The July 19ers - STILL never beaten, and rocking our FJs for a lucky thread

Ladies, did you all know NHS doesn't recognise the term CP, it's a MC still? Means that actually my MMC would have been MC#3 ? MW was bit miffed as to why I wouldn't have classed them as a MC

Frazzle does sound like he's better off out of there tbh, hope it all settles for him soon!

tigsy oh I am so sorry. I would cry too. I suppose you do know your temp pattern now though and your LP length. Although I know a BFP would have been much more welcomed

Ah that's great that he gets paid for those 3 month. Obviously its shit that it worked out like it did but at least there's some breathing space for him to regroup and look for another job.

When you write that all down you really have had an awful 3 years.

tigsy it's not pathetic to cry! Your chart looked so positive and you had no warning so its understandable. And yes, the first day of proper bleeding is cycle day one.

Thanks Rose, I really hope thats the case! I've always been too paranoid about everything and this is no exception.

Frazzle It sounds like this is just a temporary blip and things should be ok on the job front then? Are they paying him for the notice period?

@Tigsy, I’m so sorry about AF, but that is a spot on LP. You definitely don’t have any problems there 😘

@Kinsters I’m sure your body is just getting back to normal, at 28 I can’t believe you could be having earlier ov and lighter periods due to age. Earlier ov means not waiting for so long and more go’s at getting pregnant, so that’s got to be good ☺️

@BettySwoll0cks
Yeah it makes a bit more sense.... I think I O'd on cd18 going by the OPKs as it was strongest on cd17 and got a rise on cd18.
I expected it but still burst into tears. How pathetic. 20 years of periods and now I'm crying at them.

I've got to take the positives.... I've got a 13/14 day luteral phase - that's got to be positive right??

Charters.... I'm switching to FF this month... is today's temp CD1??

@tigsy - bad luck, that's disappointing even thought you were mostly expecting it. Does that make a bit more sense now the witch has arrived? Delayed Ov on Cd19 then LP of 13 days? I just starting BBT charting again this cycle, and already it's batshit crazy. But ultimately, the only thing that actually matters is having enough sex throughout the FW so that's really all I'm hoping for this month!!

@Frazzlerock I can't believe your news, I'm so sorry. If I understand correctly, they're saying 'jump before you're pushed'. But do they actually have grounds to fire him? If not he can afford to take his time.

Oh god Frazzle that is exactly what you don't need right now.

Rose yeah, this was only my first period since the miscarriage so I'm hoping its just my body/cycle getting back to normal. I'm only 28 so I really hope its nothing more than that but of course its easy to think the worst.

tigsy sorry AF arrived, no matter how much you expect it it still sucks. Your charts definitely a weird one this cycle! Maybe you are just one of those people who don't get the pre AF warning dip.

AF has arrived!! Wtf is with those temps?!

@Frazzlerock that is shit
I'm so sorry
Is he in an industry where he will find something else without too much trouble?
God life is shit sometimes xxx

Oh shit Frazzle! I don’t know what to say, I’m so sorry
Could he not take them up on his suggestion until he has something else lined up, or does he really have to go now?

I am pretty sure there are things you can do to improve your lining x

@Kinsters thank you, I might pm you if I can’t work out the answer via google. CD10/11 does sound a little early, I’m not sure re the ‘bad egg’ thing, I think I read as you get older you can start ovulating earlier. Also on the bleeding, if it’s been since the mc I it could just be that your body is still recovering? I can’t remember how old you are, but could it be worth making an appointment? Maybe even just with your gp initially?

I got locked out of my mumsnet again so I've been reading but couldn't comment!

ratherbe I'm so sorry things aren't going well with you and DH. It must be really difficult for you.

tigsy your chart is a mystery! I've always had a good experience with ICs, like I wouldn't expect a strong line but at 14dpo there should be a hint. Very strange. It definitely looks like you ovulated on CD19 - the temp shift is so clear!

InDreamland I read that sex everyday is fine unless the guy has known sperm count issues in which case every other day can be better.

Twittle congratulations on the scan news! It must have been very nice to be measuring ahead.

Rose I wouldn't call myself an expert but I can try and help! I used to work in UK tax and did the professional qualifications etc. Feel free to PM if you'd like.

My temp shot up to post-o levels this morning (CD10!!) and I've got a positive OPK this evening. DH is back from his work trip tomorrow evening but if, as the temperature suggests, I've already ovulated then we've got no chance this cycle. I hope my temperature is back down tomorrow. I normally ovulate the day after a positive OPK so maybe it'll be tomorrow - CD11 seems way too early though. I don't know if an early egg is a "bad" egg.

Also I remember someone was saying they had really heavy periods. Mine are the opposite since ERPC, just half a day of proper bleeding (and even before they were never more than a couple of days of proper bleeding). I'm so worried that my lining won't be able to support a pregnancy or what if that was the problem that caused this miscarriage .

@Ratherbe has he always been like this throughout your relationship or is it a recent thing? x

@Ratherbe that must be really tough, sending you a big hug xxx

Yay to the frers @Tigsy fx for tomorrow morning x

Ordered a 2 pack of FRER for delivery tonight.
I'm going to try and wait until sat morning if AF still not here but that's clearly not going to happen or I wouldn't have selected same day delivery.

Every single day I convince myself I'm out... go to bed in pants - wake up no period , take temp.... start wondering all over again 😢

@tigsyboo deffo get a FRER. When I was testing for a BFN, I was getting BFNs on cheapies & hospital tests but still getting BFPs on FRER x

Oh tigsy I really do feel for you. I hate that limbo feeling... I have no advice but & please don't sulk. We are all here for you!

@InDreamland I would agree with tigsy, I thought once a day, so the sperm aren't immature...

I'm jealous of everyone that's trying SMEP. Dh & i are still not talking after I told him how upset I am & I don't feel we're trying hard enough... I didn't realise it was so much hassle to want to sleep with your wife a few times a month 😢 self confidence is right down at rock bottom.

tigsy but my experience with cheaper tests have been awful. FRERs always pick up my pregnancy days before a cheapie. On the cheapies I don't usually get a decent line until around 20dpo despite them saying they're 10mlu