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TTC first baby - thread 15

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starkid · 21/03/2019 11:30

Hi everyone, looks like it's time for a new thread! Thread 14 was lucky for some, so here's to lots more BFP's Smile

@Jessikka 28 Cycle 3
@starkid 29 Cycle 7
@MrsAW2018 24 Cycle 10
@TTC34 34 Cycle 3
@19Bee2 27 Cycle 2
@MrsH497 32 Cycle 4
@MrsR16 26 Cycle 9
@Lola871 31 Cycle 2
@ValidUser 28 Cycle 7
@DayDreamer1707 28 Cycle 5
@Flapjackered 31 Cycle 9
@DuchessofPemberley 32 Cycle 7
@KittieKath 34 Cycle 6
@KatBeCool 40 Cycle 10
@MrsMcNtobe Cycle 6
@BabySquid 29 Cycle 11
@PeacockingAbout 29 Cycle 4
@Sleepyquest 28 Cycle 2
@Granddesigns 32 cycle 4
@Pinkfizz19 33 cycle 4
@Catlady31 31 cycle 1
@LikeTheFruit 30 cycle 3
@Jooloo11 32 Cycle 3
@Daisiesandpeonies Cycle 10
@LuckyPenguin 34 Cycle 3
@Lizzie198 30 Cycle 2
@Rachel59pink 26 Cycle 1
@Orangeloo 31 Cycle 3
@Lemonysherbet 30 Cycle 1
@Fuiseog 31 Cycle 2
@NKB88 Cycle 2
@Wildrabbit Cycle 2
@Essjayycee Cycle 1
@Hannah192 Cycle 3
@JellyBaby666
@LoMoon Cycle 6
@Hiddenfigure Cycle 1
@Jc88146 Cycle 18
@Kay98 Cycle 16
@Lottiepink 29 Cycle 12
@Bec18x Cycle 4
@Soda123x 32 Cycle 2
@Aimingfor2019 28 Cycle 3
@Lifesforlivingandloving 32 Cycle 1
@MotherOfShihTzus 33 Cycle 14
@Cupcakesandglitter 23 cycle 10
@LokiCat
@Baby01988 30 Cycle 4
@Pinksunset1 28 cycle 3
@TonightJosephine cycle 1
@Toobies1 30 Cycle 5
@Blackfriars Cycle 3
@rosehm 28 Cycle 1
@SophWolf Cycle 1
@Thosethreewords Cycle 3
@Smitch82 37 Cycle 1
@Fivebyfive2 30 Cycle 8

Graduates thread - www.mumsnet.com/Talk/pregnancy/3527540-Catching-up-with-those-from-TTC-thread-3

Sorry if I missed anyone, and happy baby-making!

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AysLon · 16/04/2019 17:44

@Veevee457 The more I Google it the more I think watery CM 7dpo doesn't mean BFP LOL this Is ridiculous, I guess we should see what else we get in the next 7 days.
I'm not 100% I O 7 days ago because I don't temp check but I O every month and CBOPK suggests it was last tues so who knows. I think I did O.

Tropicana1 · 16/04/2019 17:42

Ladies! Amazon have clear blue advanced OPKs on offer at the moment a 20 pack for £23! Just thought I'd mention in case any one else wants to stock up 😂

Veevee457 · 16/04/2019 17:16

Yes @ayslon me! Have no idea how many days PO I am as I think my body attempted to last week but might have actually only ovulated on Sun or Mon just gone. This is following a chemical last month. I reas though that cm isn't the best indicator of pregnancy though.
I think I have slight lower back pain too which I definitely had last month but I also could be imagining it!! 🙈

AysLon · 16/04/2019 16:59

Guys I need advice re symptom spotting. I am 7dpo AF due in 7 daysish. Today I have really been noticing watery CM. Lots of it. This is unusual for this time of the cycle. No other symptoms. Any one else have anything similar?

Tropicana1 · 16/04/2019 16:53

@KatBeCool oh interesting I didn't know that! My only concern with temping is that I'm a really restless sleeper and because of work sometimes have to get up and go in in the middle of the night etc so not sure it would work very well for me

@FlapJackered @MrsEG we're planning for every other day this week until I get my positive opk!

MrsEG · 16/04/2019 15:38

@FlapJackered We mark out specific days, based on predicted ov and our work schedules (DH often works very early or very late). Before the MMC my ovulation date was always the same but I’ll be double checking this month too :)

FlapJackered · 16/04/2019 15:30

@MrsEG we have a rough sex schedule this month, what is your schedule? Have you got specific days marked out? I think as my ovulation day is not that easy to predict it has to be movable for us.
I am really hoping ov surprises me and jumps out before Easter with the family when it is due. 🤦🏼‍♀️

KatBeCool · 16/04/2019 14:53

@MrsEG I can definitely confirm that sex schedule works.

@Tropicana1 try measuring your bbt. It is possible that your surge doesn't show up on opks but you still ovulate.

Tropicana1 · 16/04/2019 13:23

Ladies I spoke too soon! Last night after I posted DH got out of the shower and initiated 🙌🏻🙌🏻 AND then he basically made a schedule, and was like, so we should DTD this day and that day! Here's hoping it's not just a one off haha!

On a more frustrating note CD16 and I swear my opk today was the lightest one yet! I have on average 29 day cycles so thinking I must have a pretty short luteal phase if I carry on not getting positives. Still no EWCM. Predicted O date now moved to Friday

LokiCat · 16/04/2019 12:20

Thanks ladies! @Tropicana1 @Fivebyfive2 @Hannah192 ❤️

I'm liking the idea of a sex schedule.. although I think DH prefers the spontaneity of it all! So maybe the schedule can be for me 😂🙊
Think I need to buy some new outfits to entice him as soon as he walks in..

Unfortunately DH has previously been on night shifts on crucial days and is too tired during the day! Hopefully his work shifts don't coincide with ovulation days this month.

Hannah192 · 16/04/2019 12:06

@MrsEG thank you! I just hope we’ve covered it. Glad AF has finally arrived for you. Im with you on the dtd schedule 😂😂

@LokiCat so sorry about your mc. Glad you’re feeling up to ttc again now x

@McHelenz welcome!

MrsEG · 16/04/2019 10:54

@Tropicana1 @Fivebyfive2 I really recommend the schedule! Makes it all feel a bit less... mechanical if he can be getting excited about it upfront! Stopped any rows as well about being tired/busy as he had advance notice 😂

Fivebyfive2 · 16/04/2019 08:28

@Lokithecat, so sorry hun, but glad to see you're feeling ready to try again. We're all here for you xxx

MrsEG, I might try the sex schedule next month. Our every other day is already out because wasn't up for it yesterday. Tonight for sure, then I may have to make sure I'm irresistible for a while as fw should be this weekend!! Good shout on the new frillies too 👍

Tropicana1 · 15/04/2019 23:23

@ValidUser ah no! Well I'll keep my fingers crossed anyway for you still until AF properly arrives

@LokiCat sorry to hear about your MC. Glad you are feeling ready to try again!

@MrsEG I may have to implement the same next month - usually DH is always initiating but since TTC officially this month I feel like he might have got a bit of "stage fright" as it were and it's always me initiating now even though he keeps chatting about making a baby!!

ValidUser · 15/04/2019 21:15

Posted too soon! Boobs getting heavy and sore and I feel PMSish.

ValidUser · 15/04/2019 21:15

@Tropicana1 I have no self control and have tested. Total BFN!

Just waiting for AF now!

LokiCat · 15/04/2019 19:39

Hi ladies, hope it's okay if I join back?
AF just started this morning since my mc in March.
Ready to start TTC again, keep saying to myself I'm going to sit back and not stress about OPKs but who am I kidding 🙈🙈

Sorry to those that AF got. Hopefully new cycle is the one 🤞🏽

daisiesandpeonies · 15/04/2019 18:25

@MrsR16 I understand how you feel I don't post much these days either because I've pretty much given up.
Af showed today.... so rang up clinic like they asked and have a scan and blood test this week! DH swimmer test next month and consultant appointment with proper verdict in just over a month... wish it was tomorrow!

daisiesandpeonies · 15/04/2019 18:21

@MrsEG sex schedule!! I LOLed so much at that, have presented husband with similar involving calendar reminders in the past 😂 good luck 🤞🏼

Jessikka · 15/04/2019 17:36

@thosethreewords you're exactly the same as me it's like what I posted 13 days ago!

AF was 3 days late for me too and then I decided to relax this month with no OPKs and temping etc.

Screw this TTC malarkey - we should have got together, ate choc, drank wine and said up yours AF 🍷

I'm your ttc kindred spirit 🙈

MrsEG · 15/04/2019 17:22

@McHelenz Hello and welcome :) One thing I also recommend is Preseed - you can get it easily on Amazon. Helps those swimmers along on days you’re not feeling totally sexy!! Good luck.

@Tropicana1 Yep, that’s kind of how it came about! Our first two cycles DH wasn’t really feeling it as it was always me grumpily initiating ‘because I’m ovulating’ which apparently is the least sexy word in the world! So now he gets his sex schedule, knows exactly which days I’ll be jumping on him when he gets home and no one has to say the ‘O’ word out loud!

Tropicana1 · 15/04/2019 17:18

@ValidUser are you planning to test or just wait to see if AF arrives?

Tropicana1 · 15/04/2019 17:18

@thosethreewords oh no so shit AF got you, all sounded so promising!

@MrsEG haha I love it! Maybe I should send DH a schedule so he knows where we're at - currently feel like it's all on me to initiate all the time at the right times which is pretty draining tbh

@McHelenz hey! Good to see you over here from the waiting thread! 😊

McHelenz · 15/04/2019 17:01

Hi am I ok to join? Long time lurker.

Husband has agreed we can start trying for number one 💓.

I'm 30, 31 next month. Cycles are pretty regular. I've been OpKing for 2 months to get an idea. Im excited and anxious now it's real!

MrsEG · 15/04/2019 16:13

@ValidUser Ha!! DH always laughs as I love a good itinerary (you should have seen my honeymoon spreadsheet!) so this comes as no surprise to him at all! Might treat myself to some new frillies this week to spice things up a bit 😂 FX for you this week, I’ll keep hoping for you x