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Oh Feck!!!!

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magnolia1 · 23/07/2007 10:55

Can't be bothered to name change. Ds1 is nearly 8 months and baby number 5. Dh doesn't want more!
I had 1st period 6 weeks ago (still b/f) and though I was having next one 3 days ago but it turned out to be spotting. Wasn't worried just thought hormones were playing up but today I feel sick. But have a tummy ache so possibly period just taking a while to start properly??

Bugger and bugger and bugger!
Yes I know get a pg test but kids are off and I am not going to town with 5 kids.

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magnolia1 · 25/07/2007 11:09

Definately have Af now. Will keep the other tests for another time

I have raised the subject with dh but he is not keen. Although he is not worried when the snip is done so maybe deep down he is ok with another but wont admit it

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pipsqueeke · 25/07/2007 08:33

try again on friday just to be sure. maybe talk to DH about the possiblity of a no 6 to see how he feels?

MerlinsBeard · 24/07/2007 16:00

could be. although if you are still spotting it could be that implantation hasn't finished and maybe HcG is higher after that? I don't really know how it works.

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magnolia1 · 24/07/2007 15:47

Yep, Negative still spotting so think it's my hormones playing up. Its for the best so why am I so dissapointed?

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MerlinsBeard · 24/07/2007 15:43

did they arrive today?

sparklygothkat · 23/07/2007 21:15

oh dear mags!! i hope you get the result you want..

pipsqueeke · 23/07/2007 21:08

lol. don't worry bout it, we all do it.

pipsqueeke · 23/07/2007 21:07

ah a woman after my own heart re the contraception thing! lol.

fingers crossed then it's just your AF's/hormones settling back down again. we shall know tomorrow hopefully

DumbledoresGirl · 23/07/2007 21:07

Oops sorry pipsqueeke. There was I thinking you had not read the OP fully when I now see it is me who has not read your post properly

It is at times like this that I would like to have the facility of withdrawing posts!

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magnolia1 · 23/07/2007 21:05

Yep 2nd one, not the end of the world. Part of me thinks it's ok one more won't make much difference and the sensible part of me thinks, it's really about time we stopped and gave our attention to the 5 we have got without having anymore. I am permenantley broody so no full contraceptive mixed with how I feel is pretty dangerous.
Dh really doesn't want another but then if he felt that strongly he should be abstaining from sex with me surely

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pipsqueeke · 23/07/2007 21:03

sorry DG I ment her second AF since the birth of no 5.

DumbledoresGirl · 23/07/2007 21:03

Not her second pipsqueeke, her sixth if it happens.

pipsqueeke · 23/07/2007 21:00

is this your second one?

I think in order mine went

first one ok
second slightly late boobs hurting v much when feeding DS and heavy AF
third one was right timing boobs hurt immensly thou and AF was extreamly heavy and painful.
fourth was fine and back to normal again

so could well just be everything settling into place. would it be the end of the world if you were pg?

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magnolia1 · 23/07/2007 20:39

Thats ok, they should arrive tomorrow or Wednesday. Feel pretty pre menstrual so maybe it's just taking a while to arrive properly

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mumofSlytherinsmonsters · 23/07/2007 18:23

actually lucycat, we havecome back from a party and he has sparkly nail varnish on so i think you were right the first time!!

(sorry magnolia i keep hijacking...twas Lucycat!)

DumbledoresGirl · 23/07/2007 18:22

OMG Magnolia! What a shock!

I know what you mean about not being able to go to the chemist with 5 kids in tow and ask for a pg test. I had to about a year ago (false alarm, thank God) and you feel such a prat, and just waiting for the woman behind the counter to say "Don't you know what contraception is?"

Good luck with the tests.

Lucycat · 23/07/2007 18:21

gawd course I did I get so used to typing dd and when i heard your news i got all giddy and didn't concentrate - sorry J

mumofSlytherinsmonsters · 23/07/2007 18:19

lucycat...its early days yet so only discreetly announced it. had m/c last year. not told any reasl people yet (iyswim) and surely you mean ds1

magnolia..glad you're getting more tests when wil thety arrive?

Lucycat · 23/07/2007 14:44

MOM - I've just twigged that you are pregnant! sooo many congratulations, that's great news!

Wouldn't want you having any time on your hands when dd1 goes to school now would we?

take care!

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magnolia1 · 23/07/2007 14:24

Ok have bought one from Ebay, well bought 3 so I can test again and again to triple check

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BreeVanDerCampLGJ · 23/07/2007 14:09

It is quite possible you are just late.

However you are Mrs fertile,lets be honest you two only have to pass on the stairs.

If you get away with it this time..........BE MORE CAREFUL and yes I know I am SHOUTING.

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magnolia1 · 23/07/2007 14:02

I could just be late but will order a test off Ebay now just to check
Will update when it comes.
Thanks girls, sometimes I just need a kick up the arse

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mumofSlytherinsmonsters · 23/07/2007 13:59

MAGNOLA, IT IS ENTIRELY POSSIBLE THAT YOUR CYCLES ARE WONKY STILL (sorry hit caps) but there really is only one way to find out!

meandmy · 23/07/2007 13:57

could you use your hv as a confident? get her to bring you sample pot to have tested?

pipsqueeke · 23/07/2007 13:57

don't know what were they like with your other lo's, mine were every month once they started back up agaain - althou I did have 2 months when they were very painful and heavy. is it possible that you're just late? (also haime of the heavy ones)

would say ebay tests are your safest bet hon.