Hoping September WILL bring that bfp

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Goingfor3, CD1
Bucky2007, CD2 (MC Sept 06) 4th cycle ttc#1
Shreksmissus CD7
Looneytune, CD4, 2nd cycle ttc #2
Bellie, CD6, 9th cycle ttc #2
Rosiogs, CD11, 2nd cycle ttc#2
Abroller CD13 1st Cycle ttc#2
TheMuppetMuggle, CD15, 1st cycle ttc #2
Lulu, CD21 10th cycle (MMC Oct) ttc#1
Libralady, CD24, 2nd cycle ttc #2
penguinmum, CD24, 1st cycle ttc#2
Toytownmum, cd24, cycle 2 ttc #3
TwilightSurfer, CD25, 12th cycle, ttc#2
Josey , CD26, 1st cycle ttc #3
Bramblina CD26, 2nd cycle ttc#2
Starlight, CD27, 1st cycle ttc #2
Digitalgirl, CD29, 1st cycle ttc #1
Cbcb, CD31, 1st cycle ttc #3

Added Shreksmissus...Newbies feel free to add yourself to our ever changing and GROWING list. There's no reason to count the days alone.

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a bit old but still . . .a glass of wine can help you conceive?

news.bbc.co.uk/1/hi/health/1678755.stm

I admire all your strength trying again so soon. I had a mc last September and only worked up the courage to go for it again in May/June this year. It was horrid, I feel for you all. I cried for a week.

I think we will all have happy news soon enough though.

bucky - sorry to hear about the dreaded AF turning up

Abroller - hi and welcome to the thread

TJuice - welcome to the thread and sorry to hear about your mc, I had one 2 weeks ago so am still coming to terms with it myself, was it your first pregnancy? You will find lots of support on here too. I don't drink when ttc but then again I don't drink that much normally (I did have quite a lot of wine Friday night though) I believe you can keep exercising when ttc if you usually do it. Diet wise I only take folic acid tablets don't change anything else.

goingfor3 - I'm the same want to get pregnant staright away again, think I will feel better about the mc if I am pregnant again if that makes sense?

Here I go again...forgot to add Abroller...Lucky I'm not like this at work!

Goingfor3, CD1
Bucky2007, CD2 (MC Sept 06) 4th cycle ttc#1
Looneytune, CD4, 2nd cycle ttc #2
Bellie, CD6, 9th cycle ttc #2
Rosiogs, CD11, 2nd cycle ttc#2
Abroller CD13 1st Cycle ttc#2
TheMuppetMuggle, CD15, 1st cycle ttc #2
Lulu, CD21 10th cycle (MMC Oct) ttc#1
Libralady, CD24, 2nd cycle ttc #2
penguinmum, CD24, 1st cycle ttc#2
Toytownmum, cd24, cycle 2 ttc #3
TwilightSurfer, CD25, 12th cycle, ttc#2
Josey , CD26, 1st cycle ttc #3
Bramblina CD26, 2nd cycle ttc#2
Starlight, CD27, 1st cycle ttc #2
Digitalgirl, CD29, 1st cycle ttc #1
Cbcb, CD31, 1st cycle ttc #3

Hi Twilight I just moved myself, hope that's ok. Evil AF showed up.

Goingfor3, CD1
Bucky2007, CD2, 4th cycle ttc#1
Looneytune, CD4, 2nd cycle ttc #2
Bellie, CD6, 9th cycle ttc #2
Rosiogs, CD11, 2nd cycle ttc#2
TheMuppetMuggle, CD15, 1st cycle ttc #2
Lulu, CD21 10th cycle (MMC Oct) ttc#1
Libralady, CD24, 2nd cycle ttc #2
penguinmum, CD24, 1st cycle ttc#2
Toytownmum, cd24, cycle 2 ttc #3
TwilightSurfer, CD25, 12th cycle, ttc#2
Josey , CD26, 1st cycle ttc #3
Bramblina CD26, 2nd cycle ttc#2
Starlight, CD27, 1st cycle ttc #2
Digitalgirl, CD29, 1st cycle ttc #1
Cbcb, CD31, 1st cycle ttc #3

Oh and my earlier congrats were meant for Aquababe...I am seriously worried about my sanity, I must have made a hundred mistakes on MN already in the last week!

hello may i bump in for a sec?

i have been lurking but didn't want join because i just had a m/c and was thinking that this need I have to just get back to status quo is a part of my grief.
so i am telling myself that i am just "open" to it happening again, if its the right time. (in denial )
and i know nothing about my cycles and counting and all the other acronym stuff here . . .and not sure if i want to get too sciency about it yet . . .

however, if it does happen () I think i should be prepared, so i am still taking the vits and trying to be healthy etc.

one question - do you totally give up alcohol when you are ttc? Or do you give up "binge drinking"? I went to a party last night and had about six vodka colas (between 7 and 3am). Is this totally bad?

And again about exercise - can you run, work-out, go to astanga yoga when you are trying? or should you start thinking about body temp, heart rate, already?

what about dieting? should you eat the totally balanced health p/g diet or can you low-carb or low g.i when you are ttc?

sorry to bombard with questions. part of my problem is that i am sort of hedging my bets. i kind of don't fully want to return to my life before the last p/g and m/c but don't want to devote it to ttc either . . .

Hi, can I please join this thread? I'm CD 13 today. Just started ttc #2 this cycle.

Good luck to everyone
Abs

Sunday Update:
Goingfor3, CD1
Looneytune, CD4, 2nd cycle ttc #2
Bellie, CD6, 9th cycle ttc #2
Rosiogs, CD11, 2nd cycle ttc#2
TheMuppetMuggle, CD15, 1st cycle ttc #2
Lulu, CD21 10th cycle (MMC Oct) ttc#1
Libralady, CD24, 2nd cycle ttc #2
penguinmum, CD24, 1st cycle ttc#2
Toytownmum, cd24, cycle 2 ttc #3
TwilightSurfer, CD25, 12th cycle, ttc#2
Josey , CD26, 1st cycle ttc #3
Bramblina CD26, 2nd cycle ttc#2
Starlight, CD27, 1st cycle ttc #2
Digitalgirl, CD29, 1st cycle ttc #1
Cbcb, CD31, 1st cycle ttc #3
Bucky2007, CD33, 4th cycle ttc#1

Good luck to all those who should be seeing BFPs very soon!!

goingfor3 - what a horrible experience for you, I can't imagine it, my MC was bad enough at "only" 9 weeks. Totally agree with you, best way for me to deal with it was ttc again (once the very raw emotions had calmed down a bit).

Really hoping you get another BFP very soon - sending you lots of luck x

I can understand it may not be for others not thiers!

sweetkitty - knowing that I'm ttc again is the best way through it for me though I can understand it may not be for thiers. A mc at any stage is really awful. It's the second time it's happened to me and this time is alot easier than then because it wasn't totally unexpected, I have two children now so I know I can do it and I think it happened because I had measles or something very similar which I couldn't have prevented I was just very unlucky. Fingers crossed for you.

We had a lovely day out yesterday in Knebworth, the most relaxing day we've had for ages. Our next trip will be next week to Gulivers Land which will be fun but I doubt it will be relaxing!

goingfor3 - that sounds horrendous you poor thing I remember reading your story at the time as well, how are you doing now? I take it by being on here you are ready to ttc again too? I was relatively lucky in that my baby didn't get past 6 weeks even though I was 10 weeks pregnant, I'm going to just roughly count that weekend as the actual mc so it's been 2 weeks since.

On a lighter not (cos I feel a bit that I'm bringing the thread down) I hope everyone else is having a relaxing Sunday enjoying the sunshine

sweetkitty - I count the first day of my mc as the day I delivered my baby, I was 16 weeks and had to push him out so it was very obvious. For you I would count it as the day you started bleeding. I've realised I'm only spotting rather than having a proper period so I'm sure it means it's on it's way.

oh no it's great to hear of BFPs on ttc threads gives the rest of us hope it can get you down if there hasn't been a BFP for a while only AFs turning up

Am of your ds's in the pool in the sunshine though my DDs are out in the garden with fleeces on right now!

PS sweetkitty thanks for your good wishes x

ooh sweetkitty I know exactly what you mean, I couldn't wait to ttc again after my MC & my OV signs were really strong, there was absolutely NO WAY I could ignore them! I know it hasn't been long & the MC was devastating but I suppose everyone deals with it differently - I just wanted to be pg again asap & like you said, waiting for the first AF doesn't actually mean any further risk, it's just so a pregnancy can be dated (at least til they change the date at the scan! )

Anyway, off to join DS1&2 in paddling pool before the sun goes in, maybe talk again soon?

Sorry everyone to hijack thread with my shameless BFP, but couldn't help it !

Lots of luck to you all x

That's fantastic news snooks your the first person I've "spoken" too who has had a mc then got pregnant straight away without an AF. I was told to wait to ttc until AF arrives but that it's only so they can date it but when they do date it normally they usually change it from the scan anyway as the day of last period isn't that exact.

I usually have a good idea when I'm oving and I know I shouldn't but I know I'll be looking for all the signs, oh well just need to have loads of sex and if it happens it happens.

Wishing you a very happy and healthy pregnancy you deserve it.

sounds like a good plan sweetkitty, I'm sure this dating business is a bit hit and miss tbh because everyone's MC is so different....

I got a BFP last Tuesday and my GP confirms I am 5 weeks pregnant - great news , but slightly bizarre because 5 weeks ago I was actively miscarrying.....I suppose the only way they can date a pregnancy so soon after a MC is like they do after a period ie first day of AF is first day of pregnancy. Seems weird tho, I guess will know the real date at a scan (am sure I OVd 2-3 weeks ago).

Sorry to ramble........good luck to you & everyone here x

sorry to hear about your mc too snooks life sucks sometimes

I had 3 days of heavy bleeding (Sat, Sun and Mon) but never saw the sac so don't know when I passed it I'm going to say then that Monday was the actual mc day as it was the heaviest day and it was the last day of heavy bleeding so to speak so that was 2 weeks ago tomorrow.

Hi sweetkitty, am sorry to hear you had a mc too

I had a mc 5 weeks ago yesterday (at 9 weeks pg), the doc at hospital told me to 'time' it from the day of the event itself, ie passing the actual sac (I started bleeding on the Friday 5 wks ago & passed the sac the next day on the Saturday, then carried on bleeding for another 5 or so days). Not sure what happens tho if someone is not aware of passing the sac.

HTH although it probably hasn't! x

hi goingfor3 thats good news about AF arriving I'm really interested in when your AF comes back after a mc, sorry if this seems a silly question but how do you count it for example 1st Aug I had scan and was told baby was too small and to come back in 8 days which I did, then mc was confirmed starting heavy bleeding the next day and stopped last Thursday only for a little more on Friday, Saturday was the first day of no bleeding but I could be wrong. So is it 5 weeks since mc was confirmed or since you stopped bleeding.

Sorry if that seems a bit insensitive but I really don't know, I would have been 12 weeks today I marked it on the calendar

Hi ladies I'm on cd1 and was very releived to see af this morning as I m/c nearly five weeks ago and am happy my body is doing the right things so we can start trying again properly.

Good luck to everyone!!!!