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When's the best time to get pregnant? Use our interactive ovulation calculator to work out when you're most fertile and most likely to conceive.

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4dpo...join me!!!

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whyhaveidonethis · 15/03/2019 19:54

I'm 4dpo, fairly sure this month isn't going to work but wondered if anyone wanted to join me in the crazy 2ww?

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MrsP4 · 14/04/2019 09:37

@Whyhaveidonethis I know it's dragging a bit isn't it, however I've not thought about it really I've been busy have my mum staying for a few days and I've just started a new hobby, making baby blankets 🙈😂 probably not the best hobby when TTC but I'm really enjoying it, I've had no symptoms nothing to report what about yourself?

Livelaughlove14 · 14/04/2019 08:44

@whyhaveidonethis it's not just me then! Haha

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Whyhaveidonethis · 14/04/2019 06:32

@Livelaughlove14welcome. I'm 6dpo and got up to pee about 6 times last night; clearly I'm pregnant!! 😂

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Livelaughlove14 · 13/04/2019 22:38

Also, been suffering from terrible back ache all day!

Livelaughlove14 · 13/04/2019 22:33

3 DPO... for the last two days I have had pains in my lower abdomen and this afternoon my boobs seem larger and definitely more veiny. Am I going mad?
The TWW is killing me!

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Whyhaveidonethis · 13/04/2019 21:49

@Frillyfarmer I'm 5dpo and dying to piss on £5 POAS!! Wth is wrong with me?! 😂

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Lottiepink · 13/04/2019 21:31

@Whyhaveidonethis thank you so much for checking on me 😘
I'm alright now thanks, still confused with symptoms 🤣
Had heartburn for a few hours then from 1pm had terrible queasiness. Still got af pains on and off and just waiting for her to arrive ☹️☹️
Done another ic and it was BFN again, shock 🤣🤣 just need to get and chill and see if she arrives!

@Frillyfarmer 😂😂 does this group just make us nutty or what 🤣

Frillyfarmer · 13/04/2019 21:02

6DPO, driving myself mad. I'd set next Friday to FRER ahead of a boozy bank hol but I'm already dying to piss on something so I might do an IC tomorrow just to get it out of my system 😂

I promised myself after my last early MC I was going to just chill out and stop with the mindlessness but I can't!

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Whyhaveidonethis · 13/04/2019 20:55

@Lottiepink how you feeling now? Have you cheered up?

@MrsP4 how you doing. Can't believe it's still only 5dpo....it's dragging so much!!

Everyone else...how's things

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Whyhaveidonethis · 13/04/2019 12:40

@Lottiepink don't apologise!!! That's what we are here for!!

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Lottiepink · 13/04/2019 12:34

@Whyhaveidonethis I know I'm on a downer today 😂 sorry! It's just so hard when you get your hopes up secretly isn't it... I've been to the toilet about 5 times now to check 🙈 normally as soon as I get the bad cramps I'm bleeding very quickly after.

Aww you never know though, look @peasando only once in the month..

So pleased I have all you guys on here to vent with 😁

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Whyhaveidonethis · 13/04/2019 12:17

@Lottiepink thank you. You aren't out till AF shows up!! I think it's unlikely to be a BFP for me this month as we hardly saw each other to dtd. Did it 4 days before ovulation and about 12 hours after ovulation. Every other month we have dtd everyday, often twice a day and we haven't caught so doubtful not DTD will help

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Lottiepink · 13/04/2019 12:12

@Whyhaveidonethis I know.. crazy isn't it!! Sat and looked at it for like 10 mins convincing myself there was a hint of colour there 🤣🤣

Got really bad cramps now so 100% think I'm out, but suppose will just have to wait and see...

Aww hopefully the 2ww flies by for you from now 🤞🏻

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Whyhaveidonethis · 13/04/2019 11:43

@Lottiepink well we all know that when we cave at 10dpo!! Still do it though!! 😂 I'm only 5dpo and desperate to POAS!!

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Lottiepink · 13/04/2019 11:25

@Whyhaveidonethis I caved anyways ha.. BFN 😫🤣

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Whyhaveidonethis · 13/04/2019 11:22

@Lottiepink I would!!!

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Lottiepink · 13/04/2019 09:50

Morning everyone,
10dpo, do I test?? It's obviously not gonna be fmu but was about 4 hours since I last went. Only got internet cheap tests tho...

@kell2126 SMEP was ok, but my ovulation kept moving so ended up dtd 6 days in a row 🤣 I think I will stick with every other day from now on, and then whenever else we fancy it lol.

@Raychel07x hope you are ok, as the others have said about the testing, you will just have to wait it out until then I suppose 😕

peasando · 13/04/2019 07:24

Thank you @Whyhaveidonethis x

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Whyhaveidonethis · 13/04/2019 07:08

@Raychel07x sound like you could have had sex sound ovulation time. Get a test and test again in a few days.
@peasando fingers crossed for a sticky bean this time.

@kell2126 go you! We do that over fertile period normally, although not this month. DP always says "when you are fertile you can't get enough of me}"

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peasando · 12/04/2019 20:47

@kell2126 3 or 4...getting pregnant hasn't really ever been a problem for me, it's more keeping them that's been the issue. The thing that made me think something was up this month was that my back was (and is) really sore - I remember that from when I was first pregnant with my son too.

Raychel07x · 12/04/2019 19:12

@kell2126 Thank you for replying, ok I will try to leave it a few more days. I suspect with me stopping my pill 4 weeks ago tomorrow that my normal AF would be due tomorrow I'm not sure how it would work without the pill because I'm not sure if the clear egg white CM on 29th March (which was 2 weeks after I stopped my last pill) would be from ovulation? I Are any of them symptoms pregnancy symptoms?

kell2126 · 12/04/2019 17:54

@pesando how many cycles were trying for this one? Anything you did differently this time / any new symptoms that gave the game away?

kell2126 · 12/04/2019 17:52

woohoo @peasando that is amazing – huge congrats to you and your DH (and his super sperm!)!!!! It's very reassuring to hear it only took one hit both times! Please keep us updated – I LOVE seeing a BFP progression Smile

@Lottiepink yeah twice in one day was a bit much, but we reasoned that we could take it easy the rest of the month. How did you find the SMEP? Worth a go or too much? V hopeful for your testing – bit early for AF symptoms, at 9DPO Wink

Hi @Raychel no need to apologise – the abbreviations take a bit of getting used to! My advice would be to give it another couple of days (if you can hold out) and then take another pregnancy test – ideally a First Response Early Result test: I think it's the case that the pregnancy hormone doubles every 48 hours so giving it some more time should give you a more unequivocal answer. We all understand how hard it is waiting to find out and you are welcome to vent your frustrations here till you do. x

Raychel07x · 12/04/2019 16:17

Also I am sorry if I have not used the correct terms I have seen things like CM & DD and I'm new to this so I'm not sure what they all mean so apologies if I use any incorrect terms.

Raychel07x · 12/04/2019 16:13

Hi, I really feel like I am going insane please help. 13th March I slept with my ex boyfriend and finished taking my pill 16th March. I never had my withdrawal bleed which I only have to miss 2 pills & I bleed so I was a bit worried I done numerous tests and all negative. I stayed off the pill and slept with him again 29th March at this point for a few days before i had a really weird discharge that literally looked like an uncooked egg. It even came out whilst I was having sex and there was no hiding it there was loads. From the 31st I would say my discharge changed to like a milky white wet discharge. Not long after that my breasts became swollen & achey (I have false breasts so it's unusual) by the next Friday I literally couldn't fasten my Jean's I was so bloated, I put this down to constipation coz I know I had been suffering from it. I get mild cramps & think oh this is my period but it's not I just need to burp or pass some wind. I've been the toilet and my stomach remains bloated and by lunch time I have to move my tights to below my belly because it feels too tight. I still have the white discharge but my breasts aren't swollen anymore but my nipples still feel sensitive & I get the odd twinge in my boob that feels like a pulled muscle. I have been going to bed by 9pm which is not like me & I wake up atleast twice to go the toilet otherwise I sleep through. I feel like I can smell things I havent before they seem so strong I took a test this morning and it was negative (I have done about 100000 I have been going insane) i am really worried i have worked myself up & convinced myself i am pregnant. Of course the ex boyfriend doesn't believe me because i thought i was from the first time we slept together. Please help!!!!

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