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Vasectomy. Week late.

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ItsameAmario · 18/01/2019 20:42

My exH had a vasectomy 4 years ago. At the same time as we broke up.

We have decided 2 months ago to give it another go (after sexual health testing although he only slept with someone once with protection and I had a partner who tested clean before we slept together) we started having sex again.

My period is usually due on the 11th.

Still no sign.

Would you be worried or am I being paranoid?

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ChikiTIKI · 27/01/2019 19:26

Once when I was 17 I just totally missed a period. My cycles are normally over 30 days so I just had about 2 months of no bleeding. Then AF showed up and my cycles were back to normal. Maybe the same thing is happening to you?

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ItsameAmario · 27/01/2019 17:07

I'm early 30s so doubt it's menopause

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ItsameAmario · 27/01/2019 17:07

I don't think I need to go to the doctors. Surely sometimes we are just late.

Did another pound shop test this morning. Negative.

Just wish AF would start so I don't have to worry

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AlwaysTimeForWine · 27/01/2019 08:05

I had this last year. DH had a vasectomy about 5 years ago and had all the tests and the all clear.

Suddenly my period was really late and my cycles are usually pretty spot on between 26-28 longs. I did tests and they all came out negative.

Eventually it showed up at 44 days.

There's no explanation for it as I know there was such a low chance I was pregnant but it was still really worrying. Do a decent test and if it's still negative then give it another week and then go to doctor if you're still concerned.

I came to the conclusion that it was potentially the start of peri-menopause. I'm 41 and I couple of my older friends said that your cycles can start doing weird and wonderful things so I just assumed it was that, but cycles have been normal ever since.

Hope it turns up!!

newcupcake · 27/01/2019 07:37

Buy a decent test

MsSuperExcited · 27/01/2019 07:22

You’re over two weeks late now?

I’d go and see a doctor if I were you

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ItsameAmario · 26/01/2019 23:25

Still no period

Just want it to show up. Its so annoying.

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MsSuperExcited · 26/01/2019 09:31

Your DP is also supposed to take annual sperm tests, not just post-op. Things can re-connect themselves apparently

workinprogressmum · 25/01/2019 17:18

Try taking a test in the morning / going to the GP for a blood test? There may be something else going on

endofthelinefinally · 25/01/2019 14:05

Your partner should have documented post vasectomy test results. He will have copies as will his gp. He could easily produce them.
Also you should do an early morning pregnancy test.

ButtfaceMiscreant · 25/01/2019 14:01

Make an appointment with your GP, just in case. It will be worth it if only to put your mind at rest.

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ItsameAmario · 25/01/2019 12:05

Still nothing. Getting annoyed now.

Had really sore nipples last night too.

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ChikiTIKI · 24/01/2019 07:22

@ItsameAmario yes I would expect so usually.
A friend of mine didn't get a positive test until she was 12 weeks though.

Might be worth doing a morning test if AF doesn't show up soon?

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ItsameAmario · 23/01/2019 23:06

I was relieved. But still nothing.

It was a £1 test done mid afternoon but at almost 2 weeks late it would show right?

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ChikiTIKI · 22/01/2019 16:54

Are you relieved?
Must be annoying not to have a definitive answer about the late period though.... Are you stressed? That has caused mine to be quite late before.

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ItsameAmario · 22/01/2019 16:08

Negative test.

No period though.

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ChikiTIKI · 21/01/2019 20:41

Best to take a test just to be sure.

Newyearsameoldshit · 21/01/2019 20:22

Get thee to Poundland, at a week late you should get a clear result on the cheapest of tests.

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ItsameAmario · 21/01/2019 18:06

I'll get one tomorrow after school

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wannabebump · 21/01/2019 13:31

@ItsameAmario a cheapy test will do the trick, no need to spend a fortune. The only way to know is to test

ButtfaceMiscreant · 21/01/2019 13:19

It's the only way you will know for sure, other than a blood test but it's likely they will do a urine test too.

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ItsameAmario · 21/01/2019 13:17

Still no period

I don't want to waste my money on a test though as it feels imminent. Though it has for about a week

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ItsameAmario · 19/01/2019 09:20

Seems unlikely odds then. I'm sure I'll be ok

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Hiphopopotamous · 18/01/2019 22:26

1/2000 failure rate for vasectomy - that's IF he did the post-op testing properly.
Anything is possible.

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ItsameAmario · 18/01/2019 21:52

I'm assuming it's a blip but it's enough to make me panic a little!

I will get a test Monday.

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