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Would you trick hubby into having a 3rd?

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breathandrelax · 03/06/2019 23:21

We’ve got two kids with 2 year age gaps. Was a hard time for us both with little ones. But now youngest is 2.5 I really want another but he says not yet. I’m tempted to stop taking my pill and leave it to fait but without telling him. Would you?

He wasn’t “ready” for the other two either. Are any men ever ready for kids lol

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Biancadelrioisback · 04/06/2019 08:05

Proper cunty. Says a lot about you "lol"

CupoTeap · 04/06/2019 06:43

Do you really think he wouldn't figure it out? Once trust is gone that's it.

OldUnit · 04/06/2019 06:42

Posts like yours make me wonder if the male pill shouldn't also be a thing so he can control his own destiny instead of entrapment.

Bet you a dairylea triangle you DO do it. Hope he freaks out & leaves you.

ukgift2016 · 04/06/2019 06:27

Loads of women do it. You just never admit it out loud.

Look how many women on here get pregnant by 'accident'.

rwalker · 04/06/2019 06:25

What a vile person you are what the fuck has your dh done to deserve you !!! . How can you possibly think doing this to someone is acceptable disgusting . Half arsed effort to back track not to show your self for what you are.

EmmaGrundyForPM · 04/06/2019 06:24

Absolutely not. That would be an outrageous thing to do.

mabelmylove · 04/06/2019 06:22

No way!

Isbrexitoveryet · 04/06/2019 06:19

That would really strain a relationship I’m sorry

soberken · 04/06/2019 06:19

My friend did this. They are now divorced.

user1483387154 · 04/06/2019 06:17

That would be a disgusting thing to do

Mimi91 · 04/06/2019 06:14

In your mind, it might seem the logical thing to do. It's understandable why you would be keen to try again asap, but doing what you're suggesting is immoral and very unfair.

Please talk to him about how you're feeling. Taking matters into your own hands is not a good idea, if he finds out, that could be all the trust in your marriage gone.

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breathandrelax · 03/06/2019 23:39

Thanks for your comments all. Yes it’s not a nice thing to do and really I wouldn’t actually do it but an 11:30pm thought and wondered if anyone else had ever thought the same. Night all.

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HeddaGarbled · 03/06/2019 23:36

Absolutely not!

Tiptopj · 03/06/2019 23:36

Probably wrong to trick him but theres nothing wrong with coming off your pill and telling him to sort the contraception out if he doesn't want another

gamerchick · 03/06/2019 23:35

Only disrespectful twats oops their partners OP. You would be bang out of order.

Chocolate35 · 03/06/2019 23:33

I couldn’t! It’s your husband, could you really “try” secretly?! That’s really shit 👎

QuantamBaby · 03/06/2019 23:30

No, what a shitty thing to do your partner...

AnneLovesGilbert · 03/06/2019 23:29

No. That’s an unforgivable thing to do. Would you plan to tell him that you’d tricked him if your plan succeeded or lie about it?

MrsEricBana · 03/06/2019 23:29

No

Cherylshaw · 03/06/2019 23:29

Your surely not serious

CallMeRachel · 03/06/2019 23:28

No. Concentrate on the two children you already have.

It's worrying you're even thinking like this tbh.

preggers88 · 03/06/2019 23:27

Definitely not.

TheBabyAteMyBrain · 03/06/2019 23:27

No, and you need to respect his wishes. It's nothing to 'lol' about.

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breathandrelax · 03/06/2019 23:27

Sorry just to add, it took 2.5 years to conceive first time and 12 months second time. I have pcos and 100+ days cycles so it could take ages anyway. But yes I realise not an excuse. Just interested to hear if anyone has taken matters in to their own hands so to speak :)

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ZeroFuchsGiven · 03/06/2019 23:26

Well that would be a twatish thing to do Hmm

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