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4dpo...join me!!!

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whyhaveidonethis · 15/03/2019 19:54

I'm 4dpo, fairly sure this month isn't going to work but wondered if anyone wanted to join me in the crazy 2ww?

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peasando · 12/04/2019 16:06

@Lottiepink you have more willpower than me, I've been testing from about 6dpo, I do every month and I really shouldn't because it just makes me miserable. So hard not to though, especially when you read on here about people getting really early bfps!

Lottiepink · 12/04/2019 15:58

@peasando hahaha, well he maybe has 🤣🤣 you obviously timed the once perfectly Both times 😊

I was so tempted to test today 9dpo, had weird symptoms but actually just think it's af and don't wanna get my hopes up too much 😕

Aww bless ya, hope you feel better soon 😊

peasando · 12/04/2019 15:35

@Lottiepink we only dtd once the month I conceived my son too, I still can't quite believe it! DH is delighted with himself of course and keeps telling me that he has 'super sperm' 🙄 I'm 12dpo today, the lines are still pretty faint but definitely there 😃😃 Top one is yesterday (11dpo) bottom one is today. Feeling pretty rubbish tbh - feel sick, my boobs hurt, my back hurts and my head hurts!

4dpo...join me!!!
Lottiepink · 12/04/2019 15:27

@peasando omg that is amazing!! Especially after just the once. Congratulations 😊 how many dpo are you if you don't mind me asking? Did you have any symptoms?

peasando · 12/04/2019 12:37

@kell2126 wow, that's a lot of BD! Defo enough I'd say. DH and I only managed it once this cycle (we had visitors and then he was away) - I was sooooo furious about it but then I got my bfp yesterday! It only takes once!

Lottiepink · 12/04/2019 12:33

Sorry posted too early.

Welcome @Frillyfarmer

Thanks @kell2126 oh I hope so 🤞🏻🤞🏻

@AysLon I sound like a nutter 😆😆

Lottiepink · 12/04/2019 12:27

Haha @kell2126 jeez, yeh defo enough! Twice is one day 😱😱

I've tried cycles following smep, then some where it's every day around O then just doing it when we want (no timing) this cycle was pretty much more relaxed and probably every other day. Some say every day around O others say if the sperm are lazy or low count every other is better, just from what I've seen on the internet. So hard to know really...

kell2126 · 12/04/2019 10:29

Ladies, just out of interest, how often and when did you BD this cycle? I'm always wondering if DH and I are hitting it on a par with other couples on here. This cycle we've done:

O – 2: 1X BD (pm)
O – 1: 2X BD (am + pm)
O day: 1XBD (pm)
1DPO: 1XBD (am)

Is that enough / roughly what you've done?

kell2126 · 12/04/2019 10:25

Welcome back to the madhouse @Frillyfarmer!

Frillyfarmer · 12/04/2019 10:19

Can I rejoin you ladies? I'm 5DPO based on FF and losing my fucking mind. My aim is not to test until next Friday at 12DPO fully expecting to cave at 8DPO

kell2126 · 12/04/2019 10:14

Hang in there @Lottiepink – hoping you'll be the first BFP on this cycle of the thread! Grin

Lottiepink · 12/04/2019 08:30

@Whyhaveidonethis haha, I'm on edge, keep cramping and thinking ohh she's coming... will just have to see 🤣🤣🤣

AysLon · 12/04/2019 08:27

@MrsP4 Lol I am 4DPO and losing the plot too! This thread is too funny lol

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Whyhaveidonethis · 12/04/2019 07:57

@mrsp4 ooh exciting. I just did it from ovulation not LMP and it's saying 29th Dec I think.

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Whyhaveidonethis · 12/04/2019 07:55

Stop panicking @Lottiepink, pregnancy feels the same!!

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Lottiepink · 11/04/2019 22:52

Ohhhh god... af is on her way I can feel it 😫😫

Lottiepink · 11/04/2019 22:14

@MrsP4 it's a bloody nightmare isn't it 😂😂

MrsP4 · 11/04/2019 21:57

Ahh @Lottiepink if it makes you feel Any better I'm only 3DPO 🙈😂

MrsP4 · 11/04/2019 21:54

Yes @kell2126 @Whyhaveidonethis NYD for me and you! Here's to lots of 2020 babies! 🥂

Lottiepink · 11/04/2019 21:24

Just to say 8dpo and feel I'm loosing my head 😫😫

Lottiepink · 11/04/2019 21:23

@kell2126 @Whyhaveidonethis @MrsP4
Aww a New Years baby... how lovely, let's hope it all works for us 😊

kell2126 · 11/04/2019 21:08

Which would mean a New Year's day dd for you and @whyhaveidonethis, no?

kell2126 · 11/04/2019 21:06

Yep @MrsP4 – already looked up and gunning for a Jan 4th dd if the gods are with me this cycle. Definitely losing it Blush

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Whyhaveidonethis · 11/04/2019 15:49

@mrsp4 I've not had a look... Enlighten me, given we'd be due the same day practically

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MrsP4 · 11/04/2019 15:47

@Whyhaveidonethis 💃🏼 brilliant! I love having a cycle twin! Is anyone else obsessed with due dates etc, I always think oh if I fall this month then I'll be due then etc 🙈