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When's the best time to get pregnant? Use our interactive ovulation calculator to work out when you're most fertile and most likely to conceive.

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Frazzlerock · 31/01/2019 10:32

Brew Cake

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TwittleBee · 04/02/2019 18:11

It's funny isn't it haha

ratherbeshowjumping · 04/02/2019 18:00

Haha 😂😂 don't know why I found it awkward describing how we use lube to the people I regularly discuss cm with 😂

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Frazzlerock · 04/02/2019 17:58

Haha! "Do it" 😂😂
I feel I have turned this thread into an excerpt from Just 17 mag 😅

But in all seriousness, thank you for teaching me about lube. I feel my life is now fulfilled.

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ratherbeshowjumping · 04/02/2019 17:39

@Frazzlerock 😂😂 just before we "do it" I squirt it onto him & also a little bit on my hand then rub it on it too.

@BettySwoll0cks ffs! Why do they always do that!!

BettySwoll0cks · 04/02/2019 17:15

Ha I needed a laugh just now and this convo about lube has done that!

DH has done something really inconsiderate and fucking infuriating. The last thing I want to do now is shag him but it has to be done, plus he's just announced that he's going out tomorrow night so I reckon it's tonight or never for this cycle. Grrrrrr.

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Frazzlerock · 04/02/2019 16:54

Glad you got a seat and thanks for the tip 😁

Uugghh so I got another strong Opk line just now

Top to bottom (Sat > Sun > Mon)
But low temp and the complete opposite of EWCM.

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TwittleBee · 04/02/2019 16:51

I do have a badge from pregnancy with DS as I needed to commute into London. But no clue where that's gone... it's a local town bus service, I don't think it would be appreciated or understood by many who use the buses here.

As luck would have it though, I nabbed a seat easy enough!

Nausea is massive on here though, the smells!!! Urgh!

Okay, so we use it in foreplay and occasionally throughout sex too (DH would just line a bit up on his cock)

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Frazzlerock · 04/02/2019 16:34

Right, I have a sex question and I feel like a teenager asking this but I've never actually used lube. Only the pre seed/conceive plus stuff (with applicator). When you say you use it the regular way, how is that exactly? (I am actually 39 and asking this...). Do DH's shove it up there with their fingers? Or rub it on their cocks first?

Also, I have images of dirty old perverts watching this thread - I'm laughing but

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Frazzlerock · 04/02/2019 16:31

@TwittleBee fuck yeah! Do you have a badge? Wear it if you do. My god the early stages of pregnancy can be the worst. If anything, a badge may give you a little space. I get mine out at every pregnancy right from my BFP. It's had a lot of use - haha.

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Rose68 · 04/02/2019 16:12

We use preseed too, sometimes I stick a load up with the applicators, other times we just use it as a regular lube.
@Frazzle definitely good news re the surgery!
@edidxb I totally get how your DH feels, fingers crossed it will be different for you this time. x

TwittleBee · 04/02/2019 16:11

Btw... WIBU if I ask for a seat of the bus home due to being pregnant? I know I can ask on the tube but idk about buses.... Just do not think I can hack standing up, back is killing me now. Cant afford a taxi urgh!

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Frazzlerock · 04/02/2019 16:05

@edidxb I think DP and I will be the same with 'Here we go again' when/if we get a BFP. It is hard to get excited isn't it.
Fingers crossed all goes well this time! xx

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edidxb · 04/02/2019 15:53

@frazzle I forgot to say - that's great you don't need surgery.

I also like it light hearted.....

I told DH tonight and his first comment was "here we go again......" and I know exactly how he feels!

Good luck @frazzle and @betty tonight
Good luck @kinsters for testing tomorrow - I am feeling positive for you
Good luck @rose68 for testing/waiting too.
Good luck @tigsy - hope it went well today

@ratherbe - hahahahaha!!!!

TwittleBee · 04/02/2019 15:38

Betty I like it light hearted too on occasion but DH gets so bloomin offended that I dare not make a joke or even slightly laugh now! He has been known to walk out mid-sex because I have been too jokey! Ooops!

BettySwoll0cks · 04/02/2019 15:36

@rather that's brilliant, I like anything that keeps it lighthearted

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Frazzlerock · 04/02/2019 15:31

@Betty that is a hilarious image Grin

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ratherbeshowjumping · 04/02/2019 15:28

Agree with you Betty 😂 and it comes out really fast. I accidentally squirted it all over DHs belly 😩🙈

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Frazzlerock · 04/02/2019 15:28

Right, thanks ladies. I will go and buy some of that pre seed then. Not sure what to do about the OPKs, I will just power through until they are gone and then buy the green ones

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BettySwoll0cks · 04/02/2019 15:24

I only used half (ish) the recommended amount @Frazzle. Any more than that and I'd have slid off the bed 😂

ratherbeshowjumping · 04/02/2019 15:20

@Frazzlerock it comes with applicators although apart from the, um, turkey baster scenario we've used it just like a regular lube.

TwittleBee · 04/02/2019 15:12

ah that could be it! Catching any hormone changes maybe Frazzle !?

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Frazzlerock · 04/02/2019 15:12

@Rather and @Betty does it come with applicators/ready filled applicators?

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Frazzlerock · 04/02/2019 15:10

A I see the difference @Twittle! The purple ones are more sensitive as 10MIU (just checked the Ebay listing), the green ones are 20. I don't know if it's best to have them as sensitive as 10MIU though Confused Perhaps that is why my line yesterday was so dark, though normally it is pale or not there so something must have happened yesterday, even if the egg didn't manage to get out

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ratherbeshowjumping · 04/02/2019 15:07

The one Betty has is the one we used when we conceived... did an @edidxb & only dtd once that month too 👍🏼

BettySwoll0cks · 04/02/2019 15:06

I use this one (I say that, I only used it once and got pg...)

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