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AllHopeAndNoResults · 08/07/2019 16:32

Hi guys,

I’ve done a few threads on here for ttc but this month I am in a new positive state of mind and I am determined to get that BFP!!

I’ve been to the GP today who said my bloods have come back fine for hormones etc and just that I am very low on vit d (which I knew from last check up and have been taking vitamin tabs twice a day) anyway....

She has said there is nothing to suggest any infertility or that I’m not ovulating and that perhaps I am ovulating and not timing it. I was convinced at this appointment I would be prescribed chlomid, but no she said that I just need to come back in 2 months with a new blood test and see from there...

I came away disheartened and a little bit like I’d given up until I thought hold on she said there was no reason to suggest in infertile or have a problem therefore I am fertile and need to work harder! So I got online ordered loads of OPKs, preseed and a basal thermometer.

I also downloaded Sperm Meets Egg and I am determined this month to follow rule by rule. Sorry that was very long! But I am due AF any minute so will be tracking from about day 8 anybody want to do the journey with me??

Again sorry for how long that was!!

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Skyla01 · 29/07/2019 12:15

@OP no I think they are great! It's really nice to keep the positive vibes going. In today's world we're used to getting everything here and now. I think that's why ttc can be tough. We need to be humble & patient and keep the faith! What cycle day are you on?

@tinyole that's great! I also have a long weekend trip planned for day af is due. Hope she doesn't come and ruin our trip! I'm 5dpo so almost same as you. Time is going sooo slowly. I'm going to try and enjoy though because I'll be moody if AF shows up. Should try and enjoy the next 10 days and the little hope bubble!

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AllHopeAndNoResults · 29/07/2019 11:17

@Skyla01 thank you,we are all doing the righ things. How are you getting on? How do you feel? I know it feels like a long time for you right now you’re being very patient and that’s always a good thing!

@tinyole that’s lucky you had it all planned I bet your itching to test but you’re doing so well! Only a few more days and you will know!

I attached a photo just to keep us all going and remind us what we are doing it all for. If you ladies think I post to many quotes and don’t find it helpful then let me know and I’ll stop 😂 just like to keep you all up when we go through the wait 😊

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tinyole · 29/07/2019 10:22

@AllHopeAndNoResults I know keeping busy is the only way to stop myself obsessively testing every day 😂😂. It just worked out well that I had a lot planned! The harder part is not drinking any alcohol during all these events.

Love you attitude! The hardest part is holding on to hope during the process and you're crushing it so pat yourself on the back!!

@Skyla01 I'm 6dpo, how many are you? Literally counting down to Paris really looking forward to it. Have a whole schedule planned! It will be just nice to get away. The wait is definitely dragging though! How are you finding it?

Skyla01 · 29/07/2019 08:00

@tinyole how many dpo are you now? And must not be long until you head to Paris! Hope your tww is going faster than mine!

@AllHopeAndNoResults you're doing all the right things! If nothing else this could be practice for future cycles, getting to know your body. Keep it up- with long cycles you need a bit more stamina with the opk.

How is everyone else?

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AllHopeAndNoResults · 29/07/2019 00:55

@tinyole if you don’t win the award for keeping yourself busy in the TWW then I don’t know who else should 😂 camping, Paris...it’s enough to keep me distracted! Well done for resisting the urge, it’s much better to wait for the right time then you will know a difinitive answer instead of driving yourself crazy testing every other day.

I’m doing good thank you, I feel really positive about it all. I’m not pinning my hopes on it happening in the next 3 months but I defo feel it’s on the horizon which I haven’t felt for years so all good. My ovulation sticks are very slowly progressing and I’m also taking AC just once a day so I’m giving that time to work and hopefully by the time it does I’ll be able to pinpoint my ovulation day because I’ve been used to it.

@Bexss I’m glad you feel like you have support here, we all know how you feel so it’s good to be amongst those who do and any thing you need to ask or share no matter how big or small one of us will be able to help you through it x

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Bexss · 28/07/2019 22:40

@tinyole thank you so much everyone’s support on this page is lush x

tinyole · 28/07/2019 22:38

Hi everyone! I've missed so many messages hope everyone is doing well!

@AllHopeAndNoResults I'm great thanks hun how are you? Got home earlier from camping and had really poor internet connection there. Been taking AC once a day and I resisted the urge to do a frer test today so I'm proud of myself 😂😂

How are you? How are things getting on?

@Bexss I can see a faint line! But I would wait a little longer as the others suggested. Praying for a BFP for you!!!

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AllHopeAndNoResults · 28/07/2019 20:01

@Bexss I’m not sure if they do. I think the best thing to do is wait a few days

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Makingawish · 28/07/2019 18:54

@Bexss I think they can but generally they don’t.

Bexss · 28/07/2019 18:43

Can a evap line have colour x

Makingawish · 28/07/2019 18:33

@Bexss Ahh sorry! No you were clear, I just misunderstood 🙈 maybe take another one tomorrow if you can and dip it in a sample if you don’t do that already just to try and reduce the chance of an evap if the test floods!

Bexss · 28/07/2019 18:24

Thank you hun

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AllHopeAndNoResults · 28/07/2019 18:22

@Bexss I do hear a lot though that the blue tests leave evaps. Leave it a few more days. It gets stronger every 48hrs if it’s a positive

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Bexss · 28/07/2019 18:10

@Makingawish No second pic is a different test I was showing you what i thought was evap sorry should of been more clear xx

Makingawish · 28/07/2019 18:08

@Bexss I’d personally be inclined to say evap based on that 2nd picture, sorry. You can see where it’s bled through from the control window and doesn’t seem to have any colour.

Bexss · 28/07/2019 18:01

12 xx

Bexss · 28/07/2019 18:00

@AllHopeAndNoResults it wasn’t straight away but the wee stick was still wet so the wee hadn’t dried out? & it’s blue 🤷‍♀️ I thought this was more evap & this was after a couple days x

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Makingawish · 28/07/2019 17:55

@Bexss it’s hard to tell. It looks half evap/half positive. How many DPO are you?

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AllHopeAndNoResults · 28/07/2019 16:42

@Bexss I can see something. How long after did the line appear? It looks a bit flooded

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Bexss · 28/07/2019 16:03

It is blue

Bexss · 28/07/2019 16:01

Faint positive or evap line???

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Makingawish · 28/07/2019 14:07

@AllHopeAndNoResults oh the dreaded TWW! Feel like I’ve only just come out of it 🤦🏻‍♀️

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AllHopeAndNoResults · 28/07/2019 11:51

Woohoo for statics!! @Skyla01 so you are officially in the TWW @Makingawish you will be after Thursday 🤗
@dobzyj
I hope you find the cb helpful
@tinyole how you getting on?

My lines are still negative but slowly progressing. I think we all need a big pat on the back for making it through dtd in this heat!
Enjoy your day ladies x

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Makingawish · 28/07/2019 11:24

@Skyla01 it’s like a game and today I hit the jackpot 😄 I expected a couple of days of flashing smileys at least! Just shows how easy it is to miss your surge.

Skyla01 · 28/07/2019 11:10

It's great to see the static isn't it @Makingawish ! I started testing early in my long cycle so I had about 9 days of flashing before my static. Hope you can keep energy up for all the DTD!