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BFP after MC

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smartcarnotsosmartdriver · 20/03/2019 06:42

Hi everyone,

So I took a FRER this morning as AF due tomorrow and it looks like a BFP. A few years ago me and DH had an early MC and it really hit me hard so while I'm excited I'm also pretty scared. Any reassurance would be appreciated. Attached pic of BFP as I can't quite believe it.

BFP after MC
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BabyB19 · 19/12/2019 12:47

Thank you so much @CaRouleMaPoule it's very overwhelming isn't it. Fingers crossed it all goes fine xx

CaRouleMaPoule · 19/12/2019 12:01

Aw, fab news @goingtoneedabiggercar congratulations to you too, and have a merry Christmas!

Congratulations on your BFP @BabyB19 take each day at a time and enjoy your pregnancy x

goingtoneedabiggercar · 19/12/2019 10:51

@CaRouleMaPoule congratulations! Christmas is going to be so cute! DS was born on the 20th of November so nearly a month ago. We had some issues with feeding etc but he's absolutely thriving now. Can't quite believe it, I spend a lot of time just staring at him.

Congratulations @BabyB19 I was terrified the whole time I was pregnant but he's here safe and sound now.

BabyB19 · 19/12/2019 10:07

Omg I had a bfp this week after MMC and I'm petrified it will be another loss but hearing that you had a baby a few weeks ago has given me hope! So happy for you! Xxx

CaRouleMaPoule · 19/12/2019 10:03

Hi @goingtoneedabiggercar Thanks for checking back in
I had beautiful little DS a few weeks ago. He arrived very quickly a bit ahead of schedule so things have been quite a blur for a while, but we're loving settling into life with him around, and looking forward to his first Christmas. Thought this moment might never come, what a year!
How about you? x

goingtoneedabiggercar · 19/12/2019 02:56

@CaRouleMaPoule I've name changed (as I've realised my smart car isn't particularly compatible with babies) how did you get on?

smartcarnotsosmartdriver · 07/04/2019 11:21

Oh my goodness! Same with the dreams! On Friday night I woke up twice in tears. It was awful.

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CaRouleMaPoule · 07/04/2019 10:50

And I've been having some seriously weird dreams!

CaRouleMaPoule · 07/04/2019 09:06

Pretty similar. Can never quite work out if I'm hungry or not (I usually am!)

smartcarnotsosmartdriver · 06/04/2019 16:23

Hi @CaRouleMaPoule yeah I've been feeling nauseous the last couple of days, any time I would normally have felt hungry. It's not my favourite thing but I'm taking it as a good sign that things are still going as they should. How about you?

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CaRouleMaPoule · 06/04/2019 15:53

How are you feeling this weekend @smartcarnotsosmartdriver?
Any morning sickness kicking in yet? x

smartcarnotsosmartdriver · 31/03/2019 09:24

That's good, yeah I know what you mean, I've been going out with my mum for the day a lot to keep myself busy. Trying to stay positive today though, I always find it hard.

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CaRouleMaPoule · 30/03/2019 10:12

Getting along Ok thanks. Still feeling pretty anxious and trying to find lots of things to distract me during the day!

smartcarnotsosmartdriver · 29/03/2019 19:04

Hey, I'm ok, more cramping today and I've been peeing more than normal. Going through phases of being excited and then reigning it in just in case. How are you?

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CaRouleMaPoule · 29/03/2019 18:21

How are you getting on today?

smartcarnotsosmartdriver · 26/03/2019 17:21

I know what you mean! I haven't even known for a week! I read that the risk is much lower once you've seen a heartbeat so I'm hoping I can afford an early scan to put my mind at rest but that won't be for another 2/3 weeks!

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CaRouleMaPoule · 26/03/2019 15:03

Still plodding along. Looks like my scan will be a couple of weeks away. Tips to make the time fly by gratefully received!

smartcarnotsosmartdriver · 26/03/2019 14:46

How's everyone doing?

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smartcarnotsosmartdriver · 25/03/2019 17:25

Thank you, I called the midwives to give them my details and generally let them know I exist and she said that as I'd had a loss the EPU would scan me but that before 6 weeks there wouldn't really be anything much to see. We just want this little bean so much.

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CaRouleMaPoule · 25/03/2019 17:12

It's scary, but it can be totally normal right through the first trimester. I think you'll just need to take it easy, keep an eye on it and mention it to the GP or midwife first chance you get. Sending you good vibes! xx

smartcarnotsosmartdriver · 25/03/2019 14:37

I've just seen a little blood while I wipe and while logical I know it could be spotting and everything might still be fine I am freaking out. It's very bright red which I don't think is helping.

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smartcarnotsosmartdriver · 25/03/2019 12:21

@kittycat01 I'm so sorry, fingers crossed for the future for you.

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CaRouleMaPoule · 25/03/2019 10:18

What a shame, I am sorry. Best of luck for the future x

kittycat01 · 25/03/2019 08:20

I'm out and started bleeding! Just did another pregnancy test and it's now saying not pregnant! Bloody annoying! Good luck to the rest of you! xx

CaRouleMaPoule · 24/03/2019 13:13

So sorry to hear that. Will always be hear to support you if you need it. x

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