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When's the best time to get pregnant? Use our interactive ovulation calculator to work out when you're most fertile and most likely to conceive.

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4dpo...join me!!!

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whyhaveidonethis · 15/03/2019 19:54

I'm 4dpo, fairly sure this month isn't going to work but wondered if anyone wanted to join me in the crazy 2ww?

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MrsP4 · 17/05/2019 18:15

@Whyhaveidonethis a line is a line faint or not your FRERs are looking great give it a few more days and test again using a digital, I'm currently away in Tenerife, I'm 12DPO AF due tomorrow I'm also on cycle 8 the last week I've had an upset stomach when I go to the loo have felt fine otherwise few occasional cramps and slightly tender breasts today feel like it's AF getting ready to show up but there's that part of me that's hoping! I bought an FRER away with me just incase so if no AF tomorrow I will test on Sunday, keep yous posted! Hope your all doing ok! X

Lottiepink · 17/05/2019 08:26

@Whyhaveidonethis hopefully all is well, it's still early, so try not to panic! X

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Whyhaveidonethis · 17/05/2019 07:31

Still getting faint lines on frer but it's not getting darker. Feel like I just need to know now

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LouH1981 · 16/05/2019 22:31

@whyhaveidonethis - that looks pretty conclusive to me. Massive congratulations xxxx

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Whyhaveidonethis · 16/05/2019 22:28

Thanks @LouH1981 that is good to know. this was my last test at lunchtime today. I'd only peed 1.5 hours before. I've got another FRER to do in the morning.

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LouH1981 · 16/05/2019 22:17

Hi, @whyhaveidonethis have been quietly loitering/stalking keeping my fingers crossed for some bfps....and that looks pretty good to me! I’ve also heard the same about the digital. I had a bit of brown mucus when I wiped. It came back at 5 weeks (so I had an early scan - all good) and kept having it on and off until about 8 weeks, am 12 weeks now. Fingers crossed, I think it looks pretty good xxxxxxxx

kell2126 · 16/05/2019 21:21

keep us posted – hoping all works out well xxxx

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Whyhaveidonethis · 16/05/2019 20:40

Thanks @kell2126 i did another FRER today at lunchtime without holding and got a not so faint line so maybe its that. really want to know either way now. tiny bit of browny discharge, and tingly boobs. no idea whats going on.

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kell2126 · 16/05/2019 12:53

@whyhave everyone always says on here that the digis need a greater level of HcG, right? So perhaps try again with one of those tomorrow or saturday and the meantime do manuals only to keep the faith? Keeping everything crossed for you! x

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Whyhaveidonethis · 16/05/2019 10:48

Did a CB digital this morning. Not pregnant!! Also some slight brown spotting. So confused.

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kell2126 · 15/05/2019 16:09

Yay!! You preggers!! x

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Whyhaveidonethis · 15/05/2019 15:45

Cycle 8.12 dpo.

Just did another test.

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MrsP4 · 15/05/2019 14:21

Oh my god Massive congrats @Whyhaveidonethis so happy for you! When is your AF due and what cycle are you on? Xx

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Whyhaveidonethis · 15/05/2019 13:19

Forgot to attach this

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Whyhaveidonethis · 15/05/2019 13:18

This is my chart. Hardly had sex in my fertile period. Symptoms are: lots of creamy cm yesterday and watery stretchy cm today. Loads of it. Pains in my ovary area yesterday. Stabby in nature and again today but the other side. Feel a bit sick. Not really nauseous but not quite right.

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Whyhaveidonethis · 15/05/2019 13:16

Thanks @kell2126 and @Lottiepink.im fucking terrified that it's a false positive. I've bought more tests and an early detection digital (didn't know they did these to use from 5 day before AF), but I'm scared to test again. Never thought I'd feel like this. I don't want a negative so badly I'm holding off

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kell2126 · 15/05/2019 09:43

YYYYESSSSSSSSSSSSSSS!!!!!!!! Oh @whyhaveidonethis this is incredible – I am so, so happy for you and keeping everything crossed for the happiest and healthiest 9 months. Please tell us what you did differently or if anything felt different this cycle, and keep us posted. CONGRATS! xxxx

Lottiepink · 15/05/2019 09:29

@Whyhaveidonethis omg congratulations!! Amazing news 😊 anything different this cycle? What number are you on? So pleased for you!

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Whyhaveidonethis · 15/05/2019 07:31

So.... This just happened

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MrsP4 · 11/05/2019 15:36

Hi girls @Whyhaveidonethis We're cycle buddies still I'm 7DPO today AF ARRIVED 3 days early last cycle and she's due again on the 18th, mr and SH are going away on weds to Tenerife for a week so will be away when AF is due 🙈 hope your all well! Can't actually believe we're all still here plodding along 😂

Lottiepink · 10/05/2019 22:30

@kell2126 good luck and well done 😂😂 my DH doesn't even know i have tested in the past... I keep it secret as I think he would freak out 🤣🤣 although I've only tested on 3 cycles just before af... never again unless I truly believe I am... well I hope 😂😂😂

kell2126 · 10/05/2019 21:48

Hi @lottiepink and @whyhaveidonethis glad to hear you’re keeping well and having a relaxed one this cycle. I’m on O day today and hope to emulate your approach: have given all my pg tests to dh to hide for a couple of weeks and determined not to symptom spot - we’ll see!! GL to us all xx

Lottiepink · 10/05/2019 13:33

@Whyhaveidonethis haha it's crazy isnt it!! 🙈
Aww fab how lovely, hope you're having a fab time and enjoying plenty of cocktails in the sun ☀️ ☺️

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Whyhaveidonethis · 10/05/2019 09:03

@Lottiepink same here. Last month I had loads of symptoms and it was BFN. This month the odds of us having dtd at the right time are very slim due to early ov so I'm feeling totally chilled out about it. Probably helps that I'm on holiday in the sun this week too!! 😂

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Lottiepink · 10/05/2019 08:58

@Whyhaveidonethis I'm totally not stressing over things this cycle, as Ive had so many months of disappointment, and I really got worked up last cycle. But I think I had loads of signs last month. This one nothing. I think I was making them all up in my head 🙈🤣