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TTC First Baby Thread 21

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Lottiepink · 17/07/2019 22:54

Hope you all don't mind me starting this one off, but last one was nearly full... already,
Hi to all the newbies ☺️ sorry for everyone I missed, just went through some of the recents, so please mark your place 😊
I try to keep up mused but it moves so fast 🤣

@LokiCat
@AysLon
@LikeTheFruit
@ValidUser
@MrsH497
@ELW85
@Lozzlepop
@Larrydavid
@Anny27
@macbless
@MIW01

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Lozzlepop · 13/08/2019 15:57

@DuchessofPemberley so sorry to hear about your MMC, I had one back in April followed by a miscarriage in July so know what you are going through, give yourself time to heal both physically and mentally and start TTC again when you feel ready ❤️

@ladybird0704 are you able to post a pic?

flossy12 · 13/08/2019 15:42

@DuchessofPemberley sorry to hear that darling 😥😥

MrsH497 · 13/08/2019 15:18

Hey @DuchessofPemberley I'm so sorry to hear your news but welcome back to the loveliest bunch of ladies (who've been amazing to me today though my MC and crazy wtf is my body doing this week!)
Be kind to yourself x

DuchessofPemberley · 13/08/2019 15:11

Hey all.

I was on these threads a while back, got my BFP, but unfortunately I had a missed miscarriage at nine weeks. So I’m back on the TTC train.

Found out I’d miscarried three weeks ago, body just getting back to normal now.

Sunshine8888 · 13/08/2019 13:14

@MrsH497 I really feel your pain. I’ve just started getting horrible cramps at 12DPO and brown spotting. AF is due Thursday ... I’m just going to have to wait and see but have a horrible feeling it’s coming 😭

MrsH497 · 13/08/2019 13:13

@ladybird0704 if it's only a faint line I would suggest wait until at least AF is due as digitalis are much less sensitive good luck

ladybird0704 · 13/08/2019 12:49

Hello,

TTC #1, AF due tomorrow.

Took FRER this morning and think I can see a very faint line.

It's DH birthday today and can't decide what to do.

Do you think I should get a CB Digital?

MrsH497 · 13/08/2019 11:12

An hour of tampon and back to brown and not much blood wtf 😩😭

MrsH497 · 13/08/2019 11:03

Taking out the spotting/whatever Sunday to this morning she's a day early so not bad but whatever was going on before now was 4 days early

Lozzlepop · 13/08/2019 11:00

@MrsH497 so if this is AF did she arrive a lot earlier than anticipated?

@Lottiepink Oh i stuff my face when I get back don't worry lol! I start work at 8:30am and leave the house before 7am to get in so I would never have time in the morning 😂

MrsH497 · 13/08/2019 11:00

There's no chance I could be pregnant now is there?

XjustagirlX · 13/08/2019 10:55

@Lottiepink interesting. I hadn’t considered that I had ovulated early. I was expecting to ovulate on CD 23 because of the clear blue peak.

flossy12 · 13/08/2019 10:47

@MrsH497 I'm so sorry for you honey 😥😥😘

flossy12 · 13/08/2019 10:46

@Anny27 it's just like rubbing salt in the wound really!! And she's only 20 nearly 5 years younger than me I'm feeling ancient 🤦🏼‍♀️

@Lottiepink no I don't think our bedrooms are on the same side 😅😅 I have the squeakiest bed known to man and I'm mid terrace so sure both sides will hear (poor them) 😂😂💪🏻

flossy12 · 13/08/2019 10:43

@LokiCat thank you sweetie ☺️ yeah we will be fine, their only decorating at the moment not fully living there so might be a while before we have to see her all the time 🤦🏼‍♀️

yeah still managed to DTD 🤪 went to watch the shooting starts that were supposed to happen last night but didn't last long 😉😅 snuggling in the cold defo helped to change the mood xx

@MIW01 tell me about it 😅😭 always happens to me I'm so unlucky it's a joke

@Lozzlepop yep into the terrace next door 🙄🙄 I have a feeling she knew as-well as I was good friends with the neighbour before and they are good friends x

cupcakesandglitter · 13/08/2019 10:22

Oh @MrsH497 so sorry :( look after yourself, and make a GP appointment if it makes you feel better ❤️ xx

MrsH497 · 13/08/2019 10:09

Bleeding is more period like so I think I'm onto cycle 10 and feeling so low

cupcakesandglitter · 13/08/2019 10:08

@MrsH497 had them because they were worried about ectopic but thankfully all looks okay atm 😊 I'd definitely do that, they can put your mind at ease - but I'd wait a couple of days for a FRER (or maybe tomorrow morning) xx

Thanks @LokiCat and congrats on your BFP 😊 xxx

MrsH497 · 13/08/2019 09:43

@Lottiepink is it? I'm so rubbish at this the only time I've used an IC was when I was late last time and clearly pg. worth waiting a couple of days and using the trusty frer?

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Lottiepink · 13/08/2019 09:38

@MrsH497 yeh 14 dpo for an ic is still very early! So frustrating though! Least in a few days you will know either way, totally does not help at all tho... sorry ☹️

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Jessikka · 13/08/2019 09:36

Hi @starkid

Cycle 8! I've just left the doctors and hes put me a week ahead.
I had a confusing period.. it started on Sunday and then dissapeared and returned on thursday. I assumed I had to discount the sunday and go from the date on thursday when it came back.

Doc says to go from the sunday though. So that puts me at 4+5 (which would explain why my lines were so dark for 3weeks)

Who knows!

MrsH497 · 13/08/2019 09:11

@Lottiepink I'm hoping that it's early and that if I wait until end of the week if I am pregnant it'll show if not we put it down to the weirdest cycle I've ever had. Only day 3 of "bleeding/spotting" so who knows!

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Lottiepink · 13/08/2019 09:07

Missed loads of messages 🤦🏻‍♀️

@flossy12 yes absolutely! It's just not an ideal situation... hope you aren't in a semi detached and your bedrooms aren't on the same shared wall 😂😂😂

@LokiCat May try different vitamins next time, I've been on the ptegancare ones for a few cycles now so worth a shot! My temp dropped lower again today so think I'm out!

@Lozzlepop gym at lunch your keen! I need my food 🤣🤣 I usually go to the gym early morning, just got back at 8.30 so shower and work for me rest for a hectic day!

@Anny27 too long 🙈😢 14 cycles including when I came off my pill, so it look me a while to get into a normal cycle pattern after that. We planned to go to the docs for tests, but are going to book in as soon as we get back from our holiday we decided ☹️

@MrsH497 sorry to hear that ☹️ seems so strange tho with the spotting etc!

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starkid · 13/08/2019 09:05

Thanks for the message everyone :) I'm not great to be honest, haven't been great all year, and worried my appointment and further testing will mean IVF being the only course of action going forward, which is a whole new kettle of fish compared to ttc at the moment... am once again wondering if I ought to be temping using one of those bracelet things that do it for you, so doesn't matter if you get up for the loo at like 4-5am (me literally every day).

@Jessikka - great lines! What cycle number were you on again sorry? :)

MrsH497 · 13/08/2019 09:02

14dpo day 3 of weird AF