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When's the best time to get pregnant? Use our interactive ovulation calculator to work out when you're most fertile and most likely to conceive.

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Tww x2

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AutismFamily · 17/09/2019 12:03

@helensss @peassando @sauty @ripleysfirst hey ladies the thread says it's been closed when I tried to reply so started a new one as didn't want to lose contact with you all hope that's ok. Xxx

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Sauty · 19/09/2019 06:54

Today’s head mess:

Tww x2
Roxybaby12 · 19/09/2019 06:50

Hi ladies,
Thank you.. I think I’m a bit further along in the tww, actually on cd30 or what I think is 17dpo. I’m not actively trying-well I am-he’s not!! I had an ectopic in March and it scared him, so now he’s not so sure about trying again. Anyway, I have had cramps, sore boobs (but not as full and heavy feeling as last time) and feeling tired for well over a week now! No sign of af and bfn on first response! I do check my cervix (which you can’t rely on) but it’s been high for 4 days straight now-usually moves around a lot! I’m just totally confused!

How are all of you feeling today? Xx

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AutismFamily · 18/09/2019 22:58

@sauty so did a clear blue opk and no smile but the line on the stick was dark so maybe I ovulated over the past few days. But I have googled it and seen a few things about it being ovulation and a few saying they had it the week before they got their bfp so I'm really confused lol. You will have to let us know and send a pic for us to look at we love a good old test here lol. @Roxybaby12 hey sweetie welcome to our little chat I'm Jo and as the others have said we welcome everyone. What advice do u need Hun xxx

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Ripleysfirst · 18/09/2019 22:12

Hi @roxybaby12 please join! I only joined this chat like 3 days ago:) things get deep fast haha.
Are you ok?

Helensss · 18/09/2019 22:12

@roxybaby12 welcome! Of course you can join, we’ve all joined at different times 🤗 xx

Roxybaby12 · 18/09/2019 21:26

Hi ladies,

Could I please join you for some advice? I don’t want to impose as seems like you have a wonderful group chat going on-amazing to read such support of each other!
But I don’t have anyone to speak to and can’t find any other thread ☹️ Xx

Sauty · 18/09/2019 21:19

Let us know how you get on @Autismfamily!
I’ll be re-testing in the morning. I still have no symptoms or anything although I did feel a bit 🤢 at lunchtime, but probably just stressing myself out with wondering.

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AutismFamily · 18/09/2019 20:21

@ripleysfirst I just got some going home now to do it lol xxx

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Ripleysfirst · 18/09/2019 17:16

Last time ovulated it was about a week earlier in the cycle than expected so it’s definitely possible!
Have you got opks?

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AutismFamily · 18/09/2019 17:11

@helensss the reason I ask is I got alot of clear cm and it smells sweet down there lol. I have had a few twinges nothing major, I'm very erm for want of a better saying like a dog on heat haha but calendar says I'm due to ovulate in a week 🤔. So I'm wondering if I'm ovulating early. Oh and my boobs are sore. XXX
@ripleysfirst I get u hun. Well only time will tell but as we said we are here for u xxx

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Helensss · 18/09/2019 15:59

@AutismFamily not sure I could smell when ovulating? Mainly for me it was just the ewcm and an ache on either side.

@ripleysfirst hope you are ok. Glad you have the support of friends, and on here too of course!

Ripleysfirst · 18/09/2019 15:22

@autismfamily I don’t think he even knows it’s a possibility. He didn’t want to know when I was ovulating- said it took the fun out of the sex...

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AutismFamily · 18/09/2019 15:19

@ripleysfirst Definitely Hun. Have u spoke about what Ur gonna do if u are?

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Ripleysfirst · 18/09/2019 15:12

@autismfamily thank you lovely, it really does help to have this group.

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AutismFamily · 18/09/2019 15:05

@ripleysfirst bless ya Hun I get that it's hard but u never know some time apart might be just what u need. We are all here for u

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Ripleysfirst · 18/09/2019 14:54

@autismfamily I’m doing ok... he moved some of his stuff out today, but I got to see the dog which was lovely.
Was out with my friend so they stayed with me while he was in the house. Made it a bit easier to cope.
It’s just so sad. Symptom wise nothing more, took a test and it was negative, but then again it’s way too early anyway!

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AutismFamily · 18/09/2019 14:42

@Ripleysfirst how are u doing hun

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AutismFamily · 18/09/2019 14:41

I have got a random question for u all bit of a tmi but can u smell when u ovulate? Xxx

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Helensss · 18/09/2019 12:46

*straining out my bra meant!

Helensss · 18/09/2019 12:46

Thank you all so much! I think I worry about missed miscarriages now but hopefully will get a scan soon and calm down.

Yes my boobs are still big and sore and straight got out my bra which is good. My dog was limping after our walk this morning and I got a bit of thorn out his paw, he licked me after and welled up with tears so I’m definitely hormonal!

I looked at that thanks @peasando

Can’t wait for my midwife appointment!

Sauty · 18/09/2019 10:53

@peasando that’s lovely, a great reassurance for @helensss

peasando · 18/09/2019 10:43

@Sauty bodies are confusing things aren't they! I don't know if the strength of the line is necessarily a good indicator and like the girls said you might have OV'd late? Keep an eye I guess I still totally see something there!

@Helensss bless you, I was exactly the same, stressing when I couldn't feel symptoms etc but it's totally normal for them to come and go. Just relax (easier said than done) and enjoy the break from the nausea...it may well be back! Or you might be lucky and it might not! 😃

Don't know if this will help you but it did me - you put your details in and it personalises it to your circumstances - obviously it can't be totally accurate but I found it quite reassuring, especially watching the numbers go down the further along I got (I can't do it any more as I'm too far along!)

datayze.com/miscarriage-chart.php

Sauty · 18/09/2019 09:45

@Helensss, embrace the reprieve from the nausea, have you been eating a balanced diet as that can help sickness loads. If your boobs are still tender and looking like you’ve just had them pumped up then I’m sure everything is fine.
And remember, every passing day is one step closer to your baby - and every week your chances of a full term pregnancy increase each week.
So grab a Take A Break, a cup of decaf and relax, meditate and think happy thoughts. X

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AutismFamily · 18/09/2019 09:43

Morning @sauty sorry to hear Ur pupy isn't feeling well I know what's that's like I was on my way to church last weekend and noticed blood asked what it was to then see my baby boy had ripped his nail off so had to take him to emergency vet. I think I can see something there. I get what your saying about thinking it should be a darker line but that's not always the case u might have just ovulated later hun. Why don't u go doctor and ask for bloods.
@helensss that is perfectly normal Hun all symptoms come and go at different times don't worry xxx

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Helensss · 18/09/2019 09:28

Odd isn’t it, do you know when you ovulated? Bodies are strange!

Hope puppy feels better, they are like our babies aren’t they.

Advise re nausea I felt so sick on monday and nothing since. Will be 7 weeks this weekend, is this normal? I am still feeling lightheaded at times and sore massive boobs, just a bit panicky x