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TTC after pregnancy loss - Thread 29 - huddle up and bring on the BFP's!

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Laney79 · 24/03/2019 10:09

Hey ladies, we were nearing the limit on thread 28 so here's a new one.

Roll Call...

Name: Laney79
Age: 39
TTC: #1 since autumn 2017.
2 losses - MMC discovered March 2018, MMC discovered Sept 2018 both at what should've been 9 weeks, bean and bow measured 6 weeks.

@Lilimum6 @Russkispy @Catconfusion @Boboelephant @fnej01 please tag and pass on!

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InDreamland · 24/03/2019 14:33

Tagging @KnitKitty @RedRobin7 and @TinyPaws. Hope you lovelies are well.

InDreamland · 24/03/2019 14:33

Thanks for the new thread @Laney79

Me:
Age 39
TTC#1 since 2013
MC#1 in July 2018 and MC#2 in November 2018 - both natural conceptions

Sorry I've not really been on for a week, been really busy since getting back from holiday last weekend. Had NHS gynae consultation appointment, all bloods for clotting, antibodies and blood sugar are 'normal'. ………………….so yet more 'unexplained infertility' despite having 2 natural conceptions and losses last year. I'm at my wits end. Hopefully will have more results for DH next week from private clinic then we can get an appointment with them too. I'm currently on cycle 4 post mc#2 and I think 11DPO so means AF is due tomorrow with my 12 day LP. Definitely don't feel pregnant so fully expecting AF to show.

Sorry there are new names here - so sorry you're going through this too.

@Russkispy CONGRATULATIONS! Wishing you a healthy 40 weeks!

@Lilimum6 how are you?

@Boboelephant hope all is still going well.

Lilimum6 · 24/03/2019 12:55

@Laney79 thanks for the new thread.

I won't bore you all with my crappy story I just say I've been in this group since thread 14 I'm 37 and I've had 6 losses ranging fron 4 to 12 weeks. Waiting for rmc appointment and still wait to ovulate since my last loss end of December. Major fear is I'm broken and this is never going to happen. Hopefully whatever is broken rmc can fix it.

Russkispy · 24/03/2019 12:09

@Laney79 thank you for the new thread!

Me: ancient 42 (43 next month) Grin
DD1 21 months, conceived with IUI
TTC #2 since May 2018
IUI #2 May 2018 ended in MMC
IUI in October, November - all BFN
IVF/ICSI December 2018 - BFN. No frosties
February 2019 - TTC naturally- CP
IVF/ICSI March 2019, 1 embryo- BFP today! 1 frostie.
Thank you for all your messages today! I'll stick around if you don't mind as it's still early days.

Raincart2017 · 24/03/2019 12:05

Hi Everyone,

Thanks @Laney79 for the new thread!

Age 33
TTC #1 since October 2017
1 loss - MC February 2019 at 7 + 2 weeks X
1st AF after MC started yesterday so back on the TTC journey

ale2992 · 24/03/2019 11:58

Name: ale2992
Age: 26
TTC: #2 since sept 2018
2 losses BO in December 2018 and CP February 2019

Beaglemum93 · 24/03/2019 10:54

Hi everyone,

Age: 25
TTC #1
2 losses - MMC in October (baby died at 12+2) and CP last cycle

Mistymeow · 24/03/2019 10:49

Thanks for the new thread Laney! I’m another old timer :)

TTC #1 since December 2016
Male factor infertility (but on treatment and numbers are improving)
MMC x 2 (April 2018 9w5d- anembryonic, March 2019 10w3, heart stopped at 8w) was on IVF waiting list but now awaiting decision on recurrent miscarriage referral.

@laney79 regarding your light flow, I was exactly the same and it really worried me. I went to the GP and he reassured me that as my bloods were all normal he wasn’t concerned. Also I fell pregnant naturally soon after so the lining was fine. From your cycle lengths it does seem like you’re ovulating regularly so I doubt there is anything wrong (and you’re not missing af, or spotting mid cycle). I would definitely go to your GP to get it checked out, for peace of mind more than anything. My GP kept asking if I was stressed and I said no, but I don’t think I was truthful and I think this was the cause of my unpredictable cycles.
@russkispy so delighted for your strong BFP! I know you have had a rough time and I really hope this is the one for you. Please keep us updated.

Warm wishes to the new joiners and those I haven’t said hello to yet (hello!)

fnej01 · 24/03/2019 10:45

Hi all

Thanks for the new thread @Laney79

Age 38
TTC #1
1xMMC June 18
1xMC August 18
1xMC October 18
Possible chemical this cycle following contraceptive failure but not dwelling on it.

Currently awaiting RMC results. Planning to get back on the TTC boat in May on honeymoon

Thanks as always for all the support and sharing on the thread. Welcome to the newbies and the oldies, Wishing us all babydust xx

strawberrye · 24/03/2019 10:21

Hi all, noticed the new thread so thought I'd add myself to the roll call, sorry I've not been on much.

Name: strawberrye
Age: 27
TTC: #1 since autumn 2017.
3 losses - all "biochemical" pregnancies lost just before 5 weeks. Treated subclinical hypothyroidism diagnosed December 2018. Seen by local recurrent miscarriage clinic which was frustrating and not helpful. Awaiting Tommy's clinic referral. Been on this bread for well over a year now, and lurking a fair bit as feeling quite low and lacking in hope for TTC.

Bluebelltulip · 24/03/2019 10:18

Name: Bluebelltulip
Age: 29
TTC #3 1cycle so far
DC 2 was stillborn at 32 weeks in January 2019

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