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The July 19ers - All aboard the rollercoaster for a 3rd lucky thread

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Frazzlerock · 31/01/2019 10:32

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The July 19ers - All aboard the rollercoaster for a 3rd lucky thread
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ratherbeshowjumping · 01/02/2019 11:57

Sorry to divert, but does anyone have any experience of EWCM after ovulation?
I've had lotion cm for the past 3 days, now 3dpo, I've just been to the loo and got loads of EWCM....? This mc has completely screwed my body up Sad

InDreamland · 01/02/2019 11:28

@Frazzlerock my sister works and Aldgate, I go through Aldgate East often as travel in from the East of London.

@Twittlebee I'd say something. It's rude to smoke around people of you know they're pregnant or have something like asthma.

@Bettyswoll0cks I would happily have that baby and my own if I was lucky enough to get pregnant a third time but this time bring a healthy baby home.

BettySwoll0cks · 01/02/2019 11:12

@InDreamland and @Rose68 I had exactly the same thought about that baby. I thought, if I took that one in but then managed to have another one of my own, would I cope?! Ridiculous how quickly your mind races forward.

Frazzlerock · 01/02/2019 11:06

I'm not really feisty but I can get very passive aggressive and I would definitely be saying something!

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TwittleBee · 01/02/2019 10:50

Thank fully it's only a 15 minute drive! But why couldn't she wait to have a cig!

Frazzlerock · 01/02/2019 10:48

Oh god @Twittle, I'd tell her to stop at the nearest train station and I'd make my own way there

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TwittleBee · 01/02/2019 10:45

I am so shocked at that news. Baby mist have been found super quick! Just in a bag! Ffs awful

So on my way to the wedding venue now with the other BMs to get ready. The MOH is driving us now, was meant to be me, and she's smoking in the car!!!!!! I am so angry, she knows I'm pregnant and knows my history of MC. She's so feisty though I don't dare say anything.

Frazzlerock · 01/02/2019 10:19

I don't know about this baby news. I haven't seen any news yet and doesn't appear to be doing the round on my FB as these things usually do. I'm not sure I want to read it, sounds so sad Sad

@Dreamland I come into London Bridge. I'm in Aldgate so yes very near!

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Rose68 · 01/02/2019 09:51

😂

InDreamland · 01/02/2019 09:47

Form an orderly queue.

Rose68 · 01/02/2019 09:41

I would have the baby too....

InDreamland · 01/02/2019 09:18

@Frazzlerock I think you work near my office. I'm in the London bridge area, 5 mins walk from borough market.

InDreamland · 01/02/2019 09:17

Fx for your DP @Frazzlerock!

InDreamland · 01/02/2019 09:16

My first reaction to the news about the baby was "I'll have it"!!!

Rose68 · 01/02/2019 09:16

@Frazzle yes, fab news for DP! Sorry I missed that before. FX he gets it x

tigsyboo · 01/02/2019 09:10

No it's not that kind of place - it's 3 hairdressers in a little independent place - there's no manager like a high st chain.
I know she wasn't trying to be mean, it's hard for people to comprehend there are other outcomes to pregnancy than excitement and babies until you have been there I guess.... and my hair is OBVIOUSLY different - I guess she won't make that mistake again though.

I'm angry about that baby too... life just isn't fair is it. Really trying to be positive but now CD8 and DH already in a foul mood about court next week so suggesting dtd tonight to start smep plan seems a distant dream! X

ratherbeshowjumping · 01/02/2019 09:10

Huge congrats to your DH Frazzle, that's fab news. Keeping everything crossed for him today.

We have no snow at all, yet just 10 miles down the road, people have abandoned their cars and have been sleeping in pubs etc. Madness.

That poor baby, and poor mother too. She must have been so desperate. Looks like the baby is going to be ok. Hopefully a lovely family will take her in.

Rose68 · 01/02/2019 08:50

@Indreamland I know, I can’t believe anyone could do that! The mother must have been in a terrible state. The baby is so lucky to have survived, I guess she was found pretty quickly.

InDreamland · 01/02/2019 08:49

We have some snow here but not tonnes, it is still snowing though but it's light.

InDreamland · 01/02/2019 08:48

Congratulations @edidxb!

@Frazzlerock I know the feeling seeing about 5 of those badges every day on my tube commute Sad I tried to keep mine discreet and pinned it to my bag strap so when I sat down bag came off and badge was hidden and when I was walking used to put my have over it. I only showed it when I was on the train platform and standing on the train as didn't want to be pushed and shoved. You normally get a little more space if people can see you're pregnant.

Rose68 · 01/02/2019 08:48

@edidxb oh that’s wonderful news, I am so happy for you!

@Buggles1 good news for the smiley face, quick get some bd in ASAP! This month I got the smiley face and already had ov pains.

@Kinsters even I can see that chart is looking fab!

@Twittle I hope you are okay.

@Frazzle don’t stress, you won’t be last x

We have have stacks of snow here, and school is cancelled 😩 I’m trying to gear myself up for a fun day of sledging, but actually I am feeling quite stressy. I probably have pmt, although I’m desperately trying not to have it.

InDreamland · 01/02/2019 08:39

@tigsy that's so insensitive. I'd have complained to the manager. Especially as she was so loud about it. I saw my hairdresser 2 weeks ago, told her about my two mc's as wanted to explain why is not seen her since beginning of May just before I found out I was pregnant with the first one. Turns out she also had a mc at 12 weeks 6 weeks before me. Ended up with us spending an hour talking about our experiences and feelings before she even touched my hair. Funny how people can react weird as soon as they find out about your mc, either they go all strange and try to avoid it at all costs or they want to talk about their own experience.

Anyone else finding themselves feeling angry at the need this morning? Poor newborn baby abandoned in Newham on such a cold night............... my first baby should be 1 week old today .........

Still feel so ill. Wish this cold would just go.

tigsyboo · 01/02/2019 08:36

@edidxb that's wonderful! Congratulations!! Xx

Frazzlerock · 01/02/2019 07:26

Oh the good news front, DP has been asked to come back in today after his interview on Weds. This is the one near my office. It would be so cool if he worked up the road. Great little start-up too and willing to pay top dollar for him 🙌

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Frazzlerock · 01/02/2019 07:23

Oh wow @edidxb !! What brilliant news!
New thread and third positive test. Love it 😁

@Twittle good news no more bleeding but sorry you're in pain. I still cannot believe this has happened again. Are there always such reckless drivers where you are? What will be done about the cunt who drove away? CCTV?

Well I'm still fucking waiting to ovulate. Another shit temp and on CD19 now 😢
I guess I'd better settle down for the long haul. I'm bored of doing OPKs now. This will be my 12th day of testing.
I know I will be last to get a BFP seeing as I can't even produce an egg.
Another bad mood day for Frazzle then. In fact I just shed a tear on the train platform as a 'Baby on board' badge passed me.

Also, where the hell is all this snow we've been promised!?
The DC are pissed off as they'd hoped for a snow day.

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