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The July 19ers - All aboard the rollercoaster for a 3rd lucky thread

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Frazzlerock · 31/01/2019 10:32

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The July 19ers - All aboard the rollercoaster for a 3rd lucky thread
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Rose68 · 05/02/2019 07:35

Bfn here too this morning & I wasn’t even going to test. I wish I hadn’t, I’m devastated. I can’t keep the tears back. I hate my life right now. Sorry for crappy post.
Good luck @Twittlebee and @Tigsyboo for today.x

TwittleBee · 05/02/2019 07:31

Frazzle Yay for the Ov prediction and that is a sure temp rise just bloody hope it stays going up now! I wouldnt count yourself out at all btw! You DTD twice the day before Ov! That is perfect timing! Gives time for sperm to be there waiting at the ready and then bam! FX

Kin oh so frustrating for you BUT that your temps are still high and no spotting yet is positive and you could have only just rceently implanted. As for CD16/17 it could be the case you Ovd around then but still 4 days previous you DTD so still in for a slight chance? I honestly believe all symptoms in TWW to be either PMS or coincidence tbh though.

rather oh bless you both! it is a horrid time for you to be going through so no wonder you feel all grumpy. Just keep talking to each other and be open about how you feel, most likely because of all these TTC shit xx

Pegase Yes I have had them in each pregnancy. Horrid arent they! Make you proper worried. If you are worried or they get too painful it is worth getting them checked out by a Dr

InDreamland oo yum! Hope all the food will keep for you to enjoy as left overs!

And Happy CNY!

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Frazzlerock · 05/02/2019 07:18

@Kinsters I crossed posts with you! I don't know about the dates on your chart as I'm still such a novice. But I'd be wondering the same as you what with all the symptoms.
I wish these things were easier to work out 😓

Happy CNY @InDreamland! 🐷 😃

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InDreamland · 05/02/2019 07:07

GONG HEY FAT CHOI! SUN NIEN FAI LOK!

Happy CNY ladies!

Sorry not been on for a few days. I've been so busy! It may be a quiet one but cooked up a massive reunion dinner for DH, my sister and BIL. Way too much food.

So much to catch up on. I'll have to have a read through everything I've missed.

Hope you're all well x

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Frazzlerock · 05/02/2019 07:01

Morning all

Happy CNY! I love the piglet thing @Kinsters
I'm sorry about the test 😓 I hate that our bodies troll us like this. But it still could be too early!

Good luck for the scan @TwittleBee what time is it??

@tigsyboo I don't know anything about family courts but it sounds like things are in your favour, despite the amateur dramatics from the unhinged one.

@Pegase I hope your daughter enjoys the celebrations at school! I don't think mine celebrate it as we're in a very white (boringly uncultured with zero diversity) village. But I hope they prove me wrong!

@ratherbeshowjumping I'm so sorry you and DH are arguing. It's horrid isn't it. Can you chat about stuff tonight?

As for me, we'll I'm still on the ovulation talk I'm afraid. I'm bored going on about it so you guys must be so tired of it! Still, this is the only place I can talk about it.
So Ovusense has predicted my 'fertile window' (see pic). I kind of want to believe it given I've had two days of very strong +OPKs. Also my cervix is so high this morning I can't feel it.
What worries me is it has predicted for yesterday when we didn't have sex. We BD'd twice the day before (am and pm).
This morning I pre-seeded up and went into the bedroom and tried to wake DP but he was pretty much dead to the world and just woke briefly to tell me how sore his throat is . So I got dressed, said goodbye and wiped away all the pre seed and left the house.

DP is out tonight so unlikely to BD tonight, plus he will just get sicker, knowing him.
If Ovusense is correct then I can probably wave goodbye to any chance of conception this cycle. And we've had loads of sex up until now.
Aaarrgghhh. I want to cry so hard 😢

Maybe all the spotting has scuppered any chances anyway 😓

The July 19ers - All aboard the rollercoaster for a 3rd lucky thread
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Kinsters · 05/02/2019 07:00

Sorry that you had another argument ratherbe. It's such a stressful time.

Kinsters · 05/02/2019 06:58

Yeah, maybe I ovulated late and it's too early to test. Looking at my chart perhaps I might have been CD16 or CD17? In which case I'm probably out because of lack of BD'ing.

The July 19ers - All aboard the rollercoaster for a 3rd lucky thread
ratherbeshowjumping · 05/02/2019 06:32

Good luck today @tigsyboo & @TwittleBee

@Kinsters that's so rubbish. It may be too early to test? Especially if you are always spotting. Keep testing 🤞🏼

Happy CNY! Let's all hope we have a piglet this time next year 😬

DH & I had yet another argument last night ffs. I don't know if it's hormonal but everything is just making me so angry. I've got from laid back Larry to bunny boiler in just a few months 🙁

Pegase · 05/02/2019 06:20

Happy CNY! My daughter is very excited about this as apparently they have a CNY celebration in school!

Fingers crossed for you today @TwittleBee and @tigsyboo

Btw has anyone had stretching crampy pains before in early pg. am still under 5 weeks and it feels weird in there!!

Kinsters · 05/02/2019 06:05

Happy Chinese New Year everyone! Even though I think only InDreamland celebrates (hope you're doing ok and having a nice day even if it is a quiet one). It's the year of the Earth Pig which will hopefully be an auspicious one for all of us. DH's grandma's wish for me and DH when she gave us our gifts was to bring a little piglet with us next year - I hope that happens for all of us! The piglet, not visiting DH's scary grandmother...

Kinsters · 05/02/2019 05:47

Oh yes I totally forgot about your scan Twittle, good luck today!

TwittleBee · 05/02/2019 05:27

tigsy really does sound promising, they can't just go on sympathy. My friends went through the adoption processes to formally adopt their foster child and real weight goes on social services recommendation. So hoping today goes well.

kin oh so bloomin sucky! Could still be too early though, could have only implanted yesterday! FX!

Love we have a few silent witness fans on here!

Scan today... absolutely shitting myself.

Also have dad picking me up at 6.50am to drop me to work on his way to work so I can avoid the bus saga again. Does mean I'll be on work 1.5 hours early though. Rather that than chucking up on a bus and having to get off early and feel unsettled for rest of the day like last night!

Kinsters · 05/02/2019 04:16

tigsy yes I know Stourbridge! Many happy memories of going to a funfair there when I was tiny. I remembered after my earlier post that it was my nickname when I was little. When my sister and I were moaning our parents would call us Mardy and Blarty. Must be a Midlands thing! I hope you manage to get some more sleep and that everything goes well in court today.

I'm so gutted to not be pregnant. My hopes got really high with my temps and no bleeding (I even stuck my finger up to my cervix and nothing). I guess my luteal phase must have gotten a little longer or possibly I ovulated later than FF thinks. The symptoms seem so real though, I guess it's either progesterone or just in my head.

edidxb · 05/02/2019 04:00

Sorry @tigsy - cross posted. I hope you can get back to sleep.
My Mum and her family are from Bilston.
I'm from Shropshire! I have been through Stourbridge many times....

edidxb · 05/02/2019 03:55

@kinsters - arrgghhh rubbish. It's a cruel thing. There is still time, but the mimicking of symptoms is like some kind of awful horror film.

@tigsy it sounds like it went semi OK today. Hope the hotel stay led to some DTD!

I'm also originally from the Midlands!

tigsyboo · 05/02/2019 03:49

@Kinsters yes from Stourbridge if you know it?
Absolutely rubbish re not pregnant- so gutted for you xx

Wide awake - worrying and wondering 😣

Kinsters · 04/02/2019 23:03

tigsy are you from the Midlands? We say blarting there! I'm glad the social worker backed you guys.

Kinsters · 04/02/2019 22:52

"Not pregnant" on the CB digi this morning and nothing on the ic either. But I feel so pregnant! If I'm not pregnant I hate my body so much for doing this to me.

Rose68 · 04/02/2019 22:06

Oh Tigsy, I am keeping everything crossed for you.
We are also watching Silent Witness, but last weeks, on catch up.
xx

BettySwoll0cks · 04/02/2019 21:50

Urgh the waiting must be torture @tigsy

Am also watching Silent Witness, how amazing is Nikki's house?! I have a friend who's a forensic pathologist, I didn't think they got paid that much!!

tigsyboo · 04/02/2019 21:41

Blarting (is that a local word?? - crying her eyes out) not 'blasting!' Lol

tigsyboo · 04/02/2019 21:40

🙋🏼‍♀️I'm here!!
Just catching up on all the lube chat 😂😂
Pre seed original for me too - DH fucking hates it tho - said it's like shagging slimer from ghostbusters 👻!! 😂😂

Well I got through a whole book waiting in consult room (and a whole box of shortbread!)

  • DH said social worker backed us completely, but the ex wife was a blubbering idiot blasting about 'her babies' and fears she got the sympathy vote from the magistrates 😣.

Time will tell - tomorrow pm the verdict is in.

Staying over (court is 40 miles from home) and in hotel now. Just been for a cheeky Nando's and now watching silent witness in the hotel.

Thanks for asking ladies - more than my 'real life' friends (or even my sister!) have!!
Love ya's!! 💕

TwittleBee · 04/02/2019 20:41

Was wondering the same. Hope all is okay tigsy xx

BettySwoll0cks · 04/02/2019 20:25

Anyone seen @tigsyboo tonight? Wondering how you got on today xx

BettySwoll0cks · 04/02/2019 20:25

Anyone seen @tigsyboo tonight? Wondering how you got on today chick xx

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