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When's the best time to get pregnant? Use our interactive ovulation calculator to work out when you're most fertile and most likely to conceive.

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4dpo...join me!!!

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whyhaveidonethis · 15/03/2019 19:54

I'm 4dpo, fairly sure this month isn't going to work but wondered if anyone wanted to join me in the crazy 2ww?

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Whyhaveidonethis · 06/04/2019 22:05

So.... I think I ovulated today or will tomorrow ; got a positive OPK today. Only managed to have sex on Tuesday and Thursday as not with DP this weekend. Fingers crossed that was enough.

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Mummies12 · 03/04/2019 19:40

Sorry to jump in your post but really need some advice....

My partner had a donation on ovulation. Lots of pregnancy symptoms but also period ones. She started spotting at 13dpo, and got heavier for 2 days but not her normal period. She stopped bleeding completely today, at 17dpo, but we did a test and thought it was negative, looked after 20-30minites and it's slightly positive.....We are so confused, is this test a dud, or could she be pregnant even with slight bleeding?

Mummies are confused...advice would be great x

Good luck to all ladies trying 😘

kell2126 · 03/04/2019 19:27

@flowerlamp sorry af is here – hopefully this cycle is the one, fx xxxx

kell2126 · 03/04/2019 19:26

woohooo congrats @sunstruck!!!!

flowerlamp · 03/04/2019 17:30

I can see it too @SunStruck. Yay congrats Smile

My af has arrived so on the next month with some of you x

xoxhayleyxox · 03/04/2019 07:48

@SunStruck I see it!!! Try a FRER!!! Ahhh ❤️

SunStruck · 03/04/2019 07:40

@Whyhaveidonethis thanks so much.. I can't believe it... I have polycystic ovaries (NOT PCOS though) and just found out in January which is why we sped up babymaking as we were told could take a long time...

Hopefully this sticks 😳

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Whyhaveidonethis · 03/04/2019 07:26

@sunstruck I see it, I see it!! Yay. Congratulations! If the line came up in under the time I'd say its a positive xx

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SunStruck · 03/04/2019 02:12

Sorry I posted the same in another thread but this pic is 10min after (first pic was 3 min after). It's more visible now, but maybe it's invalid results after 10min? Package says positive result within 1 min and negative within 3...

4dpo...join me!!!
4dpo...join me!!!
SunStruck · 03/04/2019 02:02

Oh my God I just did a FRER, I couldn't wait, and I think I can see the faintest, faintest shade of a line... don't know if I'll be able to post it here?

Never been pregnant before, TTC first!

4dpo...join me!!!
SunStruck · 03/04/2019 00:53

Still no AF here either, however I'm not sure how long my luteal phase should be as cycles have just normalized a bit since coming off the pill. Currently 8 or 10 days DPO.

I'm tempting though and yesterday I had a massive temp drop to just above the coverline so was sure AF would be coming today as I'm also cramping now for 3 days, but this morning my temp shot up again!

Let's see...

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whyhaveidonethis · 02/04/2019 19:24

I went to the GP at 7am this morning (what kind of unearthly hour is that) and spoke to him again about my fertility. Much better doctor this time who said my previous bloods need repeating as they were taken on the wrong day last time! FFS.

Anyway he literally just called me 1w hours later to say he forgot the 21 day blood test and so is doing me a form for that too. Feel so much better that he is listening to me unlike the last doctor who told me there was no point doing any tests; either I'd get pregnant or wouldn't.

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whyhaveidonethis · 02/04/2019 19:22

@xoxhayleyxox that's amazing news. Congratulations!!!

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xoxhayleyxox · 02/04/2019 18:12

Hi ladies, just letting you know that I'm 10DPO today and got a BFP twice. I would upload a pic but I've uploaded too many today, it won't let me 🤦🏽‍♀️ sending you ALL baby dust ✨ xxx

flowerlamp · 02/04/2019 17:59

How is everyone doing?

Still no AF though for me x

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whyhaveidonethis · 01/04/2019 07:31

@kell2126 oh no. Massive hugs. Sorry I missed this on Saturday, I've been at work all weekend.

@flowerlamp you aren't out till AF shows up.

I'm currently on cd9 and about to hit my fertile period, but I'm not seeing DP for most of it.

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flowerlamp · 01/04/2019 07:14

Sorry Hetic weekend. Af due today but is currently a no show. However I have just tested and got a BFN. So looks like I am joining you guys on the next bus month x

kell2126 · 30/03/2019 11:36

@whyhave I'm out Sad AF started overnight, so I'm going to put it down as a CP and onto the next cycle. How about you? Must be coming up to OV around now-ish, no?

@flowerlamp FX for you! When are you thinking of testing?

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whyhaveidonethis · 29/03/2019 22:03

@kell2126 how you doing?

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flowerlamp · 29/03/2019 16:18

Hi @kell2126 still a chance then. My af isn't due till Monday although I'm starting to get the usual pains so I am not holding out much hope. X

kell2126 · 29/03/2019 10:51

Morning all, how's everyone doing today?

Somehow at 16DPO I'm still in. Very bloated and itchy boobs and some spotting still but mostly brown and only when wiping, not on pad. BFN with FMU again today though so not sure what's going on. Feeling like a leaf in the wind Confused

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whyhaveidonethis · 28/03/2019 11:36

@mrsp4 I did an IC last night but BFN so maybe it's just good fortune this month I'm not cursed with AF for days. To be fair my cycle has been pretty short (3-4 days) since November, but its normally pretty heavy for a few of them.

@sunstruck that is the curse of the tww!! We all do it!!

@kell2116 that's weird, maybe late implantation? Fingers crossed 🤞

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SunStruck · 28/03/2019 11:28

@whyhaveidonethis wishing more luck this cycle for you! Smile

Yes I am tempting and using CB OPK digital as well as tracking CM, so pretty certain. And this cycle was even more certain (last cycle it could have been between 2 days).

I feel like a lunatic checking for all the signs, and this is only on cycle 2! Sad

kell2126 · 28/03/2019 11:12

Hi all, and welcome @sunstruck!

@whyhave what is your hypothesis re the VERY short AF?

I'm still in for now (15 DPO). Tested multiple times yesterday and all BFN after the faint BFP on Tuesday night. Had some v light brown spotting yesterday afternoon, and then some drops of red blood in the loo just before bed so I thought OK I'm out she's on her way and I put on a jumbo pad expecting to wake up to full flow this morning. But woke up this morning to nothing on the pad and just a few light brown spots since then.

MrsP4 · 28/03/2019 11:10

@whyhaveidonethis I'm
Not far behind you I'm now on CD2 we can keep each other company on the April Bus, this AF feels very different to normal though, very light, no cramps not that I'm complaining