2DPO, trying for no 2

Hi girls,

So I got my BFP 7DPO! I went for a visibility scan on Monday and I measured at 4 weeks 6 days 😁😁 I may of got my cycle mixed up but I didn't expect to be that far! After 3 years TTC It was my first BFP!

Yesterday I was violently bleeding and hospital confirmed I am having a miscarriage.

Please don't feel alone. Please never give up. We are in this together and we will get our happy endings eventually!💜💜

Sending baby dust to you all and hope we're all getting BFP next few cycles! Xxxxx

@goldendust I know the feeling, I was so sure at one point that this would be my month too. What cycle are you on? Xx

@goldendust sorry about your BFN. I've not been on here for a day because I've also got my BFN, the line I got the other day was obviously an evap, due af any time and got the cramps.
@diecryhate congrats on your bfp 😊xx

DieCryHate aww that's such a lovely idea!! You will have to let us know what his reaction is 🙊

I think I have been having a few symptoms, but it's so difficult to tell as it's probably way too early, and it could just be my body trying to get back to normal from stopping the pill. But I'm almost positive I ovulated as I had sharp twinges and stretchy CM. Since then I have been feeling quite tired, very bloated and gassy. Along with a few headaches here and there. Had a dull crampy feeling this morning but it passed quickly. I normally have sore breasts by now, usually 2 weeks before AF but I don't at the moment. It's just a waiting game unfortunately 😢

@Kam610 thank you lovely. I had a brainwave, we named my son little pud when I was pregnant and I bought him a little pudding babygro. Since this baby, if all being well, will be due mid December I have dug out the babygro and put it in a gift box with the test. Will whip it out later for my husband.

Ahh brilliant sounds like you've got everything in place. Good idea to hide the FRERs. So tempting! Have you had any symptoms? I know it's hard to tell at 5dpo.

I definitely see a line!! Congrats! That's so exciting. I love the idea of the bun in the oven 🙊 definitely not naff at all!

I'm getting on ok thanks just patiently waiting. Now 5 dpo. Just got a delivery of some FRERs which I will go and hide away to avoid the temptation of testing too early. Also got some pregnacare before conception vitamins as I've read that they can help regulate cycles, and as I'm just off the pill I have no idea what my cycles are like!

@Kam610 thanks lovely. I'll try to attach a photo.

Not sure when to tell him. I'm "working from home" today (although cannot concentrate now!) and he's at work. I'll get home after him as I'll need to pick up our son. I did think I could stop at the supermarket on my way and do something like get a bun to put in the oven, or some alcohol free beer and make a point of asking him if he wants a beer then get myself a booze free one? Is that naff? I didn't do anything fun with our first as he was with me when I tested!

I guarantee he won't even see it. He didn't see the bfp I had with our son. He needs to see it in big red letters!

How are you getting on?

DieCryHate post a picture if you like and we can have a look if you're not sure

DieCryHate Don't over analyse it too much as you'll drive yourself crazy! The FRERs wouldn't say it was positive unless it was, it's obviously picking up the hormone 😊 congratulations! When do you plan on telling your OH?

Hello everyone. I just tested again as my frers got delivered. I think I have my bfp. It's super faint but much more obvious than this morning and seems pink. Clearblue digital says not pregnant, but it's not as sensitive. Gahhhh. I'm home alone and not told anyone irl yet.

Morning all, hello @turquoisebaby.

@Goldendust sorry about the bfn. The stay At your mums will hopefully be a relaxing break from it for you. Also, it's still pretty early so I wouldn't consider it over yet!

I tested again at ridiculous o clock (4.30, couldn't sleep again!!). My FRER looks the same as yesterday's, not darker or more noticeable at all so think it may be an indent. I did my last internet cheapie which has a very faint, thick line on it so god knows what's happening. I'd like to know either way.

@Goldendust aww that will be lovely. Go and relax and forget about this baby making business for a few days 🙈

@Goldendust I know this is the worst part.. just waiting! With absolutely nothing you can do. It's literally all I can think about!

My weekend has been non existent as I've been working night shift but off now for a couple of days. Hope you had a lovely weekend x

@Goldendust sorry to hear you had a BFN this morning, it's still relatively early though so don't lose hope yet!

I'm now 4dpo... still a long way to I before I can test and I'm symptom spotting like crazy even though there's no way I would have any symptoms this early!

Hi all, May I jump on board? I have a 2yr old DD and have been trying for DC2 for a 11 months This is my first month of using OPKs so hoping it may make a difference.

I've never had an evap before either but it's so faint and grey looking and I've had nothing at all since then 🤔

@Lucyabraham87 I can see a line too!!!! Ahhhhh exciting!

@Goldendust thanks lovely, how are you getting on?