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~*~*~*~*~*~*~ JESS1996/JESS ~*~*~*~*~*~

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lissie · 04/08/2007 11:47

how are you?

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Ready · 11/08/2007 14:37

Jess - I'm so sorry to hear your news. Thinking of you.

Like everyone else has said, take it easy and look after yourself.

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lissie · 07/08/2007 20:44

you may be asked back for a HCG, this can identify reasons behind the ep and will probably be in about 3m x

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RahRah1 · 07/08/2007 19:33

Hi Jess, It's Rah from the Temp buddies. So sorry to read this thread. Hope you make a speedy recovery and your consultant sounds very positive for future pregnancies. So sorry you are going through this. Take care of yourself and best wishes... Love Rah Xx

cedar12 · 07/08/2007 17:31

Hello Jess havent spoken before but I can only echo what Lissie says. I have had 2 ectopic I never really gave my self any time to get over it. Take it easy and look after your self. Sending you lots of hugs.

jess1996 · 07/08/2007 17:06

I'm having my hcg measured again on Friday. Do I need a follow-up?

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lissie · 07/08/2007 12:31

please take it easy. and allow yourself time to grieve. will you have any follow up appt?

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jess1996 · 07/08/2007 12:27

Thanks . Yes my DH is here. Making my lunch right now.

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lissie · 07/08/2007 12:22

jess, my email is on my profile, contact me if you want. i know how tough it is. is dp with you?

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jess1996 · 07/08/2007 12:18

I'm feeling much better today. Still very sore, but ok. I've been properly discharged now and I'm having the staples taken out tomorrow.

Thanks for all your kind comments.

Lissie - I don't have the CAT facility, but thanks anyway .

I'm still in a bit of shock. It's really crap. I've had two pregnancies in 6 months - one missed m/c and now an ep. My doctor was quite positive though. She said loads of people have a similar history and go on to have successful pregnancies. She said everything looked healthy and that I've just been unlucky and that I should try again when I've recovered. I'd be scared of this happening again though.

Rachel1963 · 06/08/2007 10:35

Jess, I'm so sorry

kensgirl · 06/08/2007 10:33

thinking of you Jess xx

torres · 06/08/2007 10:02

really sorry jess, am thinking of you

cedar12 · 06/08/2007 09:20

So sorry Jess.

Wheelybug · 05/08/2007 22:48

Am so sorry Jess - please take care of yourself and you know where we all are if you need anything.

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lissie · 05/08/2007 22:31

jess, have CAT'd you (hope you dont mind) if you need a rant/chat etc you know where i am!

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pipsqueeke · 05/08/2007 22:15

oh honney i'm so sorry for you ((hugs))

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lissie · 05/08/2007 21:25

oh jess, i'm so so so sorry.

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jess1996 · 05/08/2007 18:00

sorry for spelling I'm not quite thinking straight

jess1996 · 05/08/2007 17:59

sorry, should say home for the night

jess1996 · 05/08/2007 17:59

Hi. Thanks for worrying about me . Unfortunately it was ectopic. Was sent straight to gynae ward, scanned again, then straight to theatre. Turned out I also had 2 ruptured ovarian cysts and lots of internal bleeding. Quite a big op, but I still have both ovaries and both fallopian tubes and I'm already feeling loads better. I've persuaded them to let me hope for the night, but I'm back in hospital tomorrow for a check up. I've got a very sore tummy, but it seems to be healing nicely at the moment. I think I'm in a state of shock, but I'm too glad to be alived to worry too much about the loss of the pregnancy. I'll let you know how I'm getting on in a few days.

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lissie · 05/08/2007 17:43

bfn (odd, but im almost relieved!) bit worried about her now.

pip, i know its tough, but it will get better, i promise!

torres, how are you?

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torres · 05/08/2007 12:34

Hi Lissie and pipsqueake- hope you're both ok.

I see there's no news from Jess, I really hope the scan went ok

pipsqueeke · 05/08/2007 09:10

x how did u go lissie? my bleeding seems to ahve all but stopped

still nothing form jess

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lissie · 04/08/2007 21:02

doing it in the morning. feel like such a fraud, i know it'll be a bfn, but needs must...

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pipsqueeke · 04/08/2007 20:13

not too bad thanks getting there - determined to get back ttc again asap! lol. had a bit of a down morning but going to get there again! lol. u? did u retest?

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