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MrsH497 · 19/08/2019 19:29

Thought the old one was getting a bit full so I'd start a new one. I'll attempt tagging as many as I can
@Larrydavid @Anny27 @cupcakesandglitter @flossy12 @DuchessofPemberley @ELW85 @Lemonysherbet @LokiCat @Lottiepink @Lozzlepop @MIW01 @whatsthecraic91 @ValidUser

If I've missed anyone sorry!

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MrsH497 · 09/09/2019 21:11

@Lemonysherbet we had ours 17th May we started trying straight away I find it more frustrating now though as I know I can get pregnant. I am hyper aware of "symptoms" and how I felt when I did get pregnant. I found that talking about our MC to people has been therapy in itself. It'll amaze you how many people in your circles have been through it.
How are you finding everything post MC?

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Lemonysherbet · 09/09/2019 21:05

@MrsH497 that's so very true. Being kind to ourselves is so hard at times but so important! I feel good though, been talking it through with a few people which has really helped me understand what my head is doing! When did you have your MC? How are you finding TTC after it? It's so nice having this group to be able to talk to about everything.

Welcome @redmarchingband everyone is lovely here and there's no question or comment too small ☺️

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MrsH497 · 09/09/2019 20:58

Welcome @Redmarchingband this is a very supportive group of ladies

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Redmarchingband · 09/09/2019 20:52

Can I join please? I’m new to all this but have been TTC since March to no avail. My cycles are 37 days like clockwork, until this last one which was 30 days and I’ve no idea why Sad feel like I’m going bonkers!

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MrsH497 · 09/09/2019 20:49

@Lemonysherbet we found the same after our MC we are even closer (didn't actually think it was possible!) realised I don't always have to be strong (downfall of being a copper I feel I should be the strong one) and he was my total rock feel very lucky.

How are you doing? You're totally doing the right thing taking it slow and being kind to yourself. X

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Lemonysherbet · 09/09/2019 20:41

@nobodyloveslava yay huge congratulations to you!!!

Lemonysherbet · 09/09/2019 20:40

@Anny27 @lozzlepop feeling good thanks. As sad as the MC was it's sort of refocused us and brought us so much closer. We managed to properly get on it this cycle but we're not putting too much pressure on ourselves. Just enjoying it all 😁

I'm also away when AF is due next which will be a good distraction I hope!

Today was the mondayest Monday ever. Seriously hope this week flies by!!!

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MrsH497 · 09/09/2019 20:37

Congratulations @nobodyloveslava

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Sunshine8888 · 09/09/2019 20:35

Aww congrats @nobodyloveslava 🎉

nobodyloveslava · 09/09/2019 20:26

I couldn't wait until tomorrow! Keeping fingers crossed for everyone else in the TWW.

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MrsH497 · 09/09/2019 20:20

@ValidUser I'm doing ok, good days and bad days the mysterious cycles are frustrating though! How are you?

@Anny27 as I'm not sure when AF is actually due I'm going to hang out as long as possible I think.

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flossy12 · 09/09/2019 19:53

@ValidUser thank you 💞 so sorry that your struggling 🙁 sending my baby dust your way 🧚🏻‍♀️

Anny27 · 09/09/2019 19:41

Ahh sorry @larrydavid :( onwards and upwards. I always am a little sad when AF arrives but i manage to remain positive the rest of rhe month. Cycle day 1 is always tough:(

@validuser sorry it was another chemical :(

@mrsh497 will you test early ir wait till AF due?

Anny27 · 09/09/2019 19:39

I can see a slight line @nobodyloveslava fingers crossed :)

I ovulated yesterday (cycle day 13) so am officially in the tww! Let the crazy symptom spotting commence 🤣

Wheres everyone else in their cycle?

I am DETERMINED not to early test this month and hang on untill 14 dpo (when my period is due). Wish me luck holding off haha

ValidUser · 09/09/2019 19:37

Thank you @MrsH497! How are you doing? X

ValidUser · 09/09/2019 19:36

@flossy12 congratulations!

@nobodyloveslava I see it!

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MrsH497 · 09/09/2019 19:33

@ValidUser wishing you eggy thoughts!! Come on little follicles!

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ValidUser · 09/09/2019 19:29

Hello everyone.

Last month was another chemical, so next time I get a hint of a BFP I'm going on progesterone.

Triggered today. Probably 2 good follicles on the left.

Have I missed any news?

Larrydavid · 09/09/2019 19:12

@Lozzlepop glad you had a good holiday! SMEP doesn't seem to be working but we'll keep at it. We've done it for four cycles now. AF arrived today - I'm ok but have made the decision to get some tests done. At least we'll know one way or another

@Anny27 AF Arrived today a couple of days late. On to the next cycle!

@nobodyloveslava I can see it. Fingers crossed for the next test!

@MrsBradley17 I haven't - I've been fairly regular since the coil was removed but I think it can take a few months to go back to normal.

@MrsH497 ahh I really hope this is your month! Monday was a bit meh - I'm so tired - I don't think I'm used to having hormones flying around my body!

Hope you all have a good evening planned!

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MrsH497 · 09/09/2019 18:26

How was everyone's Monday? I've had the most awful taste in my mouth THINK my boobs are a tiny bit tender (bfn this afternoon) but I reckon I'm only 9/10dpo ish at the most. So off to the gym take my mind off it!

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MrsBradley17 · 09/09/2019 14:41

New to all of this so wondering if anyone can possibly help... cane off the pill 6 months ago after 10 years as now ttc. Periods have been irregular for the past couple of months but this month I had a full period 9th-14h August then bled just for a day & half 29th-30th August and then have had very light spotting 6th-8th Sepetember... not sure when to be expecting my period... has anyone else ever experienced similar?

Lottiepink · 09/09/2019 10:01

@nobodyloveslava I think I can see a faint line too...

nobodyloveslava · 09/09/2019 08:35

That's ok Absa, I'm not sure I can either! I keep thinking maybe and then talk myself out of it! Will buy a better test and try again tomorrow I think!

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MrsH497 · 09/09/2019 08:35

@nobodyloveslava I think I might be able to see a v faint line

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Absa · 09/09/2019 08:07

Hmmm on second looks maybe I can but I don't know if my eyes are playing tricks!

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