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The July 19ers - All aboard the rollercoaster for a 3rd lucky thread

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Frazzlerock · 31/01/2019 10:32

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The July 19ers - All aboard the rollercoaster for a 3rd lucky thread
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Kinsters · 08/02/2019 08:20

It's super consistent and smooth though Betty, that's something. I attached a screen shot from the fertility friends app. They've done a few studies on data they get from the app and saw no correlation between either post-o temp alone or pre-o vs post-o temp in pregnancy and non-pregnancy charts. I can see why you'd prefer a more dramatic increase in temp though, it's really annoying when it takes ages to get going.

Did you get your day 21 progesterone tested?

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BettySwoll0cks · 08/02/2019 08:07

That's awesome @frazzle, that must be lightening the mood a bit at home?

Pissed off with my body. What the hell is this? Laziest, crappest temp rise ever. This must say something about ovulation and/or hormone responses, surely?

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ratherbeshowjumping · 08/02/2019 07:58

*projects, not sure what a poject is 🙈

ratherbeshowjumping · 08/02/2019 07:06

Still here, just had a manic day with work yesterday.

Contracting would be great for him Frazzle - cool pojects, flexibility & more money... win win 👍🏼👍🏼

Sorry about the email Betty - hope you manage to construct an equally patronising response!

In terms of the data breach, I've read it was a hack job. Apparently some trans feminist has been threatening MN with it for a while? Surelyyyyy there are better ways to spend your Wednesday evening?

Glad it's back to normal Kinsters. Let's hope he's not away next month 🤞🏼 so bloody frustrating isn't it.

Buggles1 · 08/02/2019 06:50

Ah, that’s better... finally back online. Was logged out but obviously forgot my password! Had a bit of a panic I wouldn’t be able to get back on and keep following events. Phew!

Kinsters · 08/02/2019 02:47

Frazzle that's great about the jobs, sounds like he has plenty of things in the pipeline.

I don't really understand the data breach thing. It looks like as long as we didn't log in over the last few days it should be fine?

My period seems more normal than last cycle which I'm pleased about. Fx for next month! Although I think DH might be away over the crucial time. At the moment the app is saying anytime Tuesday - Thursday and I'm sure DH mentioned going away on Tuesday so if it happened on Thursday that would be annoying. The cycle after that is a definite write off as DH is away for 2 weeks with my o day bang in the middle of those 2 weeks.

BettySwoll0cks · 07/02/2019 21:42

You bet I'll come back on it @Frazzle, but I resisted sending anything today which was grown up of me. I was feeling like a bit of a loose canon at first, after I read it.

I have noticed though that my confidence has taken quite a knock because of this last last year. Or maybe a combination of that and having returned to work with a DC. I'm less punchy and less keen on confrontation generally. I am totally set on leaving my current work in 2 years as a result, looking forward to doing something a bit more 'zen'

InDreamland · 07/02/2019 21:38

@Bettyswoll0cks can you complain? I'd say something.

InDreamland · 07/02/2019 21:37

@Kinsters sorry AF showed but at least you can start a new cycle and fx this one will be it.

@Frazzlerock great news about DH job wise, a friend of mine does consulting and loves it (plus gets paid a fortune). Good job you called hospital.

Checked what details I have on MN but doesn't look like I gave much info when I signed up as all my personal info fields re empty. Am worried though about the PMs as a couple of ladies here have my real name, phone number and home address via PM. So much of this happens now - British Airways and Marriott/SPG also had breaches and they have an awful lot of data on me - not just home address and phone number but credit card and passport!

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Frazzlerock · 07/02/2019 21:11

@BettySwoll0cks oh that is not on!
Will you be responding?

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Frazzlerock · 07/02/2019 21:10

Is that why everyone has gone spookily quiet on here today...?

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BettySwoll0cks · 07/02/2019 19:17

I just had to log back in. I appreciate that MN have put their hands up straight away but I'm still a bit clueless as to what this actually means to me (is it just a 'software glitch' or is this some hacking/doxxing situation?) or whether I have been affected?

I'm in a really foul mood tonight. I received a really patronising email from a colleague earlier that has made me want to rip someone's head off. I told DH immediately when he walked through the door that I am upset about it, so that he doesn't just wonder why I'm being off. Some people 🙄

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Frazzlerock · 07/02/2019 18:01

Yeo, so did I.
I opened MN and was like, what is THIS!?
As I am still on the old style MN, so had to log in to go back to the old style which I like faaaar better 😁
Normally it goes straight to old style as I'm always logged in

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Rose68 · 07/02/2019 17:36

Ah, so that’s why I had to log in earlier!

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Frazzlerock · 07/02/2019 17:00

And MN have been completely honest and open which is awesome

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Frazzlerock · 07/02/2019 17:00

@InDreamland yeah saw it. I probably should be panicking like all the others but what can you do?

Even the strictest websites can have data breaches, hackers are getting smarter all the time, and systems do fail.
I think it is users responsibility to accept that if they post something online it is fair game for any joe bloggs.

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Frazzlerock · 07/02/2019 16:57

Yeah I already knew about the push back, but that was because I was referred to the wrong clinic. Fun times.

DP's had some good news re work today. He's just come out of a really exciting call. He's had a few really good interviews/calls yesterday and today. He may even go into contracting which would be lucrative. Although obviously being happy in a job is more important than money so we will see. He's in a great mood again thank god!
Just such a shame he wasn't in that mood during my ovulation window, but hopefully that BD the day before ov was enough... It had better be as who knows how long I'll be waiting for the next egg to pop out. I'm still feeling really negative about it though. I don't have even the slightest bit of excitement that this could be it this time. Gut feeling is that AF will be here in 11 days time.

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InDreamland · 07/02/2019 16:55

Oh goodness have you all seen the data breach thread?

ratherbeshowjumping · 07/02/2019 15:58

Ah glad you've got it clarified Frazzle. Would have been really awkward if you'd have rocked up on the 21st, good job you did call them!

Rose68 · 07/02/2019 15:55

Good news, but annoying about the appointment being put back. 😬

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Frazzlerock · 07/02/2019 15:54

We crossed posts @rose Grin All is fine re hospital app, just mix up with my RMC appointment. Phew!

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Rose68 · 07/02/2019 15:44

@Frazzle I would also call the hospital, I think that’s terrible of your doctor to leave you hanging! I hope all is okay.

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Frazzlerock · 07/02/2019 15:41

@Kin I am pleased you feel okay about things now. I was raging when I got AF last cycle!

I called the gynae dept and they said it was for whatever I was referred for in Dec - so that would be recurrent MC clinic. BUT, she said that appointment was cancelled and I have another booked for 8th March (which I know about). But why send me a letter for 21st Feb if that one is cancelled!? I'd have rocked up there for nothing if I hadn't called them Angry

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ratherbeshowjumping · 07/02/2019 15:23

I would definitely call them, just to clarify.
I'm surprised there's no information on the letter.

@Kinsters - know what you mean. I'm desperate for mine to just come now... the last few cd's when you know you're out drag and are so bloody pointless.

Kinsters · 07/02/2019 15:05

Weird Frazzle, hope it's nothing.

I feel OK now my periods arrived, it's the being in limbo that I hate. Saying that my period hasn't properly arrived, just spotting. Hope it gets going soon.