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TTC First Baby - Thread 16!!

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Fivebyfive2 · 19/04/2019 08:39

Hi all, thought as it's Bank Holiday and thread 15 was 900 plus I'd start a new one, hope that's OK??

Copying tags from when @starkid updated them all the other day.

Hope this works as I've not created a thread before!!

@Jessikka - 28 Cycle 4
@starkid - 29 Cycle 8
@MrsAW2018 - 24 Cycle 10
@TTC34 - 34 Cycle 3
@19Bee2 - 27 Cycle 2
@MrsH497 - 32 Cycle 5
@MrsR16 - 26 Cycle 9
@Lola871 - 31 Cycle 3
@ValidUser - 29 Cycle 1
@DayDreamer1707 - 28 Cycle 6
@Flapjackered - 31 Cycle 10
@DuchessofPemberley - 32 Cycle 7
@KittieKath - 34 Cycle 6
@KatBeCool - 40 Cycle 11
@MrsMcNtobe - Cycle 6
@BabySquid - 29 Cycle 11
@Sleepyquest - 28 Cycle 2
@Granddesigns - 32 cycle 5
@Catlady31 - 31 cycle 1
@LikeTheFruit - 30 cycle 4
@Jooloo11 - 32 Cycle 3
@Daisiesandpeonies - Cycle 11
@LuckyPenguin - 34 Cycle 3
@Lizzie198 - 30 Cycle 2
@Rachel59pink - 26 Cycle 1
@Orangeloo - 31 Cycle 4
@Lemonysherbet - 31 Cycle ?
@NKB88 - Cycle 2
@Wildrabbit - Cycle 2
@Essjayycee - Cycle 1
@Hannah192 - Cycle 4
@LoMoon - Cycle 6
@Hiddenfigure - Cycle 1
@Jc88146 - Cycle 18
@Kay98 - Cycle 16
@Lottiepink - 29 Cycle 13
@Bec18x - Cycle 4
@Soda123x - 32 Cycle 2
@Aimingfor2019 - 28 Cycle 3
@Lifesforlivingandloving - 32 Cycle 1
@MotherOfShihTzus - 33 Cycle 14
@Cupcakesandglitter - 23 cycle 11
@Baby01988 - 30 Cycle 5
@Pinksunset1 - 28 cycle 4
@TonightJosephine - cycle 1
@Toobies1 - 30 Cycle 5
@Blackfriars - Cycle 4
@rosehm 28 - Cycle 1
@SophWolf - Cycle 1
@Thosethreewords - Cycle 4
@Fivebyfive2 - 30 Cycle 9
@SunnyL88 - 30 Cycle 9
@rose555 - 32 Cycle 4
@Chembecky - 32 Cycle 2
@AysLon - 31 Cycle 2
@SunStruck - 35 Cycle 2
@dahlia123 - 32 Cycle 4
@LokiCat - 28 Cycle 6
@TrulyMiss - 30 Cycle 1
@SSC92 - Cycle 1
@Bacchant - Cycle 2
@Headswim - 36 Cycle 4
@Lemurville - 32 Cycle 5
@Tropicana1 - 28 Cycle 1
@McHelenz - 30 Cycle 1

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Fivebyfive2 · 03/05/2019 09:08

@flapjackered, I was 11/12 dpo when I tested earlier this week and the one this morning is 13/14 dpo. At least you're past the halfway point of the tww. Absolutely everything crossed for you! Going on from @MrsEG, I think I might ask about an early scan, as mine was classed as a mmc as well and if I hadn't have opted for d&c god knows how long it would have taken my body to do what it supposed to?! I'm gonna call the Dr next week, just get the ball rolling and go from there. Spoke to my mum on the phone this morning, feels really unnatural not telling her right away, can't wait to tell her on Sunday, she'll be a great support ... Dh is amazed I haven't spilled the beans, as we're really close!

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starkid · 03/05/2019 09:07

Hey everyone, so had my 1 year docs appointment, was very quick and straight-forward. Scan of ovaries/uterus is being organised, and DH has to do sperm sample. Already did the blood test so those results and the scan results will go straight to the fertility clinic and will be referred there from then onwards. So all finally happening! Kind of excited, weird as it sounds. I feel a bit more positive now there's action at least, so can get answers.

McHelenz · 03/05/2019 08:45

@marleym28 I should be testing Monday or Tuesday. Im 9dpo today and really want to test. Not really feeling anything at the mo 😔.

FlapJackered · 03/05/2019 08:44

@MrsEG @Fivebyfive2 I think I would get an early scan at 8 weeks too. Although I think I would see how I feel at the time too. It's a tough one isn't it.

FlapJackered · 03/05/2019 08:42

@cherryblossomgin sorry if I have missed this but what is gonadotropin for?
That is amazing that it has given you another chance at conceiving naturally although I can understand that would be hard to get your head around it.

FlapJackered · 03/05/2019 08:39

Can someone stop me pointlessly symptom spotting! 🙈 8dpo and feeling really nauseous but I know
A, it is too early for symptoms and
B, the one time I was pregnant I wasn't this nauseous, whereas many many cycles I haven't been pregnant I have felt like spewing. 🤢 🤦🏼‍♀️

@Marleym28 @rose555 cycle triplets! 💃💃💃

@rose555 I do remember one of the grads had a massive dip for a few days but I can't remember who it was. You're definitely not out if AF isn't due until next week. It could also just be a random wrong temp.

@Fivebyfive2 wow your hotel looks amazing I am so jealous! Also great line!!! What dpo were you when you tested first?

@KatBeCool how are you lovely? What cd are you now? X

MrsEG · 03/05/2019 08:35

@Tropicana1 I wouldn’t say flu like but I definitely had a constant cold, they call it pregnancy rhinitis! So perfectly normal :)

@Fivebyfive2 It’s totally up to you!! I think I am entitled as we had a MMC so I had no symptoms, and with the subsequent anxiety and counselling they said I’d get an early scan on the NHS. I honestly think it’d be just to put my mind at ease more than anything else! I think it’s totally up to the individual - I know loads of people who just wait for 12 weeks as what will be will be, and I know just as many who pay for scans as early as 7 weeks just to make sure there’s actually something in there!!

@rose555 I’ve no idea to be honest! I went for a run last night and had a temp drop this morning but a very minor one. FX yours shoots back up tomorrow!

@Marleym28 I think that’s a good way of thinking about it - testing too early can really mess with your head! I’m only 4DPO so no testing for me for a while yet :) enjoy your weekend!

Marleym28 · 03/05/2019 08:22

Today I'm 8dpo, not really any symptoms. AF due next thurs (9th).
Not going to bother testing unless anything changes. Not in a negative way but more don't want to get my head in a spin for no reason

Any potential testers over the weekend? X

cherryblossomgin · 03/05/2019 08:11

I done my first injection of gonadotropin last night, my day is a Friday and Tuesday but I was a wimp, and wouldn't have time this morning, they have started me on a low dose and I have to lose 9kg in four months. It took me ages to do the injections because I was scared it would hurt. So I suppose I'm on my first Cycle on it, they don't know how my body will react though. I was told I have plenty of eggs and everything looks normal so I'm feeling more hopeful.

The one thing is I struggle with is that I had closure years ago that I would never conceive naturally and I can't get my head round that I have a good chance. If they get my ovaries working they say my fertility will be normal.

Sorry if this is a long rambling post, I just need to let it out.

Fivebyfive2 · 03/05/2019 08:08

Also, have ordered the diary thing this morning!! Have decided that if things are gonna go wrong, they will go wrong, regardless of if I do or do not buy a £5 diary that just happens to have the word Pregnancy on it!! I won't get any actual baby stuff though, just because it seems a bit pointless for a good while!!

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rose555 · 03/05/2019 08:07

Congrats @tropicana1 - that line is getting stronger and stronger. Hope you feel a bit better soo !

I’ve woken up this morning to a further temperature dip on Ava, rather than the spike back up I was hoping to see. AF isn’t due for another 6 days so isn’t this a bit early to signal that? I am on CD24, 8DPO.

Has anyone had a 2day implantation dip?! Could this be a thing?

I went spinning last night after work - first cardio exercise I’ve done in ages. I wonder if that could have affected my temp while I slept?

Any advice gratefully received 🙏🏼

TTC First Baby - Thread 16!!
Fivebyfive2 · 03/05/2019 08:05

@MrsEG, that sucks, I hope you feel better soon so you can enjoy the long weekend!! I actually put a test in my case earlier in the week while we were packing, as the original plan was just to test today. When I saw it as we unpacked I was like 'why not?!' 😂 Will definitely stop now though. I might ask if I can have an 8 week scan, but we're still thinking it over. I'm torn between wanting to know and then thinking, maybe I should just wait?! What do you think?? Xx

@Tropicana1, good progression!! Stop testing now 🙂 Hope you feel better!! I don't have flu symptoms, but do get a kind of hot flush in the morning that makes me feel a little queasy. Still hungry though!! Xx

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Tropicana1 · 03/05/2019 07:48

@Fivebyfive2 I read it back after I posted and died a little bit 😂 I've also tested yesterday and this morning (I need help) and am happy with my line progress so hopefully that will be enough to make be bloody stop now!

@MrsEG did you ever get flu like symptoms early in pregnancy? I've woken up this morning very achey all over and scratchy throat, Temp 37.16 so not quite a fever or anything but still high

TTC First Baby - Thread 16!!
MrsEG · 03/05/2019 07:41

@Fivebyfive2 Fantastic line (now stop POAS!!) - I also love that you took them on holiday with you! I hope you can relax and start getting excited now :) Do you think you’ll go for an early scan or wait it out for the 12 weeks?

I feel bloody awful today, terrible cold just before the bank holiday - typical! Also means my BBT will be all over the place as I have a temp :( Oh well - 4DPO, just 10 days to wait and see!

Fivebyfive2 · 03/05/2019 07:34

@Tropicana1, that is the funniest typo /auto correct ever 😂

So today was my af date, about 13/14 dpo, took another test (because I'm a little crazy!) and much happier with this line 😀

TTC First Baby - Thread 16!!
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starkid · 03/05/2019 06:53

Good luck @Mrskcam, I've added you to the stats list :)

Mrskcam · 03/05/2019 01:48

Hi all, can I join please? First month ttc baby #1 so pretty new to this. Currently on cd8 and have been dtd every other day since cd6 ... fertile week should be beginning Sunday for me (I’m like clockwork) I know it’s very slim chance of catching on first cycle but would be great news. We are getting married next November on a cruise so only ttc for the next couple of months as I don’t want to be heavily pregnant when getting married due to flying etc. Congrats to all who have had their bfp and good luck to all that are trying!!

MrsR16 · 02/05/2019 22:31

@Marleym28 I was both! I was a walking gas ball for a couple of weeks! It's now settled down (thank god!) but I'm so bloated now it's unreal...

@Tropicana1 you legit just made me lol! 🤣🤣

MrsEG · 02/05/2019 22:16

@LokiCat How frustrating! Are you DTD fairly regularly just in case? Yep I know how you feel - I’ve been asked to organise a colleagues mat leave leaving do lunch... I really like her and am delighted for her, but I do not want to do it at all!

@Bacchant Ooh fingers crossed for you that AF stays well away!

MrsEG · 02/05/2019 21:55

@Tropicana1 best autocorrect ever!!

LokiCat · 02/05/2019 21:55

Hey ladies! Hope you've all had a nice day. Saw a friend for dinner this evening and she told me she's PG! I'm so happy for her but it was hard to hear. She said she didn't know whether to tell me because of my mc, but I'm glad she did.
Everyone seems to be pregnant around me though 😩 that's four in the last month and I swear I'm seeing more 'baby on board' badges on the way to work now. I just want it to be our turn!

Weirdly, I had a dark line on my OPKs the first day I tested (CD15) and now it's gotten lighter ever since (I'm CD18 now). No EWCM, it's only just started to get watery now.. I'm so confused 🙈
According to Glow I'm in my fw but Ovia says it's not till next week! Irregular cycles make things so stressful! Just have a feeling it won't be our month.. me and DH have just seemed quite off.. maybe it's the pressure of it all!

@Marleym28 I was feeling very bloated/gassy (farty) when I had my bfp. Apart from that I had very sore boobs and bumps on my nipples, nothing else really!

TTC First Baby - Thread 16!!
Bacchant · 02/05/2019 20:56

Hi all! Today has been a rough day at work - one of the ladies I work with brought in her scan picture. I’m chuffed for her but can’t help but feel a bit down still.

AF was due yesterday for me, but still hasn’t shown her face yet. My cycles can be up to 28 days though so will test sat if she still isn’t here by then. I think I am out though as I’ve got my usual symptoms (which is mainly cramps tbh!)

Anyone got any exciting plans for the BH weekend?
Me and OH are having a low cost weekend at home

Tropicana1 · 02/05/2019 19:33

Oh my fucking god BOTH not virgin!!!! 😭😂 what a bloody autocorrect to have on a TTC board

Tropicana1 · 02/05/2019 19:32

@MrsEG @Crossfitgirl thanks virgin! Makes me feel a lot better hearing real people with the AF cramping and it being normal rather than just google!!

MrsEG · 02/05/2019 19:29

@Crossfitgirl Yep, I remember my sister going in a few times re: movement and it was always absolutely fine! Like you say, it’s just best to get that peace of mind. She also had really bad pregnancy migraines in the third trimester so was in hosp for those too, along with HG her entire pregnancy - women really do suffer don’t they!! Third trimester, how exciting - she’ll be here before you know it! FX summer doesn’t get too hot for you while you’ll be so heavily pg!!