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TTC First Baby Thread 22

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MrsH497 · 19/08/2019 19:29

Thought the old one was getting a bit full so I'd start a new one. I'll attempt tagging as many as I can
@Larrydavid @Anny27 @cupcakesandglitter @flossy12 @DuchessofPemberley @ELW85 @Lemonysherbet @LokiCat @Lottiepink @Lozzlepop @MIW01 @whatsthecraic91 @ValidUser

If I've missed anyone sorry!

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MrsH497 · 19/08/2019 21:52

@Kiza same I'm so rubbish at remembering to do anything in the morning! I'm lucky if I remember to clean my teeth/brush hair/get dressed! I have frequently forgotten my mascara!

Thanks ladies for all the good wishes I've got to chill out and relax with this TTC x

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Sunshine8888 · 19/08/2019 21:37

@Kiza and @Anny27 thank you, I will definitely get that app. I have bought both cheap OPKs and also the clear blue ones. Due to the long cycles I wondered whether to start with the cheap and move to clear blue when it seems I’m getting nearer ovulation. I haven’t tried temping but I don’t sleep well and have to get up in the night so I’m not sure it would be useful for me. I am a bit worried about not ovulating after so long on the pill though (15 years)! I’m now 31 ttc baby no 1 x

Kiza · 19/08/2019 21:26

@Anny27 I know, it's been a game changer for me as I was sometimes mis reading a strong high for peak or stopping taking opks when I did (or thought I got a peak) and now I realise that I can sometimes get a peak 2 days in a row 🤷🏼‍♀️
I wish I could temp but I get up too many times in the night to pee and I'm rubbish at remembering to take things 🤦🏼‍♀️

Anny27 · 19/08/2019 21:23

@ValidUser thanks for the explanation :) i remember your chemical last month - fingers crossed your bfp comes soon ❤

@Smwh1 welcome :) when is AF due? I am currently 6dpo on cycle 3

@kiza i agree - femometer app is sooo good to tell when its your peak OPK!

ValidUser · 19/08/2019 21:19

@Anny27 a trigger shot is a shot of hCG to induce ovulation.

I ovulate fine, but I only have one tube, so they're making sure we get at least one or two eggs on the good side each month.

I take fsh injections until the trigger shot and then have (extremely romantic) timed intercourse after the trigger.

If I'm not pregnant by my birthday in January, we'll try ivf. I had one chemical pregnancy on cycle 12, so at least we know the tube is functioning!

Kiza · 19/08/2019 21:15

@Sunshine8888 if you do decide to use opk someone on here a while back mentioned an app called Femometer where you take a photo of each opk and it rates it high/low/peak- it's helped me out loads.

Kiza · 19/08/2019 21:13

Thanks for the new thread @MrsH497 hope this cycle is more settled for you.
I'm 39, cycle 11
TTC baby number 1 & undergoing testing to check everything's ok due to 2 mc.

Smwh1 · 19/08/2019 21:11

Hey! Is it ok if I join? I'm TTC number 1, cycle 3, age 29 (30 next month!)

I've been Google obsessed trying to work out any potential symptoms 😂 but it's not doing me any good! Thought it was better to start sharing with other people rather than keep going over it all in my head. I didn't think this would be such an emotional process!

Sending lots of positive vibes to everyone this cycle!

Anny27 · 19/08/2019 21:04

@Sunshine8888 OPKs are really useful:) have you considered temping so that you can know for sure that you have ovulated?

Fingers crossed your next cycle is shorter for you

cupcakesandglitter · 19/08/2019 21:01

Thanks for the tag lovely @MrsH497 glad it's all looking good for you @ValidUser xx

Sunshine8888 · 19/08/2019 20:55

Thanks for the new thread. I’ve been reading all posts but not actively posting. I’ve been struggling due to long cycles. Last one was 45 days, now on CD33 and pretty sure I only just ovulated as had EWCM Friday - Sunday. Now got horrible pain in my boobs and stabbing pains down below. It’s all horribly confusing! I’ve just bought some OPKs for next cycle as I’m not coping with not knowing what’s going on and gutted I missed days of my fertile weekend not realising ☹️

Blossomingflower94 · 19/08/2019 20:55

Good luck all for this cycle :)

MrsR16 · 19/08/2019 20:38

Just checking in! Wishing you all the best for this cycle @ValidUser x

Lemonysherbet · 19/08/2019 20:11

Thanks @MrsH497. Ooh love a bit of noting hill carnival!

How is everyone? I'm off work for a week soon, very excited. If I'm away from people I don't have to worry about slipping up and telling people. It still feels so surreal.

I'm 31, it was cycle 2 I guess, but we paused for 3 months between 1 & 2

Anny27 · 19/08/2019 20:06

Thanks for new thread @MrsH497 :)

(good idea for a intro refresh @validuser :) - i am 27 and on cycle 3 )

@validuser what exactly does "trigger shot" mean - saw you talking about it on the other thread but wasnt sure what it meant

ValidUser · 19/08/2019 19:39

Thanks for the new thread. Just checking in! Age 29. Cycle 14. On hormones.

Cycle day 13. Due to ovulate tomorrow.

Here's hoping!

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