do get what you are saying and that it's needs must but I also understand that in the end all you want is the very best for their final journey. Why don't you think about arranging a wake after all this is over? So you can say your goodbyes how you all wanted to. That is what we are going to do, mine was my adopted dad's father, but he is USA he moved over to be with my adopted mum, so he cant even go to the funeral or anything. What makes it worse no one even told him he was ill he literally woke up to a txt yesterday morning saying and I quote " hope your sitting down, your father died this morning from covid-19. I will give you some time to take it in"
Another way to see it is your mum will live on in your new baby. Don't be discouraged but colour of lines after the first 2 weeks loads of things can change the colour and the doctor just takes into account that there is a line not the darkness off it Hun. I hope this make u feel better. Have u got many symptoms this time? Xxx

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Sauty · 19/04/2020 10:06

Number 13 today and I’d say that’s ok.

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Sauty · 19/04/2020 08:25

Hi everyone! All ok at my end so far. I’m at that point where I worry about seeing blood when I go for a pee. My cheapo test yesterday was a little lighter than the day before, I’m hopeful that it was because i had forgot to test and only remembered on my 4th wee of the day. Fingers crossed. I’ll let you know if today’s is back to bright and loud.
Sorry to hear of your loss @AutismFamily, I do know what your going through. A girl I used to work with died two weeks back from Covid, she was only 44 😔.
I also had to bury my Mum on Friday after a long battle with Parkinson’s and Dementia. She was only 71. Worst part is, she’s been in a care home for 16 months and we were unable to visit her in her final 2 weeks and so we could only video chat. She had stopped talking altogether at that point so I don’t even know if she knew who I was. My sister and I had to arrange a very small gathering, with no church, no family limo following the hearse, socially distanced 20 people maximum stars the graveside service, and no wake. We weren’t even allowed to comfort our extended Families. Really felt very badly let down for our Mum, but restrictions are there to protect everyone and we must follow them if we are ever to get rid of this nasty Covid. I saw at least 28 friends, neighbours and people who mum knew, at their doors and windows to wave my mum off on her final journey from our street, and then Mums old house (i only live 50 yards from our family home on the next road). That was really something really special.
We’re doing ok though as Mum was suffering really badly and had no quality of life, she’s at peace now and I take comfort in that. She’s with our Dad who passed in 2011, no doubt nagging at him like she did in life. My teenager has taken it badly, so I’m keeping my eye closely on him, he’s 13 and was always very close to his grandma. X

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AutismFamily · 19/04/2020 00:51

Wow hello everyone, I had been logged out too so wasn't getting notifications.
How is everyone doing? @Sauty yay omg got everything crossed for u and putting you in my prayers.
@Helensss how's pregnancy going for u?
@peasando yes I have got kids. It hasn't been to bad tbh other than we can't see daddy 😭. His work has had loads of cases and he just don't want to put us at risk, especially as our 3 year old was in hospital just before Christmas with breathing issues her oxygen levels kept sitting at 81 with oxygen mask at 100% and it's meant to be at 95. So we have to keep a close eye on her they think she is asthmatic. I'm still not with baby but I'm seeing a doctor for my other problems and she said that my body just hasn't got enough to even look after me let alone hold a baby. She said that as scary as it's sounds my body is on shut down mode and can't work which is why my nails hair and all that don't grow and why I'm so ill.
How is everyone else coping? We have unfortunately had a death today due to this horrible thing. Such strange times xxx

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peasando · 19/04/2020 00:36

OMG

I didn't realise I'd been logged out - just logged back in and have loads of notifications!

@Helensss - I am so happy for you, can't wait to hear when baba arrives. How are you feeling? Have you thought of names yet?

@Sauty OMFG!!! Dude, maybe this time... you can't imagine how much I have hoped and prayed for this to happen for you.! This is tremendously exciting!!

@AutismFamily how are you hun? I think you already have kids...how is lockdown going? I finding it v hard with my 3 year old, if it was just me and izzy it would be a dream haha! Xxx

Ripleysfirst · 17/04/2020 16:24

Sadly @helensss it’s not my month! AF showed up yesterday. Oh well, on to the next month!

Helensss · 17/04/2020 16:17

@Sauty that’s amazing! I remember shaking like a leaf when I finally got the 2-3 hope all ok still!

@Ripleysfirst how are you? X

Sauty · 15/04/2020 23:46

@Helensss and @Ripleysfirst it’s very very early days to be fair, and I’m being realistic of my chances with my history. But there again, we can’t help but be a little bit giddy that this could be our sticky bean. 🥰

Ripleysfirst · 15/04/2020 22:32

Omg congrats Sauty!!!!

Sauty · 15/04/2020 21:30

Got this today after a week of using 10miu tests and them getting darker every day. 😬

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Helensss · 15/04/2020 21:20

How you getting on @Sauty xx

Helensss · 11/04/2020 16:13

@Sauty not yet no I’ll be sure to let you know! I’m 36 weeks so not expecting an arrival for at least a few weeks. You got a positive yesterday? Eeek! Praying it sticks for you! Xx

Ripleysfirst · 10/04/2020 18:30

@sauty I really really hope this time you’ve got a sticky one ❤️

Sauty · 10/04/2020 18:27

@Ripleysfirst, good luck Hun! I got a + yesterday, very clearly. So just waiting to bleed now just like the last 5 times that I got a +.

Ripleysfirst · 10/04/2020 17:35

Hi all, I’m back in the 2ww... 10dpo and nauseous for 5 days now!

Sauty · 10/04/2020 16:54

@Helensss - do you have your baby yet? Xx

Sauty · 27/02/2020 12:12

@Helensss we absolutely do want to see!!!

Helensss · 27/02/2020 10:16

It is! It’s really creeping up, got to start thinking about the birth now, hoping for a natural one at the birth centre but we’ll see!

All the rubbish time does feel like a lifetime ago, do have to pinch myself sometimes and remember how I felt and how lucky I am now! Xx

I’ll share a picture of him when he’s here if you’d like to see 🙂🙂

Sauty · 26/02/2020 08:10

@helensss wow your pregnancy is motoring fast now! Just think you’ll have your baby in your arms potentially in 6-10 weeks!
It know it’s not been a perfectly smooth road for you, but once he’s here you’ll forget all those concerns and worry about everything else instead 😀

Helensss · 26/02/2020 08:04

@sauty I’m 29+2 now! All is going well although baby is lying transverse at the moment but I’ve been told still plenty of time to move around.

Sorry to hear that, but I’m glad you are ok! Such a draining process for you xxx

Sauty · 26/02/2020 07:56

Hey @helensss how are you doing, and how many weeks are you now? Hope your well!
All ok here, I did lose again but it was absolutely no surprise and therefore it’s not taken any toll on me mentally or physically. I’m excited to hear about these babies being born though!!!

Helensss · 26/02/2020 07:04

Hi everyone, sorry I didn’t think anyone still used this group! Sorry to hear that @sauty hope you’re ok??? Xx

@peasando congratulations on your new arrival 💓 xxx

Sauty · 18/02/2020 19:20

Aw lickle Isabelle how fantastic!!! Congratulations I’m thrilled for you. Is she a good baby, I bet everyone is smitten. 🥰😍🥰
Started bleeding today, no suprise at all. Can’t even get to 5 weeks now. I’m passed it I think, 4 m/c in a row and 5 in total. Blah.