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The One Full Of Coconuts and BFPs

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ChikiTIKI · 20/02/2019 07:33

Just setting this up before we run out of space on the other thread.

@Carastarchild @LondonKez I will tag more people later today.

Anyone not on previous thread is welcome to join too. A friendly group of people supporting each other through TTC xxxx

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Carastarchild · 10/08/2019 11:37

My temp is dropping. Still no sign of any blood, so I am happy that when my body knew there was an embryo it did what it was supposed to do. I am feeling a bit better today 🌸 Feeling more focused on getting to the bottom of what is going on.

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Carastarchild · 10/08/2019 00:01

Thank you for your kind words @ChikiTIKI 💜💐💜how are you doing? I hope everything has settled down for you.

I am going to book a session with a homeopathic therapist. I just feel that something is going on in my body. That's the 2nd chemical pregnancy in the last 6 months. I just wonder if my immune system is preventing me from becoming pregnant. I still don't have any bleeding, but my temp will probably drop in the morning.

My husband said that this has made him realise just how much he really wants to be a dad. He said he felt gutted that it didn't work out this time, as he was certain this was it. He believes we can get pregnant again next month. I have to smile at his positivity and determination ☺️ Silver lining 💜

ChikiTIKI · 09/08/2019 18:59

Oh no @Carastarchild :( I'm so sorry. Sending love. I'm sorry it didn't work out xxxx

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Carastarchild · 09/08/2019 16:39

Thanks at @LauraPalmersBodybag. I am on a tea break now. I just don't think it's hit me, as I am at work and I have to keep going for now.

LauraPalmersBodybag · 09/08/2019 16:17

@Carastarchild oh I’m so so sorry. Be kind to yourself and allow time to grieve this. Flowers

Carastarchild · 09/08/2019 15:02

Letting go of this cycle now. My hcg came back at three. The frer must be super sensitive, as I got a bit of a line yesterday.

My temp started to drop this morning as
well.

Third time lucky I hope 🍀

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Carastarchild · 09/08/2019 09:08

Thank you for your support and kindness ladies 💜

This is my chart this morning. I feel my little bean tried it's best 😔 I am going to ring the doctors office at 2.30 for my results. I feel like 🤮... I don't think it will be good news.

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BarbaraD · 09/08/2019 00:04

Hi everyone I'm we to netmums I posted on the other thread but I'm not really sure where I should be posting to be honest lol ..so I'm looking for some advice please I am on cycle day 17 of a 31 day cycle I just had my static smiley face today on my clear blue ovulation test yesterday it was a flashing smiley face my question is this please Am I still able to conceive so late in my cycle ? I'm starting to get down hearted now any help of advice would be much appreciated thank you

LauraPalmersBodybag · 08/08/2019 23:12

And @ChikiTIKI gosh, I’m sorry to hear you’re in a scary place too, especially after your mc. Try to remember that bleeding now doesn’t necessarily mean a loss...it would be great if you could have a scan soon to give you a clearer picture and hopefully some reassurance.

Love to you too xx

LauraPalmersBodybag · 08/08/2019 23:10

@Carastarchild I’m so sorry to hear what’s been happening. You must be all over the place, hope you can find some more information and solace very soon. And it does seem hopeful that your temp is still going up. I have everything crossed for you. Will they test your HCG levels again to see if it’s still rising? I know from friends who have suffered with infertility that apparently it’s all about the increase, and not just one set of hormone figures.

Much much love to you x

ChikiTIKI · 08/08/2019 20:19

@Carastarchild I think it's really positive that your temp is still going up. Hopefully you have high hcg results tomorrow. When I got home from work I had (sorry tmi here...) a blob of cm. Half was yellowish colour and half was this greyish light brownish colour. So I think that's what I was getting bits of this morning. The times I've had it is a few times in the mornings mainly.

My husband doesn't think it's blood. I must admit I have been accused of being slightly colourblind continuously throughout my life but still this feels a bit worrying to me.

Think I will ask about a reassurance scan. It's hard because I can't bear to know if something is wrong but also I know it's better for me to find out ASAP if something is wrong.

Hoping for a positive day tomorrow for all xxxx

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Carastarchild · 08/08/2019 14:18

@Curlywurly3 congratulations Mama! Wow... You must be over the moon 💜💐💜

Carastarchild · 08/08/2019 13:34

I am prepared for the worst. I just was so scared of this happening and it looks like it is. I am probably 90% sure right now that it's not good. The only thing giving me a tiny Glimmer of hope is my temp and no sign of AF. Results should be in after lunch tomorrow.

I wouldn't worry if it was an odd thing. Brown is old as well, so maybe the body just pushed it out. Keep an eye on it, but I really feel positive about your pregnancy 💚

ChikiTIKI · 08/08/2019 13:13

P.s. Not had cramps I don't think but was hard to tell last night as we had a big BBQ for tea xxxx

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ChikiTIKI · 08/08/2019 13:13

Oh no @Carastarchild I'm so so sorry :(
I'm praying for you and holding out hope.

The spotting this morning was light brown. Haven't had any more since this morning but it made me feel so sad. I might go to the docs anyway and see if we can arrange an early scan to put my mind at rest.

Thinking of you I hope you get good news tomorrow xxxx

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Carastarchild · 08/08/2019 11:16

I brought the tests with me and the doctor agreed that it looks like it's a chemical pregnancy. She took a blood test to check for hcg levels and I will have my results tomorrow. Funny thing is I felt pregnant yesterday and today my symptoms are decreasing. I came out of the doctors and cried my eyes out.

Carastarchild · 08/08/2019 07:16

@ChikiTIKI your line got stronger, so I wouldn't worry. Go to the doctors and get checked if you are concerned. What colour is the spotting, and do you have any cramps? My sister had spotting and she has a 1 year little girl now. I am praying for you 💜 💚 💜

I know in my heart that this is another chemical pregnancy. I am going to go to the GP later if I can get an appointment. I peed at 12am and then I tested at 4.45 because I had to pee again. The urine was was strong enough, as it was nearly a 5 hour hold. My temp is rising which seems to be contradictory to the test 😑

ChikiTIKI · 08/08/2019 06:57

I am having spotting this morning. Worried it might all be over :(

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ChikiTIKI · 08/08/2019 06:36

@Carastarchild I can still see both lines. Maybe your wee is less concentrated if you have been going to the loo more? Xxxx

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Carastarchild · 08/08/2019 05:25

Top test is from this morning. My boobs are massive with visible veins, I have been going to the toliet constantly, digestive issues, tired, no spotting or bleeding my temp is rising... 😩

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Carastarchild · 08/08/2019 05:20

I am gutted 💔💔💔

I tested this morning and the line was lighter. I even did a digital just to be able to say the word Pregnant. I feel so numb right now and my DH is so disappointed and upset. I am going to ring the doctors when they open so that I can get a blood test done to see what is going on. Still no AF and my temp rose even higher 😭😭😭

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Curlywurly3 · 07/08/2019 23:31

@carastarchild I’m extremely impressed with your memory! I did get my BFP last October and Jessica is now 8 weeks old on Saturday! This time last year I had just had my first chemical pregnancy, I cannot believe that was a year ago!
Honestly I am so happy for you ladies, I can’t believe I randomly checked in today and there were two BFP’s! Fingers crossed it won’t be long for everyone else xx

ChikiTIKI · 07/08/2019 19:27

P.s. I've been feeling quite worried this pregnancy too so far. It comes and goes though.

I was SO worried the first five days then I had a thought.... If this is God's plan for me to have this baby then nothing can stop it. I still feel worried at times but keep trying to remind myself of this. Definitely feel very tired and a bit sick which is promising but I know that doesn't always mean everything is ok. It's a rollercoaster!

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ChikiTIKI · 07/08/2019 19:24

Oh wow @LauraPalmersBodybag time really does fly! It will be so fun to have a boy I am sure. I always just assumed I would have another girl because I can't imagine having a boy lol. It will all be so exciting and new though :) I'm sure once he's been here a while you will think to yourself that you couldn't imagine it any other way :)

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Carastarchild · 07/08/2019 18:41

@LauraPalmersBodybag there is nothing like the love a mother has for her son. Believe me. My mum had four girls, a boy and then a girl. She said girls are so independent, while a boy loves his mother like no other 😂 Congratulations again 💙