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Would you trick hubby into having a 3rd?

56 replies

breathandrelax · 03/06/2019 23:21

We’ve got two kids with 2 year age gaps. Was a hard time for us both with little ones. But now youngest is 2.5 I really want another but he says not yet. I’m tempted to stop taking my pill and leave it to fait but without telling him. Would you?

He wasn’t “ready” for the other two either. Are any men ever ready for kids lol

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zeromango · 03/06/2019 23:26

Respect your husbands wishes, and wait until you're both ready. Don't trick him or things might not work out as you want them too, especially if he found out.

mothertobe789 · 03/06/2019 23:24

No, I wouldn't do that.

GreenTulips · 03/06/2019 23:24

No I wouldn’t

3 changes a lot of things, like car, rooms in the house, holidays, even looking at university costs!!

Can you afford to work and raise 3 kids

It’s not just a bay it’s huge financial commitment

ChipsAreLife · 03/06/2019 23:23

He said not yet, not never. You need to respect him. You shouldn't trick someone into having a child, it's appalling.

Just give it some time or really talk to him. Please don't trick him

Mummaofmytribe · 03/06/2019 23:23

I wouldn't do this. It could blow up in your face.

PlaymobilPirate · 03/06/2019 23:22

It wouldn't be 'leaving it to fate' at all. It would be devious and wrong.

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