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BambiOnIce80 · 28/02/2019 07:44

Spring is in the air and it's time for a new thread!

Basically: a wonderful bunch of ladies supporting each other through the TTC journey when trying for a first baby after 35.

Here's hoping we get some spring BFP luck for all of us!! 🍀🐣🍀🐣

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BambiOnIce80 · 22/06/2019 13:58

That's an excellent follicle count @79andnotout! 😎 What's the plan of action now?

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79andnotout · 22/06/2019 11:36

So I had my ultrasound and it's pretty good. 10 follicles on one side, 8 on the other, she confirmed I ovulated on my left side a week ago, and said my lining looked fine and there were no signs of any abnormalities. So still unexplained infertility.

79andnotout · 21/06/2019 20:46

Ha yeah if course, I'll update tomorrow after the scan. I'm looking forward to it. I'll be 6DPO so should have a good lining. Will see.

@QuantumGirl how are you getting on? Have you started round one?

BambiOnIce80 · 21/06/2019 12:27

Awwww, that's a stunning profile your bean's got going on there @Laney79! 😍 Absolutely enjoy every moment of it!xx

Ooh, your appointment's tomorrow then @79andnotout 👍 Please also report back on how that goes when you can 🍀 I've still got another 3 months to go before mine, so I'll live vicariously through you and @QuantumGirl for the time being, if that's alright?! 😄

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Catconfusion · 21/06/2019 11:46

Amazing @Laney79 I'm so happy for you! Good luck for the rest of this crazy journey! Xx

Laney79 · 21/06/2019 11:19

@BambiOnIce80 I've been a bit scared to post a pic, but do you know what, no matter what happens I might as well enjoy it right now! So here you go....

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79andnotout · 21/06/2019 11:03

Thanks @BambiOnIce80 - very sensible advice as always. I will see what the clinic say tomorrow. Time to do some research myself too so I'm properly armed.

BambiOnIce80 · 21/06/2019 10:39

Hi'ya @79andnotout, I'm by no means an immunologist (disclaimer!), but those levels have to be significant. My understanding is that them both being high indicates a likely autoimmune thyroid disorder, possibly Hashimoto's given that both of them are raised. I don't know enough scientifically speaking about it to advise whether that could be the cause of the difficulty to conceive, but I can tell you anecdotally that DP's XW had Hashimoto's and when they couldn't get pregnant from 3 years of TTC it was put down to that. On the NHS tests front, you're right that your clinic will likely want to check those values themselves rather than taking the home test values (the fact you have those results gives you a case to ask to be checked, of course). I know in my area you wouldn't get the thyroglobulin test offered, but I think some areas down south do it - post code lottery 🙄

Sorry you're feeling unwell around ov @Carley32 💐 Maybe you have one ovary that's 'more active' (my right one is!) and that gives you more ov symptoms/discomfort than the other? The nausea is possibly your hormones surging and messing with your stomach. I get nausea pre-AF when my progesterone drops... which doesn't mess with my inner symptom spotting psycho at all! 🤪😏 Hope you're feeling better now?x

So glad you had a lovely holiday and everything is progressing nicely @Laney79! ❤️ You'll be posting us a lovely scan pic soon then?😉

I hope you're clinic appointment goes well @PixieN 🍀 Please give us an update when you can.x

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79andnotout · 21/06/2019 09:25

Ok so got my thyroid immune tests back -

Thyroid peroxidase antibodies - 350 [0-34 kIU/L]
Thyroglobulin antibodies - 621 [0-115 kU/L]

@BambiOnIce80 do you do any of these tests in your lab? I clearly have very elevated antibodies but I'm not sure if this is clinically significant.

I've been having a bit of a read, and found some good articles summarising infertility and miscarriage risk with anti-thyroid antibodies.

We conclude that patients with subclinical hypothyroidism are facing an increased risk of pre-eclampsia and the hitherto under-reported risk for perinatal mortality. The presence of thyroid antibodies in euthyroid patients is associated with unexplained subfertility (which was so far unknown), miscarriage, recurrent miscarriage, preterm birth

PixieN · 19/06/2019 21:53

Sounds promising @Laney79 🤞💕

PixieN · 19/06/2019 21:52

He’s gorgeous @BambiOnIce 😻😻😻 I love black cats. We’ve got one too! We’ve got an appointment at the fertility clinic at the end of the week so will let you know how it goes. Not sure what they’ll say about the failed HSG 😫

Laney79 · 19/06/2019 21:51

Oh and @BambiOnIce80 such a cute kitty!

Laney79 · 19/06/2019 21:50

Thanks for asking after me @BambiOnIce80 -holiday was amazing, gorgeous place and really relaxing. Had another scan today and all went well-measuring 11+1! Booking appt sat and 12 week dating scans week today (they had to move it in case we want trisomy screening as at my original scan I'dve been too far gone on today's measurements). The relief is incredible! We've told parents today-holding our till next week to tell friends and wider family. Just hoping bub keeps growing and developing well.

@Russkispy I'm guessing you were on progesterone pessaries during your pregnancy (assisted conception if I remember right?) so not sure if the prism info would help to be honest. It's so hard to understand why these things happen when there are seemingly no answers forthcoming. Really feel for you xxx

Carley321 · 19/06/2019 17:48

Yes Io is needed. Aww well Rocket is just lush 😍. I noticed more energy too @BambiOnIce80. But today I woke up feeling very nauseous and had to come home from work at 12. No aching and still bloody nauseous.

I wonder if anyone else gets unwell during ovulation or just before af. This seems to be an occurring thing for me. But not every month, mostly every other. Which has worried me.

Good news @Russkispy 👍.

Glad all you ladies are good too 😊.

BambiOnIce80 · 18/06/2019 20:16

@Russkispy that's a lot to wrap your head around, isn't it - excellent news that there was no chromosomal abnormalities, but then confusing as to why the MC occurred 😔💐 Did you see the link @Laney79 (I hope all is well with you?x) posted a few pages ago about progesterone support in recurrent MC? Might be worth a look and a chat with the docs? As you say, there's no point putting yourself through the DE process if there's treatment that can be given to support an embryo with your own egg. I hope you get some answers soon.x

@Carley32, awesome news on the BFP OPK at CD16 and the EWCM! 😃 I've been taking the omega fish oil too and get the impression it's helping in some way (I feel 'healthier' at least). Don't blame you for cutting back on TTC screentime - I think it gives an essential headspace break which is definitely periodically needed 🧘‍♀️ I've found it quite helpful this last week... well, that and the new kitten (aka Rocket 🚀 😼)! 😄 Oooh, the 6th isn't far off now! 🏃‍♀️💪 I definitely don't think you should sweat the TWW - you're absolutely right to enjoy yourself and not end up resenting giving up all the stuff you love but forgo if AF turns up (sending you positive vibes that she doesn't this cycle, as always🍀🤞🏻🔮).x

@79andnotout @QuantumGirl @Weathergirl1 @Pinkywoo, thank you all for the kitty compliments! 😻 The little 💩 slept through peacefully for 6 & a half hours last night, which should be a god send... unless you're me and you wake up every 2 hours, hear silence and lay there thinking he must be dead but you can't go check in case he's just sleeping and I disturb him and undo all the good work! 🤪 Seriously - if I'm this mental with a kitten, what the hell would I be like with a bambino?! 🤯 And thank you to whoever (threads ago) recommended 'the world's best cat litter' - it's massively helping keep my inner neat-freak appeased! 😄

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Carley321 · 18/06/2019 19:33

Hello @BambiOnIce80 I was wondering where you were. I have been nosing on here but also having trying to cut down on my ttc screentime. It’s going well 😊. Your week sounds right up my street 🥂. How were the in-laws?
Ar amazing news on the kitten 😍. Pets are such good company. What it’s name?

I’m CD16 and had a bfp OPK this afternoon so 🤞. So 2 days fewer than last month. Although ttw is getting a little old now and I’m going to try just doing what the hell I like considering nothing else has worked so far. My pretty Muddy race is on the 6th July 🏃‍♀️ 👍.

Some maybe interesting info... I have had much more ewcm (tmi) this cycle since I started taking omega 6 vits. Hopefully a good thing 🤞.

Weathergirl1 · 18/06/2019 16:24

@BambiOnIce80 Aw cute puddy tat! 😻

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Russkispy · 18/06/2019 15:58

just heard from our hospital that our transferred embryo didn’t have any abnormalities! We will get full report in the next couple of days but the good news is that it didn’t have any chromosomal abnormalities! The frozen one had trisomy 18. Of course my main question is why miscarriage happened? And last year too! Naturally I’m worried if I’ll miscarry with donor egg?! And now I’m thinking shall we try IVF with my eggs again? Have a bigger dose from the start? And try different meds?! And somehow support my system against miscarriages?! I’m now more confused than ever! And upset as my own embryo was ok and yet I miscarried. I just don't know what to do next! I was convinced it was abnormal! What would you do?!

QuantumGirl · 18/06/2019 09:38

OMG what a cutie 😍😻

Pinkywoo · 17/06/2019 21:40

Kitten!!! 😍 He's so lovely!

79andnotout · 17/06/2019 21:28

Woah cutie kitty cat!! So small and fluffy!

BambiOnIce80 · 17/06/2019 20:29

Here he is, enjoying using DP as a cat bed 😸 It's difficult to get a picture of him when he's awake - he's surprisingly fast! 🌪️

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QuantumGirl · 17/06/2019 20:06

@BambiOnIce80 good to hear from you! Glad you survived the rellies and had some time away to recover but most amazing of all
you got a kitten! how amazing! can we have pics please? 😻😻😻

BambiOnIce80 · 17/06/2019 19:00

Evening all 🙂 La familia visit is now done and dusted (although DP still has a touch of the thousand yard stare going on 🙄), we've been away for DP's birthday/recovery weekend and we're finally home 🏡

Sorry to hear the HSG hurt like a mofo @PixieN, but glad you've gotten it out of the way! I feel like I've been crazy lucky when I had mine... actually makes me wonder if there's something wrong with me for not finding it any different from a smear test! 😳 What's next for you on the investigations agenda?x

Glad to hear you managed to get a shag in pre-ov @79andnotout 👍 It also made me smile to hear your friend is doing better and you're in a positive place ❤️ Sounds like we all might be doing this IVF timeline together (I'm also September - possibly January) and it would be fabulous to have all you guys in the same boat for a hand hold 🤝 Agree that you can get sporadic erroneous results, especially from a fingerprick - definitely best to repeat 💉 👍

Very exciting that AF is here and things will start moving for you now @QuantumGirl! 🥚🤩 Did you decide what you're going to do about your holiday? Does the jabs and scans fit around it? I also hope you enjoyed your forbidden food bender?! 🥘 😋 😉

How're things with you @Carley32 lovely? Is your muddy race for life coming up? Where abouts are you in your cycle? Hope you're feeling a bit better about things (and you've had some lovely wine 🍷😘).

So. CD25 here and AF due Thursday. I actually hope she does do the 'old faithful' thing and turn up like clockwork - I've had a 💩 load of wine, mussels and a good few drams in the last week! 😳 I've also found the most awesome thing in the world to distract from TTC obsessing - we've bought home a kitten today! 😼 We weren't going to go there until we'd exhausted IVF, but things just aligned and it became clear now was the right time... I'm smitten with him already! 😻

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