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4dpo...join me!!!

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whyhaveidonethis · 15/03/2019 19:54

I'm 4dpo, fairly sure this month isn't going to work but wondered if anyone wanted to join me in the crazy 2ww?

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MrsP4 · 27/03/2019 08:42

All I have in is a digital and IC so done an IC and there's a line but I think it's my eyes can see it better in person

MrsP4 · 27/03/2019 08:21

@kell2126 I'm ok but full of cold, it's awful still no AF FRER arriving tomorrow so will test in the morning if she's not here by then your tests are looking very promising 🙏🏻 xx

kell2126 · 27/03/2019 07:56

thank you @whyhave – I wonder if I'm going to have the same experience as you did last cycle?

@xoxhayleyxox you are a wizard – thank you so much for doing this – it def looks clearer on your tweaked version.

@MrsP4 how are you doing today? Hopefully AF still a no show

xoxhayleyxox · 27/03/2019 07:25

@kell2126 hope you don't mind, I made last nights picture a negative image and can deffo see a line! This mornings I can't see much but maybe because you drank lots of water x

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whyhaveidonethis · 27/03/2019 07:12

@kell2116 oh how bloody frustrating for you. Maybe you ovulated later than you think? Also don't forget FMU isn't always best. Fingers crossed for you 🤞

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kell2126 · 27/03/2019 05:44

Thanks @whyhave it looked darker IRL as well, but I woke up at 5am so went and used another frer and it’s gone back to a barely perceptible shadow. This was from a 5 hour hold but I drank a fair bit of water overnight- was v thirsty. I don’t know what to make of this 😬🤞🏽

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whyhaveidonethis · 26/03/2019 23:27

@kell2126 omg. I see something on the first picture. Test again tomorrow?

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kell2126 · 26/03/2019 23:05

Hi ladies. Just got home from work and poas. What do you reckon?

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whyhaveidonethis · 26/03/2019 22:40

OK, so AF arrived around 5pm Sunday evening, just lightly and was heavier yesterday but slowed to hardly anything this morning and has now pretty much stopped. I'm away for work, in a hotel alone, my temperature has dropped and I know I'm not pregnant but I'm sitting here think.... I wonder if its not actually AF? Ridiculous I know!!

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MrsP4 · 26/03/2019 19:33

Sorry posted too soon glad it's not just me

MrsP4 · 26/03/2019 19:32

Well I'm glad it's b

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whyhaveidonethis · 26/03/2019 18:02

Welcome to our group @deathbycats I hope that those really are symptoms and you get your BFP on Friday!!!

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xoxhayleyxox · 26/03/2019 17:31

Me too @MrsP4 😂

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whyhaveidonethis · 26/03/2019 16:55

I get that too!!! @MrsP4 always thought it was just me.

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deathbycats · 26/03/2019 09:22

I get that MrsP4! I call it my "period poo" 🙈

Hope it's ok to hop aboard, I'm already loitering on a few other threads. I'm 5-6dpo today and I'm a bit relieved that I'm finally justified in symptom spotting if any implantation can happen from today. This morning I had PMS style cramps for a bit. My boobs have been tender since ovulation too. I've got some 10mlu tests coming from Amazon today ready for Friday/Saturday when I'll know that I could test if I wanted to, even if they are only 50% accurate at that point.

MrsP4 · 26/03/2019 09:03

Think I'm out 🙈 the only reason being.....
Really do apologise if TMI but every month the day before I get AF I get this sudden urge to go to the loo and have a loose bowel movement and it's always the same like day before AF etc does anyone else have this? I know it's not concrete evidence that AF is coming but this is the norm for me so kinda think I'm out!

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whyhaveidonethis · 26/03/2019 08:40

@kell2116 and @mrsp4 all sounding good. Fingers crossed for you both

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MrsP4 · 26/03/2019 08:22

@kell2126 oh really I've not heard of that before! I'll have to have a look at that!

I really have got my fingers crossed for you! I normally have a day before AF where I feel that pressure feeling low down and I haven't got that yet!

kell2126 · 26/03/2019 08:14

Morning! @MrsP4 I am quietly hopeful for you given the number of women who report feeling like they’re getting a cold in the run up to their BFP!

Same old, same old for me today: another ‘is it, isn’t it?’ shadow on a FRER. AF due tomorrow or Thursday and I usually get 2 days of pre-AF spotting so I’ll be on knicker watch all day today no doubt Blush

MrsP4 · 26/03/2019 08:06

Morning everyone currently 13DPO AF due tomorrow going by my usual LP no signs of either AF or BFP yet, woke up with what I can only describe is a horrible cold coming, blocked stuffy nose. Have ordered some FRER says they'll arrive thurs so if AF hasn't arrived by then I'll be a day late. Don't really know how I feel this month I'm not getting my hopes up at all and I really can't feel AF on her way. Who knows 👀

xoxhayleyxox · 25/03/2019 20:38

Hey @kell2126
I'm sure they do! That's what I need, people in the same boat to support one another!!

kell2126 · 25/03/2019 19:42

@hayley welcome to the thread!

I wish I could tell you that the 2ww gets easier but it doesn't – the only thing keeping me sane is having lovely other women in the same boat to interact with here on MN!

MrsP4 · 25/03/2019 19:11

@whyhaveidonethis see that's the thing she has a baby but it's nearly 1, I don't talk to her we went to the same primary school and that's it I have her on fb and that so god knows it's just really random 😂

My dreams have felt very real recently!

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whyhaveidonethis · 25/03/2019 18:41

That's hilarious @mrsp4 have you ever delivered a baby? Is she even pregnant!? 😂

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MrsP4 · 25/03/2019 18:22

I know exactly how you feel @whyhaveidonethis that constant wait and then that constant battle thinking it's never going to happen as every month goes by o feel like it gets even more impossible to get a BFP! I had a dream that I delivered some girl that I know her baby! Dead weird! Had a few baby dreams this week!

Welcome to the crazy club @xoxhayleyxox 😂 feel free to ask away we're just a bunch of lovely ladies who all hate the TWW