The July 19ers - STILL never beaten, and rocking our FJs for a lucky thread

@Frazzle, yes I’m definitely still feeling like that, it’s so hard isn’t it. I have considered leaving the group because it’s making me more obsessive... when I should be focusing on other things... such as looking at houses... but then I have really started to care about everyone, and it’s lovely to watch everyone one by one getting preggers. I do think you will get there Frazzle, it’s just shit with your cycles. Mine are as regular as clockwork, but I don’t think it’s going to help me one little bit. xxx

@Dreamland, I'm sorry AF has arrived. Don't worry about the 26 day cycles, I'm on 26 too. Huge positive that you don't have to wait for ages... sending hugs xxx

@edidxb gosh your job is so tough. I can't believe anyone would support that. I don't understand how you do it....

@kinsters what a nice surprise! timing looks great too. Fx'd x

@rose that's really tough! What does he do (if you can say?) It sounds like it's impossible to schedule any kind of bd with his schedule...

@frazzle glad the spotting has stopped. I'm sorry your DP has been grumpy about dtd, what is their problem...!! It will be sods law though that you don't conceive on the month where you BD every other day then the month you hardly do, you conceive.... keep positive!!!

My puppy went to the vets this morning for the snip... sat by the phone waiting for them to call me. Poor little thing :(

That was meant to say, do you still have ewcm?

@Frazzle sorry you are feeling miserable, lets all be miserable together 😩 Do you know what will happen next? How long it will take for your body to sort itself out, or is it just a waiting game? Do you still have Sorry for so many questions. x

@Twittlebee I read your woodland thread last, it’s totally crazy! Let us know how you get on with it.

@InDreamland I’m sorry about AF, it’s shit isn’t it. I have just over a week until my AF arrives. My cycles have been 26 days since having my first DS, before that they were 28 days, but I was mostly on the pill so it’s hard to tell. But 26 days is still okay, and I definitely conceived DS2 on a 26 day cycle.

@Kinsters yay for ovulating! We are almost dpo sisters, I am 4 dpo today.

DH came home last night at 11:30pm and is going away again in an hours time. 😬

Sorry AF arrived InDreamland

I've got short 26 day cycles as well, actually they're sometimes 24 days. I do worry about it sometimes but take the positive that at least I don't have to wait too long to have another try. Hard to see positives on CD1 though.

I'm out this month. AF started this morning . Another 26 day cycle. Think the second mc un November has shortened my cycles

I'm going to WFH today; I've lost my voice and I'm coughing like a barking seal. It's not v attractive. But hey, check out my wacky chart!! Something about being ill, switching thermometers after about 5 days, getting woken up at all hours of the night. No wonder I can't have a stable pregnancy!

edidxb your job sounds so so tough and demanding. I don't see how using violence and support can go together at all! Some people!

As for me, I ovulated! And have gone straight to 5dpo which is nice. Timing not the best but I'll still hold out a bit of hope. I'm surprised my temp wasn't lower this morning. One of my cats decided to sleep in my bed last night and I swear she turns to concrete when she's sleeping which makes it really difficult to move the duvet when it gets cold so I woke up freezing!

I love that I've started a convos about BJs!!oh the irony as my DH says I've forgotten what they are!! 😂😂😂

@edidxb, don’t apologise, that’s why we are here. And as for supporting a child using violence.... words fail me. How an earth do you cope with that kind of attitude!

Re bj’s we usually do this a bit before dtd, but not recently, not since ttc.

@tigsyboo - amazing news. Hope it goes well now at court.
@Frazzlerock - I both can and can't believe the customer support from Flo. Thankfully I'm not using them but if I was I wouldn't be now. Good work Svetlana.

I have had such a tough work day - I do apologise - I think I say that a lot, but it is so so draining. Another one coming up tomorrow where I have to meet parents to do with a fight today. In inspection week. And I already know as they told me on the phone that they support their child using violence as that's how to solve an issue. Honestly.....
@ratherbe it was just an interview with the inspectors, not for a job. It was tough, but I think OK as a whole.

I went to acupuncture tonight though so hoping it is making me calmer for tomorrow!!!

DH and I have not Bjed for quite some time in the whole TTC journey......

Frazzle apparently it affects motility 🤷‍♀️ although I just read a bit more about it and apparently its only really something to worry about if the guys got low sperm count anyway and if there's a high concentration of saliva (the journal article talks about using it as a lubricant).

Those dresses look gorgeous!

Frazzle - this was the website where they can custom make you a wedding dress from £150
www.honeypieboutique.co.uk/

They do a lot of tea-length style dresses there. Might not be good for you but thought I would share it with you as I finally remembered what they were called!

Ohh haha yeah, a full blow job would be worse for conception than a bit of spit!

No that's not the bj thing... DH wants a 'full' BJ and I've told him not a chance until I tell him!! Lol

Oo yeah now you mention bjs tigsy is not doing it because of how supposedly sperm motility is affected by spit? We pretty much always start with a bj although I'd mentioned the spit thing to DH so last time he wiped the spit off beforehand, idk if that would help? Sorry for the tmi!

OMG I'm glad it's not just my DH that is such a fool!! He says 'it's nothing to do with science!' And all this temping just confuses the issue!
He doesn't know what the temping means- and I've given up talking to him about it
All he knows is that from Sunday we are DTD every other day until I say I want it 2 days in a row, and not to even consider asking for a Blowjob until I offer it!! 😂😂