TTC First Baby Thread 21

@LokiCat I am 4DPO too! I’m doing ok thanks have the usual good days and bad days! I’m the same, just want AF to come so we can get things back on track! Sitting watching 24 hours in police custody and then it’s bed for me!

Constipated to high heavens today. No idea what my body's doing, I've had 0 symptoms this cycle until the last couple days but there a mix of my normal PMS and the opposite 🙄🙄

@LokiCat we must be cycle twins I'm about 5dpo I think. My mum weirdly feels optimistic this month compared to my pessimism!

@Kiza don't worry about sounding off it's what we are all here for! An island sounds great away from the questions of when we are going to start a family or the "least you know you can get pregnant" hibernating away seems like a brilliant option!

We've got a long weekend off in September and we were going to have a sunny break just Majorca or something but both want to wait and see if I get pregnant first as I can't face flying in early pregnancy again I logically know it probably didn't cause my MC but I can't put myself through that again.

Let's hope we all feel more positive tomorrow 😘

@Lozzlepop @LokiCat, suppose it is possible I ovulated late as I gave up on the OPKs CD21 as I didn’t get a positive or even a line! I don’t even feel like AF is coming so 🤞🏼

@LokiCat maybe it's something in the water or a full moon too! Hope you feel better tomorrow too x

@Kiza - x posted - I think it must be one of those Mondays! I think we all need a good nights sleep and a break from hearing about all things TTC/pregnancy related.
I'm sorry it's been such a stressful journey. I hope a good nights sleep helps, I definitely need one!! ❤️

Hi ladies! So glad Monday is over. Only just managed to get on MN, was constantly down for me!

@MrsH497 I'm sorry you're having a low day. I had those feelings on Friday when talking to my friends about it all - finally getting a bfp then having a MC and now I'm worried I either won't get another bfp or will keep mc if I do.

@Lozzlepop hope you've been okay, been thinking of you! Hope dinner was enjoyable.

@whatsthecraic91 sorry to hear about the BFN. Could you have ovulated late, maybe? Fingers crossed AF doesn't show 🤞🏽

@Lemonysherbet oh no sorry to hear about your stomach bug! I hope you're feeling better today. Fingers crossed you still manage to catch ovulation!

4dpo today, have felt so irritable and moody all day! Big temp drop yesterday and it only rose by 0.02 today. I know it's too early to mean anything but not feeling positive about this cycle. I just want it to be next week so I know and then move on to a new cycle!
I clearly need a good nights sleep - hope you all have a good night!

Just realised that my post is really ranty and grumpy and I'm so sorry if I offended anyone 🤭 just having a reeaaaallllly bad day

@MrsH497 I feel you, woke up grumpy as hell today and as awful as it sounds I'm sick to the back teeth of hearing about babies and pregnancies and supplements and acupuncture and testing!! Aaaggghhj! Just having one of those days and I hope I wake tomorrow and feel back to my normal self.
Been almost a year of trying with 1 chemical pregnancy and nada, just feel like isolating myself on an island where I can forget about pregnancy and conception for a bit 😤

@lozzlepop yeh I did try come on a few times and gave up in the end! Yeh a bit better thanks. Think it's too late now I must have ovulated dammit.

@Lemonysherbet I think it was down for a good portion of the day! Oh no what a shame, are you feeling better today?

@whatsthecraic91 any chance you ovulated later than you though so might be a few days away from AF?

@Lozzlepop I know think it's the fact I've realised it's 9 months since we got married and we've been trying since then. Obviously got pregnant after 6 months but nothing since May when I had the MC not even a hint of being pregnant!!

@Lozzlepop I know think it's the fact I've realised it's 9 months since we got married and we've been trying since then. Obviously got pregnant after 6 months but nothing since May when I had the MC not even a hint of being pregnant!!

@Lozzlepop she was due Saturday/Sunday past! Don’t know what’s going on!!

@lozzlepop I thought it was my internet being rubbish, now I know why!

So didn't managed to DTD last night thanks to a delightful stomach bug. Instead I spent the evening on the toilet. Ugh. Oh well, I'm a huge believer in fate and if it's meant to be it will be. Still sucks though!

Hope everyone is well. Welcome to the new ladies :)

Hello ladies

Hope everyone has had a good Monday, this is the first I’ve managed on today with the site being down earlier!

@whatsthecraic91 Sorry to hear it was a BFN but as the other ladies say you aren’t out until AF, when’s she due?

@MrsH497 I hear ya hun! Can’t believe we are into August already and no further forward on this journey. The waiting after a MC is just the worst!

I’m super snoozy tonight so very glad to be home and have dinner on 🙂

@newgirl89 @Anny27 used a FRER the only one I had! So I think I’ll just wait until AF shows up now cos she’s gonna! Can’t face another BFN

So I’ve just had some brown spotting and I don’t know weather that’s normal or not.

I was due to ovulate a couple of days ago but I’ve had 8 days of flashing smiley and not had a static yet. I thought I had EWCM on Friday but I’m not sure. I got a static smiley after 6 flashing smileys last cycle.

Also my graph is really strange with month

Can any of you help me understand what might be going on?

Thanks x

@MrsH497 I feel you! I have angry PMS today and period pains and just feel a bit glum about the whole thing. I'm sure it'll pass in a couple of days - and I'm planning to get super fit this month but still, a bit disappointing. Hope you're ok. And hope everyone else is having slightly better Monday's!

Hey ladies. Having a real downer today feeling negative about everything. Just don't think I've been lucky this month I'm due AF next week or start of week after and just feeling so down about how long it's taken then to MC and start again.

My sister in law has very regular periods and didnt get a BFP untill AF was a week late!

@whatsthecraic91 ahh so sorry about BFN - hopefully AF stays away and its a BFP tomorrow xx

@whatsthecraic91 so sorry hun. But. You're not out until AF is here. Did you use FRER? X

@whatsthecraic91 so sorry hun. But. You're not out until AF is here. Did you use FRER? X

BFN! Why does our bodies torture us like this?