End of September bus

Also I had that little bleed which seemed like implantation 9dpo.. xx

Af due today.. but hasn’t come! It’s weird as today I suddenly feel pregnant.. sore boobs, under my armpit and keep feeling wet down below.. and yesterday I gagged which o thought was odd!! 13dpo xx

@Sunflower2019 I can def see a line very faint though. What CD are you? How many DPO? How long are your cycles normally?

Here is another you prob can’t all see it 🤦🏽‍♀️

What do you think? Yesterday’s was completely blank! X

Girls, I done my last frer and it wasn’t working.. so guessed it was invalid.. but I’ve now looked and sure there’s a hint of something.... I can’t tell dp Incase its an evap as it was dodgy! Xx

@mrssunshinexxx To be honest the first 2 weeks of my cycle i'm normally very good but second 2 weeks i get fed up and my hormones make me eat crap I'm going to google est diets when TTC and see what comes up. My OH isn't going back on evenings for a few weeks so should be ok next month now for DTD. Even if its the month DTD the Fri sat sun you should be covered too. xx

@mumofbun I think i'm going to try alcohol free and really good diet and the Agnus Cactus as My PMS has been quite bad and would love for the hormones to regulate a bit and if it helps all well and good. I will wait until AF arrives and get them then.

@Lauralozzle Yes I have bad PMS and my boobs are bad as well so might try it too.

@Sophieb15 it’s meant to help regulate hormones. Agnus cactus is meant to help PMS symptoms such as sore boobs. I have an inclination that my hormones might be a bit out of whack so we’ll see if it helps.

There’s lots of stuff about them both of the internet- I’m popping to Holland and barret later to pick some up

I’m desperate and trying anything lol!

@Sophieb15 I've had an alcohol free month this month and also been trying to lose weight which is a slow process but at least takes my mind off ttc

@Sophieb15

I've been taking January as my first cycle as that is when I properly started tracking everything. So cycle 9 currently, 10 if I go onto the next. So yeah around the same. But I've been off the pill since end of last July so not not trying since then. My DH is a bit annoying though as he doesn't fell like we've been "properly trying" for long. He said that a few months ago...

I'm thinking I might try change my diet next cycle just to see if it makes any difference I'll try anything at this stage. I'm also not going to DTD as much as we did last 2 months as it's actually stressful trying to make it happen all the time!!!

Anyone have any other ideas of what they are going to try different??

@MrsLEB I find I have something different every month its soooo frustrating.

@mumofbun I keep forgetting what cycle ppl are on I think we were similar am I right? I'm thinking of trying this Agnus Cactus next month i've googled it but will speak to someone in health shop first.. I'm just waiting on AF now I know she's coming. It will be onto cycle 9 after the weekend i'd say.

Hi everyone - missed a day yesterday as work was so busy!

@Sophieb15 glad your tests looked ok! My friends have a cockapoo and it's the sweetest thing so should def recommend them :) I think they would need quite a bit of exercise though. I think any of the breeds that don't shed are quite expensive though.

Sorry to see a few people have AF now. @Sunflower2019 did you test today or is the spotting a usual symptom for you pre AF?

I've lost my optimism. Was really ratty and emotional yesterday and had a bit of spotting today. Due AF Sunday and I'm usually quite irritable and have spotting beforehand so think I will be out. Trying to plan lots of nice things for the future so I can take my mind off it - thinking of doing something for new year and maybe next summer. I keep putting off making plans as I think I will have my bfp and then don't :( close to giving up tbh

@Sophieb15 that's a good question it's very random. I'd say average is 30 days but it can be anything. Last month it was 21 days and I ov'd straight after af. I'm on cd21 today and the eBay opk seemed to indicate I ov'd just under 2 weeks ago around cd9. Seriously I don't know anymore! I have the most random taste in my mouth today and painful trapped wind which I experience with my first pregnancy. But I think I may be coming down with something!

@mrssunshinexxx Will OH be around FW this month? How long you going for?

@ForGoodnessCake Still early though isn't it?

Come on ladies be strong no early testing remember a BFN is worse than AF arriving. xxxx

Spotting has stopped but think I’ve got thrush as feel so sore down below.. tmi 😭

Sorry to hear about other bfns xx

Bfn for me on a Frer this morning 😔

@sunflower2019 oh no do you normally spot before AF

@Lauralozzle What does Agnus castus and maca root do? Do you buy it in a health shop ?

@Sophieb15 this is cycle 4, will be starting cycle 5 when AF starts.

We were pulling out for about 5 years before we started actively ttc - I just thought we were good at it! Now I’m not so sure.

I understand finding it upsetting, I’ve been avoiding this board because although I’m happy for people it just reminds me that it’s not happening for me! It’s disheartening

@sunflower2019

I’m feeling a bit better today. Was really down yesterday but I’m in a better frame of mind today.

I’ve been looking into agnus castus and Maca root - think I’m going to get some. If anything, it should hopefully help my horrific PMS if nothing else. Will temp again next month too - this month went to pot.

Think I just had a little spotting.... 😫