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TWW - testing 4th September

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Blossomingflower94 · 24/08/2019 15:18

Anyone else in the TWW and want to keep each other sane?

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Raizelrea · 17/09/2019 22:07

@Blossomingflower94 Thank you for the support! 😊 Ooh definitely if you ovulated on Sunday you should still have pretty good chances from DTD Friday before. Got everything crossed for you!

@Jojowash Aww how lovely, that is one good blob ❤️

Jojowash · 17/09/2019 16:02

6 weeks scan today. Saw heartbeat and little blob x x

TWW - testing 4th September
Blossomingflower94 · 17/09/2019 15:08

Yay!! It's so exciting isn't it! Carry on with all the DTD and you'll get your BFP in no time 😊

My BBT puts me ovulating the same day I got my peak so hopefully I'm not out this month.

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Raizelrea · 17/09/2019 07:27

Flashing smiley reported! 😊 It is definitely reassuring to see that my body is doing what it's supposed to be doing 😊

Raizelrea · 16/09/2019 20:19

@Blossomingflower94 Thanks lovely! Yes we'll still DTD every other day if it feels right, I wouldn't want my OH to feel like I'm only interested in him in my feetile window either way. I've noticed that I'm fairly energised for a Monday evening so maybe my estrogen levels are finally picking up 😊

The opposite shifts have to be tough! Fingers crossed for next month - though I wouldn't give up on this one yet, it seems a lot of people end up conceiving when they least expect it 😊

Blossomingflower94 · 16/09/2019 16:41

@chaos that's so funny! How are you doing this month?

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Chaosonthehorizon · 16/09/2019 16:04

Blossomingflower94 I think we are exactly synchronised!!

Blossomingflower94 · 16/09/2019 16:03

@Raizelrea I know - blooming work interfering with our lives! Next month definitely looks more promising depending on the length of cycle I have. I might end up booking a day off so we have the right days together. Crazy.

Yeah it's difficult in terms of flashing smileys. I'd still go by the SMEP and do it every other day from day 8 until PEAK and then three days running. You may only have 1 high fertility day and then move straight onto peak the next. My friend didn't have any high and just went from nothing to peak and now she's 20 weeks pregnant! Chin up :)

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Raizelrea · 16/09/2019 08:42

@Blossomingflower94 Sorry to hear that, what timing! I guess things happen the way they're supposed to ☹️ Still not entirely impossible that you could get pregnant if you ovulate today, Friday 13th could be doing its magic! It's not out of the question for sperm to survive for 3 days (I know the 5 days sounds like much but 3 is not impossible).

I've still not even had a flashing, CD12 now. I don't like how the OPKs make me think (thoughts like "no point having sex today") so I don't think I'll be doing them again next month.

Blossomingflower94 · 16/09/2019 07:40

November that's so exciting for you. Hopefully you don't get too sicky!
Everything crossed for you xx

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november90 · 15/09/2019 18:06

@Blossomingflower94
They really are aren't they, I didn't have the heart to buy anymore after I ran out so I resorted to boots ovulation sticks and was really pleased with them and found them really consistent.
So if your surge was this aft then you're actual ovulation will be anytime from now up until the next 36 hours so you could well be in with a shot! If you go by the smep (which I did last month) they say to dtd everyday after surge for 3 days, miss a day a then the following day, so there must be a chance you can still get pregnant all that time after! If you ovulate straight away you definitely have a shot from Friday!
I know it isn't ideal, but I would say you still have a shot :)

I'm feeling ok thank you apart from being super tired and ratty as hell, haha! I'm about 5 weeks now so it's still so early and I still don't believe it! Today/yesterday I've had a few sickly moments but I've also got a cold so I don't know what's associated to what really 🙈

Blossomingflower94 · 15/09/2019 15:37

@november90
I went to buy another pack so I can carry on testing - Bloody expensive but at least I'll know when my LH surge is this month. Turns out it was this afternoon! I tested just after 2 and got the static smiley with the LH surge confirmed on a cheapie too.

Last time we DTD was Friday night (13th) around 21:00hrs do you think its still feasible that anything could happen this month or shall I just write this off and forget it for the rest of the month? I know sperm can live up to 4 days but that's in 'perfect' conditions.

Sorry everyone for being so damn pessimistic I'm just feeling a bit low today.

How are you feeling @november90?

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november90 · 15/09/2019 15:16

@Blossomingflower94 hi lovely! I had the CB tests the other month and I too took it apart to see the strip behind it. The lines were randomly darker and lighter all the time and I looked into it and apparently they don't really mean anything and you should only look at the face as the strips don't work like other dip tests. You might not be out as remember a positive means that you're going to ovulate 12-36 hours later which would take you to Tuesday anyway :) keep testing if you can or pick up some cheapies if you run out! You may still have a shot! X

Blossomingflower94 · 15/09/2019 08:48

I'm out.

Still a flashing smiley even though both the lines are equally dark on the strip when you remove it.

Wont see DP till Tuesday night now. We didn't DTD last night as he was feeling a bit under the weather.

Completely gutted - really hoped this month would be it for us but I still haven't got my + OPK and its now been 2 days since we DTD so there will be no sperm left alive unfortunately.

Good luck to all of you - lots of baby dust going your way. xx

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Blossomingflower94 · 14/09/2019 19:49

Did another one this afternoon and it's still flashing. Only got one left so I really hope tomorrow morning is it!

Previously I've had my + on day 13 so it's obviously later this month.

We will see!

Hopefully you'll have a flashing smiley soon!

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Raizelrea · 14/09/2019 18:30

@Blossomingflower94 Fingers crossed for you! Did you try to do the OPK in the the afternoon too? It does say on the CB ones that you can do them multiple times a day once you've gotten to the flashing smileys, though combining them with the cheapies sounds like a good economical strategy!

I'm still on the big fat blank ones which is a bit anticlimactic haha. Then again realistically I would probably expect to ovulate in a week's time so I guess it makes sense.

Blossomingflower94 · 14/09/2019 05:32

Another morning of a flashing smiley today. That makes it day 5. I normally get my peak on cd13 (today) so a bit bummed about that. Taking some cheapies to work with me and will see about doing them this afternoon.

Hopefully tomorrow is the day for that static smile.

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Raizelrea · 13/09/2019 21:06

@Blossomingflower94 Ah I see! The CB OPKs seem ok so far, not very exciting till I get any smileys I suppose. Definitely glad that you do them first thing in the morning though, I'm sure I'd forget in the afternoons (and not a fan of the idea of not going to the bathroom for ages!)

Blossomingflower94 · 13/09/2019 18:21

I will of course let you know. I really hope it's in the morning!

Unfortunately I wasn't staying for the wedding celebrations, just making the cake! I do have a wedding at the end of the month though which is nice.

Let me know how you get on with the CB. It's so much nicer just doing the one test in the morning.

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Raizelrea · 13/09/2019 16:50

@Blossomingflower94 Yay! Well done, enjoy the wedding festivities! I'm sure the two days without DTD won't have too much of an impact, let us know when you get that static smiley! So far just the blanks for me though I'd be surprised if I had a flashing one before CD 10!

Blossomingflower94 · 13/09/2019 14:57

@Raizelrea I'm waiting for the day I drop pee everywhere hahah ... at least its technically sterile!

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Blossomingflower94 · 13/09/2019 14:54

So then ladies, cake successfully delivered so now I have 0 stress! So happy!

Yes day 4 of flashing smiley today, I started testing on day 6 or 7 I believe, a few days of blank O then into flashes. CD12 for me and i had my peak on day 13 last month. Going to DTD tonight and tomorrow night and then that'll be us until Tuesday morning.

Cycles are between 25 and 27 days so hopefully we won't miss out this month.

How are you all doing? Good luck with the OPK's!

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Raizelrea · 13/09/2019 07:27

@AliSxo Is this your first cycle doing OPK? I wonder how long till the faint line becomes dark, will be interesting to see how Flo lines up with it!

AliSxo · 12/09/2019 22:04

@Raizelrea @Blossomingflower94 hey I had did an OPK internet cheapie and it's a very very faint line, Flo predicts day of ovulation as Saturday but I agree with @Raizelrea its the BD'ing before that gives a good chance xx

Raizelrea · 12/09/2019 21:31

@Blossomingflower94 Are you still on flashing smileys on the CB OPK? I wouldn't be too bummed about the timing, if you have a 25 day cycle I would imagine it can't be too long till ovulation for you, and even if you do ovulate on the day when you're apart DTD a day before ovulation is meant to give you more chances than on the day of. Plus sperm's meant to live for up to 5 days so if it's only 2 days you're missing it should be just fine. You've got it covered! Smile

I started the CB OPK today, just the blank smiley which I was expecting since it's the first one and only CD8. I did manage to accidentally tip the cup of wee all over the bathroom floor Blush 😆 Typical!

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