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Lottiepink · 17/07/2019 22:54

Hope you all don't mind me starting this one off, but last one was nearly full... already,
Hi to all the newbies ☺️ sorry for everyone I missed, just went through some of the recents, so please mark your place 😊
I try to keep up mused but it moves so fast 🤣

@LokiCat
@AysLon
@LikeTheFruit
@ValidUser
@MrsH497
@ELW85
@Lozzlepop
@Larrydavid
@Anny27
@macbless
@MIW01

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ELW85 · 19/07/2019 16:02

@MIW01 - thank you, DH is amazing so all full of happiness on the home front; he’s doing a great job of looking after me, just hoping that we get a happy ending🤞🏻

@Sunshine8888 - welcome!

@Imjustme2019 - thank you; sorry if I’ve forgotten - are you using OPKs or temping?

@Eventrider1 - can definitely see something, fingers crossed for your FRER!

@MrsH497 - jealous of your weekend! I’ve always wanted to go to Devon!

@ValidUser - how was your scan? I hope all was well :)

@Lottiepink - thank you so much. Just waiting now, but quietly hoping that everything is ok ❤️

I hope everyone has had a decent Friday? I’m totally shattered but looking forward to a semi-quiet weekend of house clearance and haircut 💇‍♀️

Good luck to anyone testing and trying out new gadgets 😃

MrsR16 · 19/07/2019 14:22

Hey you wonderful ladies, just popping in as I'm a nosey cow and love seeing how you're all getting on

@Lozzlepop I'm so sorry to read your news lovely, look after yourself xx

Eventrider1 · 19/07/2019 09:53

@Lozzlepop AF was due yesterday. According to my flow app I am 16dpo but I’m not sure I trust it’s predictions.

@Lottiepink I will try and get a frer today!

LokiCat · 19/07/2019 09:28

@Lozzlepop oooh amazing! I really want to see the Lion King film! May try and go next weekend.
That makes sense, sometimes work is the best distraction. Thank you! I'm going with some colleagues, so shouldn't be too bad 😊

MrsH497 · 19/07/2019 09:26

😘@Lozzlepop definitely will! Xx

Lottiepink · 19/07/2019 09:10

@Lozzlepop I am so sorry to hear that, take care of yourself, the date night will be exactly what you need xx

@ELW85 pleased they were lovely and helpful! Fingers crossed everything goes well from now 😊

@Sunshine8888 welcome 😊

@MrsH497 sounds like a fab weekend!

@Eventrider1 I defo see a line!! You need a frer!

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Lozzlepop · 19/07/2019 09:03

@LokiCat we are going to go for a bite to eat then go see the new Lion King film- very excited already!! I am actually at work today, I am feeling good and everything has settled down so would rather have my mind focused than sitting at home moping about! Lunch with a friend sounds good, wow that sounds an intense course hope its a quick week for you!!

LokiCat · 19/07/2019 08:54

Morning @Lozzlepop, I'm glad you're okay and a date night next week sounds lovely, any idea what you might do? I hope you're at home today and hope you have a relaxing weekend with DP.
I'm very very happy that it's Friday, finally!
Meeting a friend for lunch tomorrow and then off to Midlands for a week for a training course.

@Eventrider1 I can see more of a line on this one than the one from last night. CB digitals are very sensitive, so it may be you're testing slightly early to get a bfp. As @Lozzlepop suggested, can you get a FRER?

Lozzlepop · 19/07/2019 08:48

@MrsH497 I am doing ok thanks hun, just feel kind of numb is the best way to describe everything! Oooh that sounds like a lovely weekend, have a gin for me!! We thankfully don't have any plans this weekend but we have scheduled in a wee date night for next week which I am looking forward too 🙂

@Eventrider1 I can see a line....can you get a FRER? how many DPO or you/ whens AF due? Sorry if you have already mentioned this previously

Eventrider1 · 19/07/2019 08:43

Always helps to add the picture before posting.
(Excuse the hideous tiles. They are due to be ripped out soon!)

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Eventrider1 · 19/07/2019 08:41

Well I had an annoying morning. Thought I would use the fancy digital clear blue to get a definitive answer but the bloody thing came up with an error Sad
Did my last little stick test and there was a faint line so I’m keeping my fingers crossed. Have ordered some more tests which should arrive in the next few days so here’s hoping!

MrsH497 · 19/07/2019 08:39

Hey @Lozzlepop how are you?

Going to Devon to see my in laws it's my sister in laws 30th birthday party so plenty of gin and a bbq can't wait to finish work

Lozzlepop · 19/07/2019 08:06

Morning ladies, how are we all? I’m so happy it’s Friday! Does anyone have any fun weekend plans?

LokiCat · 19/07/2019 07:39

Morning all!

@Maisy24 thank you! She's a big ball of fluff 😍

@Eventrider1 I can see the faintest smudge in the area where a line should be 🤞🏽

@Sunshine8888 welcome! Sorry AF arrived, although after 45 days I guess it was also a happy welcome.
I didn't realise how much there was involved in ttc as well! I was in a happy bubble not knowing about OPKs and temping 😂 I hope the OPKs are helpful for you this cycle :)
There are a lot of very knowledgeable, supportive ladies on this thread so you're in the right place!

@Anny27 I think I'm even more excited to temp in the mornings now, which is not helping my crazy obsession 😂
Love me some Love Island as well! One perk of DH working late is that he doesn't pester me to change the channel 😊

@Imjustme2019 it may be that you're ovulating later this cycle? Don't lose hope, fingers crossed it happens!!

@MrsH497 nope should be fine to start temping from now!

@ValidUser thank you!! Good luck for today!

ValidUser · 19/07/2019 07:31

@MrsH497 totally!

@LokiCat fabulous kitty!

MrsH497 · 19/07/2019 07:27

Ladies who temp.. in CD2 can I start now or is it too late?

Sunshine8888 · 18/07/2019 23:28

Thanks @Anny27 I think I’ll try similar although I think I’ll be later rather than earlier due to my last cycle being 45 days 🤔.

Imjustme2019 · 18/07/2019 23:24

@Lozzlepop so sorry to hear your news. You're definitely right,we're all here for each other.

@ELW85 glad things have improved

I don't think we will have a chance this month,I've been recording my temps and no ovulation calculated, normally happens around cd11 I'm on cd18

Anny27 · 18/07/2019 23:12

@sunshine8888 welcome :) i started TTC at the end of May so similar to you. Currently cd18. I used ovulation sticks this month and found them really helpful to pinpoint when i ovulated. I started using them about cd9 and ovulated round about cd15. What day do you think you will start testing?

@LokiCat yep i found the femometer really easy to use even when i was half awake at 6.30 haha!

Just finished watching love island (guilty pleasure) and looking forward to a hopefully quiet friday at work

Sunshine8888 · 18/07/2019 23:03

Hello ladies, I have been watching this thread and it’s lovely how caring and supportive you all are to each other. I am 31 ttc baby number 1. I only started this journey in June after coming off the pill so it’s very new to me but I find these forums very helpful. I am CD1 after AF arrived today after 45 days 😬 I have just purchased some ovulation sticks for this cycle in the hope they’ll help me work out what’s happening when. I am already feeling overwhelmed by ttc. I know it sounds stupid but I never realised before ttc what a lot of us have to go through 😬

Maisy24 · 18/07/2019 22:55

@LokiCat wow Loki is so beautiful 

@Eventrider1 I think I can see a faint line! But don't want to get your hopes up it could be my dodgy eyes, I am praying it is for you xxx

Eventrider1 · 18/07/2019 22:27

Posted this in the last group before realising you had already moved to a new thread!

Can anyone else see a line or is it just my eyes playing tricks on me?

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LokiCat · 18/07/2019 22:10

@ELW85 haircuts are great! A chance to be pampered and walk out feeling like a new woman 😊😂 enjoy!
Having lunch with a friend on Saturday and then off to Birmingham on Sunday for training for the week. DH has been working quite late this week and so a bit sad I won't even have next week with him!

@MIW01 sorry about the BFN. If AF isn't due till next week, though you may have tested a bit early? How many dpo are you?
Good luck for your interview next week! I hope AF doesn't show!

I've been hanging out with my little Loki again this evening.
Have a good night ladies ❤️

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MIW01 · 18/07/2019 21:55

Oh @Lozzlepop so sorry to hear that! My heart goes out to you. Hope DP is about for hugs and support.

@XjustagirlX sorry to hear AF arrived, that sucks. I still can't believe how difficult this procreation stuff is in reality!

@ELW85 I'm keeping everything crossed for you! Be kind to yourself in the meantime and hope the home life is as stress free as possible.

Weirdly, feeling relieved after BFN yesterday, at least I know now. Well, I'm assuming so. AF due next Tuesday, ironically the day I have a job interview! Great timing. So if she doesn't arrive I'll test again but the 1 I used is pretty sensitive so should have indicated something. Poor DP is clearly disappointed. He is really looking forward to Fatherhood!

Mrskcam · 18/07/2019 21:28

@Lozzlepop so sorry to hear that 💔 xx