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When's the best time to get pregnant? Use our interactive ovulation calculator to work out when you're most fertile and most likely to conceive.

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Izzimai20031998 · 30/07/2019 22:12

Hi,
I'm on cycle 5 of TTC with first child. I used clear blue advanced ovulation test for the first time last month and have purchased another one to use this month also. I'm on day 7 of this cycle and am planning on starting ovulation testing on day 12 as I ovulated on day 17 last month. I have a pretty regular 27 day cycle (no longer than 29 days).
I know it's still early days but I feel like it's never going to happen. I can't imagine actually getting a positive result. Is anyone else in a similar position and want to be on this journey with me?
Thanks x

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Blossomingflower94 · 10/08/2019 19:44

@tryingforbabyone Thanks! I think ill try for a couple of months without an OPK and then purchase if we aren't in the 'lucky few'.

@Ginfizz90 HUUUUUGE congratulations :D Lovely to come on this forum and see good news. Hope you had fun telling your DP :)

tryingforbabyone · 10/08/2019 19:39

@Blossomingflower94 I use clear blue and test in the morning and they've been great for me, they clearly tell you when you are ovulating but are a little more pricey.

@littlelisa34 I've just brought some preseed in preparation for next month. How are you feeling today? How many dpo are you now?

@Ginfizz90 how was it telling your husband? Did you think of a cute way to reveal it? Smile

Blossomingflower94 · 10/08/2019 17:55

@May2311 Thanks for the info! I feel like i'm diving into a pit of unknown ... haven't let myself get too carried away with research prior to now as I've wanted kids for about 2 years now but DP hasn't felt ready.

Time to start googling!

May2311 · 10/08/2019 17:51

@Blossomingflower94 welcome to the madness🙈

I use the amazon ones and they have worked for me so far( as in I have had positives) some people struggle to get a positive with them though but from CD12-16 I tend to test twice a day to make sure I don’t miss it.

TWW is a long one but I find mumsnet threads do help as most people are in similar positions 😊

Hope it’s not too long a journey for you to get that BFP!

Blossomingflower94 · 10/08/2019 16:35

hello

Please can I join?

TTC cycle 1. DP finally gave us the 'go ahead'. Really happy he waited until he was ready, now I know we will both be happy when we get a BFP.

Any tips or advice on ovulation prediction would be great. I don't think i'll be able to temperature graph as I work varied shifts.

Are the cheap ovulation kits on amazon worth it? Considering getting some.

Good luck to all those in their TWW, I get the feeling its going to be a long two weeks when I get there!!

littlelisa34 · 10/08/2019 12:47

@Izzimai20031998 how are you doing? Hope your well..

littlelisa34 · 10/08/2019 11:47

@Ginfizz90 lovely to see your tests so happy for women when they get there BFP must be such an amazing feeling.. you wouldn't say you had any out and out symptoms then that made you think you were 100% pregnant?

littlelisa34 · 10/08/2019 11:43

@tryingforbabyone yeah it does seem a lot but I think that's the point no chance of missing ovulation it covers every day of your fertile window and more..

Ginfizz90 · 10/08/2019 08:38

@May2311 it was so wonderful! Still very much sinking in.

Wishing you all the best for this cycle x

May2311 · 10/08/2019 07:54

@Ginfizz90 what a lovely set of test with a nice strong line! I bet it was such an amazing feeling seeing the actual word “pregnant” 😊

Ginfizz90 · 10/08/2019 06:59

@tryingforbabyone I totally thought I was out this month!!

Keep those positive vibes!!

Attached yesterday's digitals and my chart if anybody temps I really like it! Xx

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tryingforbabyone · 09/08/2019 18:55

@Ginfizz90 oh wow how exciting! I bet you can't wait, what a lovely surprise for him!
It must feel so surreal, I can't imagine what it'll eventually feel like Smile
I'm feeling pretty normal so not holding out much hope but in the back of my mind still praying as only 3dpo!

Ginfizz90 · 09/08/2019 16:30

@tryingforbabyone thanks so much for asking. I feel absolutely fine in myself, just a bit of a head ache that I can't shift and my boobs are tender but nothing crazy.

I'm still in total shock, even though we all try and want it so much you never really believe it will happen.

My husband is away on business lands tomorrow I haven't told him yet, really wanted to tell him face to face I'm dying to tell him!!! Trying to think of a good way 😂

How are you doing? X

tryingforbabyone · 09/08/2019 16:23

@littlelisa34 yeah I've found a plan. We do BD working up to ovulation but I fear it may be too much so will be interesting to try.

@Ginfizz90 how are you feeling?

littlelisa34 · 09/08/2019 11:19

@tryingforbabyone yeah definitely raises the odds by there being the little swimmers there by the time you ovulate so can't do any harm.. think you can download a plan from offline somewhere too

tryingforbabyone · 09/08/2019 08:32

@littlelisa34 yeah I've read some good things about it so I think it'll be worth a try next month for me and my OH. Think I may also try the pre seed.

littlelisa34 · 09/08/2019 08:16

@tryingforbabyone I did look into it but we have a pretty good schedule now so I didn't actually follow through with the plan but you never know I suppose loads of women do it that way.

littlelisa34 · 09/08/2019 08:11

@May2311 yeah it is I agree, this cycle may be your cycle though 😁 you just never know

tryingforbabyone · 08/08/2019 22:28

Has anyone tried SMEP?

May2311 · 08/08/2019 20:50

@littlelisa34 thanks! I know I just need to keep positive and try not to stress about it. I am sure all of our time will come eventually! I wouldn’t mind waiting if I knew when it was gonna happen🙈 it’s the not knowing that I struggle with!!

May2311 · 08/08/2019 20:48

@Ginfizz90 such good news!!!! I agree, it is so nice seeing someone on here get a BFP! And what a perfect birthday pressie!!

tryingforbabyone · 08/08/2019 19:34

@Ginfizz90 fingers crossed! Im so happy for you!

Ginfizz90 · 08/08/2019 19:32

@tryingforbabyone yes I definitely had tender boobs, but only my left one for the first few days and now both!! They almost feel fiery it's very odd.

Only 9dpo so very early days yet, I will try a digital in a few days I think to confirm.

My birthday is Wednesday so without getting my hopes up too much it would be the most magical present!

tryingforbabyone · 08/08/2019 19:29

@Ginfizz90 did you only have tender boobs? How many dpo are you?

tryingforbabyone · 08/08/2019 19:29

@Ginfizz90 yaaaay congratulations! It's nice to have some good news on here and in time for your birthday isn't it?!
There is hope for us all!

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