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I feel so broken.

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raspberrylime123 · 22/02/2019 00:08

I can’t keep looking at negative tests and seeing blood. I literally feel like I’m having a breakdown over this. Please help how do I cope

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Luxembourgmama · 22/02/2019 07:38

Have you tried to get medical help. I was really struggling but am feeling better since we've been seeing an infertility doctor.

loveskaka · 22/02/2019 07:29

Typos 🤦🏼‍♀️ sorry

loveskaka · 22/02/2019 07:28

Stop taking them, ur obviously obsessing over it and worrying, it wnt happen if ur so stressed! I done the same as you then got so fed I stopped testing, I felt like what's the point! Then my period was 10 days late before I tested! Right up till I tested I just told my self that my periods where late! (Usually a couple of days late not 10) not I have a gorgeous 14month old! Just relax and "give up" (I know it's crazy hard)

BettyBe · 22/02/2019 07:21

I've stopped taking tests. The sight of negative pregnancy tests is really very depressing and (for me) worse than seeing my period arrive.

VenusStarr · 22/02/2019 07:08

I'm sorry to hear you're feeling so low. Ttc is the hardest thing I've ever done. How long have you been trying? I've recently started counselling which has helped a bit. I'm still struggling with low mood and low motivation. Do you track your cycle like temping or using apps? I got obsessed over these so had to stop myself. I loosely use ovia but only to enter when my period starts, I don't look at it for the rest of the month, so I'm not conscious of my cycle day.

We've been referred to a fertility clinic now as we're 16 cycles in. That has changed my mindset a bit as I feel like something can happen, it's being taken seriously.

Good luck, it's so shit x

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