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When's the best time to get pregnant? Use our interactive ovulation calculator to work out when you're most fertile and most likely to conceive.

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4dpo...join me!!!

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whyhaveidonethis · 15/03/2019 19:54

I'm 4dpo, fairly sure this month isn't going to work but wondered if anyone wanted to join me in the crazy 2ww?

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Lottiepink · 20/05/2019 18:45

@Whyhaveidonethis I know, bless you 😘 take care of yourself. I'm sorry I don't know what to say, as it's not going to make it any easier for you x

Sheep90 · 20/05/2019 18:12

Please may I join? I'm 3DPO, cycle #3. I have been feeling rubbish all day, but I put that down to a 6 day working week as it's so early to spot anything symptom wise.

I think I had a chemical last month. I normally have 31-33 day cycles, but AF came on CD21, just after a very faint IC. Does that sound like a chemical to you?

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Whyhaveidonethis · 20/05/2019 17:19

Thanks ladies. The bleeding has really started now so I guess it's definitely over. Feel so sad.

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MrsP4 · 20/05/2019 12:24

@Whyhaveidonethis I am so sorry 😭 I can only imagine how your feeling! Sending lots of love and hugs your way! Atleast you know you can conceive please don't be too hard on yourself, have a good cry if you need to and tomorrows a new day 😘 xx

kell2126 · 20/05/2019 11:48

@whyhaveidonethis it isn't silly in the slightest – a loss is a loss and this is something you've been striving for for a very long time so it's totally natural to feel it keenly. I'm so sorry you're experiencing this sadness xxxx

Lottiepink · 20/05/2019 11:25

Aww @Whyhaveidonethis 😢 at least you know you can get pregnant, and now that you have, the chances of conceiving will be higher (I think) take a bit of time for your self, and fingers crossed everything falls into place for you!

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Whyhaveidonethis · 20/05/2019 11:20

I'm really not OK. It feels like such a loss, which is silly, even though I know that it is really early. I had just got used to the idea. We were planning it all out. Talking about it etc.

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Lottiepink · 20/05/2019 11:15

@Whyhaveidonethis so sorry :( hope you are ok x

kell2126 · 20/05/2019 11:03

oh no, I'm so sorry to hear this @whyhaveidonethis :( sending hugs. have you got DP with you for support? much love xxxx

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Whyhaveidonethis · 20/05/2019 09:06

Sadly I am definitely having a chemical. My line on a FRER is now hardly visible and I feel like AF is about to arrive. Feel really sad, although I'm trying to see it as a positive; ie I'm still able to get pregnant.

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kell2126 · 19/05/2019 15:37

@MrsP4 and @whyhaveidonethis so delighted for you :)

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Whyhaveidonethis · 19/05/2019 10:15

@mrsp4 I've got to book into the midwives on line. I've been putting it off as I'm terrified it's not sticky. Might see if I can get a blood test but doubt it as my doctors is a nightmare to get in to see

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MrsP4 · 19/05/2019 10:08

Thank you everyone I used conceive plus through my fertile window and after DTD done the position they get you to do when you have a smear one of the girls in work told me about it and obviously now I'm convinced it works 😂 apparently if you have a slightly tilted cervix it helps line everything up enabling easy pathway for swimmers, never thought this day would come, are you booked in at the doctors @Whyhaveidonethis I think I'm 15DPO today xx

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Whyhaveidonethis · 19/05/2019 09:51

This is today's test

4dpo...join me!!!
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kell2126 · 19/05/2019 09:49

Yayy huge congrats @MrsP4 – this is wonderful!!!! xxxxx

Lottiepink · 19/05/2019 09:37

@MrsP4 congratulations! Really good line too. How did you know it was your month? Anything you done differently?

@Whyhaveidonethis hope you are ok, fingers crossed you will get a positive digital soon x

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Whyhaveidonethis · 19/05/2019 09:34

Possibly 16dpo but could be as little as 14 as I forgot to take my temperature on the day I got a positive OPK. I've attached my chart in case it helps anyone. My temps are still high and I definitely "feel" pregnant.

4dpo...join me!!!
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MrsP4 · 19/05/2019 09:06

@Whyhaveidonethis Thank you! How many DPO are you? Xx

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Whyhaveidonethis · 19/05/2019 08:41

Woo hoo!!!!!! @mrsp4 this is amazing!!! Congratulations. I just tested again myself and its got a little darker. Nowhere near like yours though.

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MrsP4 · 19/05/2019 08:21

@Whyhaveidonethis you know how we've been cycle buddies all the way through....

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Whyhaveidonethis · 18/05/2019 22:00

Really @mrsp4. That gives me a bit of hope. I have no idea what's going on, but starting to feel that it may be real given how terrible I feel!! Let us know how you get on

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MrsP4 · 18/05/2019 21:56

No news yet @Whyhaveidonethis still no sign of AF here going to test tomorrow using FMU if she doesn't show in the night, 🙏🏻 it's my month but just not feeling very hopeful, I think give it until weds and then do a digital, some people hcg doesn't rise as quick as others my friend didn't get a positive on a standard test until she was 7 weeks pregnant xx

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Whyhaveidonethis · 18/05/2019 19:54

Any news @mrsp4?

I'm shattered. Completely drained. Digital was negative. Clear blue positive. Still totally confused. Just going to wait for a few days now

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kell2126 · 17/05/2019 22:22

GL @MrsP4 x

Rooting for a positive digi for you tomorrow @whyhave x

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Whyhaveidonethis · 17/05/2019 18:40

@mrsp4 thanks for the support. Good luck for your test tomorrow. Fingers crossed for you xxx

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