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When's the best time to get pregnant? Use our interactive ovulation calculator to work out when you're most fertile and most likely to conceive.

The One Full Of Coconuts and BFPs

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ChikiTIKI · 20/02/2019 07:33

Just setting this up before we run out of space on the other thread.

@Carastarchild @LondonKez I will tag more people later today.

Anyone not on previous thread is welcome to join too. A friendly group of people supporting each other through TTC xxxx

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Carastarchild · 08/03/2019 18:26

Got my crosshairs 🤞

@pineapple I suppose you really need to know when you 💯% ovulated before you will know for sure if your luteal phase is short. Do you use opks etc?

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PineappleC · 08/03/2019 08:32

Hi @cara, happy Friday! Looks like another great chart 😊 It looks like BBT is really useful but I just don't know if I could take the rollercoaster of emotions (I get stressed waaaay too easily!)

Yes I hope it's too early for it, just a bit worried because my cycles have been 23-25 days anyway, so that makes my luteal phase a bit short if I ov on cd14! I guess the cramping just feels a bit like I'm out too early, but I know realistically that cramps is just progesterone, which could be AF or BFP!

Yes indeed thank God it's the weekend! I've decided to relax as much as I can this weekend as the last few have felt quite busy!! Not long to go now 😊

Carastarchild · 07/03/2019 21:40

Hi Pineapple 👋👋 My temperature rose again this morning, so ovulation should be confirmed in the morning if it rises again. 5 dpo is way too early for AF, so try not to worry. I must start my cyclogest on Saturday night. Feeling so so tired 😴 Thank goodness tomorrow is Friday!

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PineappleC · 07/03/2019 18:18

@cara yes it already feels like a very long TWW and I am only on 5dpo! I have today had very mild crampy feelings so have a nasty feeling that AF may be on its way. I guess as long as I'm not spotting I'm not too concerned at the moment, but would be gutted if my short cycles are getting shorter, especially with all the progesterone-friendly raspberry leaf tea!!

Your chart looks pretty good for ov though, with all the other signs? How are you doing today? 😊

@38notcounting glad to hear that everything is going to plan! All very exciting!! It's funny how some people seem to feel really different syraightaway when pg, and others don't feel much until loads later, our bodies are all so different!

I hope it's another lucky month for this thread too!! 🤞

Carastarchild · 07/03/2019 13:23

@38notcounting try not to worry. I literally didn't feel pregnant with my DS until between 7 and 8 weeks. Even after my 12 week scan it was hard to comprehend that yes I was pregnant! As soon as a little bump came and I started showing more and more, I realised that everything was okay. Baby was growing...breathe and relax x

38notcounting · 06/03/2019 22:50

Hi @carastar still not feeling very pregnant, boobs not as sore as they were so just hoping everything is ok. You never stop worrying do you?!

Have booked an 8 week scan as can't wait til 12 weeks to find out if everything's ok.

Really hoping it's another lucky month for the thread. Sorry you've had to cut down on tea, as a fellow addict I know how hard that is! Have you tried redbush tea? It's herbal and doesn't contain caffeine but is quite similar to normal tea and you can drink it with milk. I swear by the stuff xxx

Carastarchild · 06/03/2019 20:27

This is my chart. I need two more temperature rises before Fertility Friend gives me the crosshairs on my chart. That's how ovulation is confirmed when charting.

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Carastarchild · 06/03/2019 19:28

With all the coconuts and silence it seems we are all on a tropical island...an island in the breeze :D

Well I am officially 1dpo! It's going to be a long tww!

@pineappleC how many dpo are you? How are you feeling now? I am trying to keep warm! Apparently it's very important during the tww! I have also reduced the amount of cups of tea I drink, and instead I now drink two herbal teas in the morning, and one at night. Self proclaimed tea addict!

@Chikitiki! Fx for you! I hope you get a nice strong opk, lots of EWCM and by the time you pop back on next week I hope you will be well on your way to a shiny BFP!

@Londonkez how have you been feeling? Have you ovulated yet?

@38notcounting and @laurapalmarsbodybag How is the first few weeks of pregnancy?? I hope the morning sickness is mild and you are both excited to be counting down the weeks until you meet your little ones :)

ChikiTIKI · 05/03/2019 21:52

So, Lent starts tomorrow which means no TV or iPad for me!! Might for the first time ever have Sunday's off though. Will probably be checking in once a week to see how you're all doing. Praying we will all be pregnant by Easter xxxx

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PineappleC · 05/03/2019 09:20

Hi @Cara yeah feeling a bit better thanks- I think it was an unusually stressful few days for me, and probably takes a while to get used to all the different vitamins and stuff I'm taking. Taking it really easy this week with work and exercise which will hopefully help 😊

How are you getting on? Chart looks good (from my limited understanding of charts 😊)

@Chiki sounds promising that you think you see signs of ov! 👍👍

Nothing much to report here, well into the TWW now so just focusing on limiting stress and eating well xx

Carastarchild · 04/03/2019 22:44

I never use opks when I have my period...I would check here and there from around cd7 up to cd 9 then test three times a day.

ChikiTIKI · 04/03/2019 21:12

Ok I will do that. I only seem to get dark OPKs right before AF shows up. I really think I just ovulate while on my period at the moment. Will get some more OPKs when these ones run out xxxx

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Carastarchild · 04/03/2019 21:07

I would continue to use the opks until you get a positive.. ..that way at least you will know when you ovulate...that way you will learn more about what is going on with your cycle.

ChikiTIKI · 04/03/2019 20:51

@Carastarchild no picture and I left it in the car (I won't bore you with the story).
Have DTD this evening so feeling better about things. Last time we DTD was last week on Tuesday... Have shown absolutely no signs of ovulation until today though.

When would you test if you were me? After 4 or 5 cycles ranging from 12-17 days... If I get to 3 weeks do you reckon I should test? I do realise I'm very unlikely to get pregnant unless I give more sex lol.

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Carastarchild · 04/03/2019 19:49

How about we give up worrying and stressing and live in the moment ✨💜✨

I didn't use the monitor this cycle as the sticks are so expensive. The cheap opks work just fine. Trying to save money as if I do get pregnant we will need funds for baby items. Also, my sister is getting married in September.

Did you take a picture of your OPK? Hang in there! Any bit of a line is a progression.

ChikiTIKI · 04/03/2019 19:19

Wow @Carastarchild an even stronger line. What did your fertility monitor say? Surely that set off some kind of alarm lol !!

I've got some EWCM and slightly open cervix. Maybe signs of ovulation I don't know. OPK was almost blank though, definitely not positive.

I am giving up TV for lent and probably my iPad too so might not be able to come on here for a while. A lot of people at church seem to have Sunday's off from whatever they've given up, which I've never done before... I don't know if I have the willpower to give something up but then have days off. I need to be more clear cut I think. I will have to decide by end of tomorrow what I'm dong but feel like I need to support of this thread!!! And I want to know how everyone is doing too!!! Will have to make a decision. Eek!

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Carastarchild · 04/03/2019 18:49

I actually squeezed two grapefruit every day and drank the juice until now... lots and lots of ewcm 🤞🤞🤞

Carastarchild · 04/03/2019 14:36

This is my chart 🤞

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Carastarchild · 04/03/2019 14:30

Temp dropped this morning and ovulation pain has increased. OPK much stronger today.

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Carastarchild · 03/03/2019 23:05

@pineapple I hope you are feeling better today 💜 I truly believe that the calc fluor really helped me 🤞

Carastarchild · 03/03/2019 23:03

@Chikitiki you have been through a lot. Always remember that dreams come true 💜

Carastarchild · 03/03/2019 22:54

Hopefully this is our month 🤞🤞🤞

Ovulating earlier this month has made it more difficult as we have only dtd three times. I haven't ovulated yet though so we will dtd tomorrow and the day after 🤞🤞🤞

ChikiTIKI · 03/03/2019 21:19

Yeah my first 2 months definitely didn't "count" as I was still BF. So it only took one or two months to get pregnant after then but obviously it wasn't a successful pregnancy. Just hope whenever it happens it is successful...!

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Carastarchild · 03/03/2019 21:05

@Chikitiki another gamer husband 😮 I don't feel so alone 🤣 DTD every two days, and at least you are covered no matter when you ovulate.... I am TTC a long time too...we were not trying but trying for a while before we began really focused on TTC...🤞🤞🤞

ChikiTIKI · 03/03/2019 20:22

@Carastarchild I know you're right...

I was thinking today, I started TTC in July.... Nearly 9 months ago. :(

I'm just tired at the moment. With my cycles being so so short I am constantly thinking that I'm ovulating.

Guests have gone now. Will DTD tonight... whenever husband finishes online gaming....

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