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When's the best time to get pregnant? Use our interactive ovulation calculator to work out when you're most fertile and most likely to conceive.

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TTC #1 thread 1 2019

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Waiting2bMum · 07/01/2019 13:47

Hi Ladies,

Thought it would be good to start a 2019 support thread for all of us who are trying to conceive. Any one welcome, please join!
I will start:
Age: 26
TTC: baby no.1
Trying: 20 cycles with 2 chemical pregnancies
Currently: 2 ww, due on tomorrow with negative HPT's so far

Would be great to hear your stories and support each other along the way. Wishing you all baby dust☺️💐xx

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Waiting2bMum · 07/02/2019 12:10

@Tryingforno2 aww really that's good, for you upload a pic? Can't see it? Really please for you, how many weeks do you think you are? Xx

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Tryingforno2 · 07/02/2019 12:05

@Waiting2bMum I am ok thanks tender boobs and feeling nauseous 😷
I didn't test yesterday I decided to test today I used my last cheapie and frer as you can see the cheapie has shown nothing! So I went and got a clear blue and got a yes!
The cheapies are supposed to be sensitive to 10ml and clearblue sensitive to 25ml so it just shows that the cheapies are absolutely useless!
I'm finding it hard to believe it's actually happening will be happy when I get a few weeks under my belt! Xx

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Waiting2bMum · 07/02/2019 11:47

@Tryingforno2 I feel ok thanks, still worried but trying not to think about it. Iv got very sore boobs that are like bullets😂😂How are you? Xx

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lizzie198 · 07/02/2019 11:20

@MrsE95 really sorry to hear this but as already has been said you will be mega fertile next time round if your up to it xx

nwlv · 07/02/2019 08:56

@MrsE95 so sorry hope you are feeling ok today xx

Tryingforno2 · 07/02/2019 08:49

@MrsE95 oh gosh I'm so sorry :-( it's really hard, if you feel up to trying next cycle you should be really fertile and I really think you will get your bfp next time xx
@Waiting2bMum how are things with you? Xx

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Waiting2bMum · 07/02/2019 08:46

@MrsE95 I am so so sorry to hear this😢😢😔😔stay strong!! You have all of us here💖💖xxx

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MrsE95 · 07/02/2019 08:34

Morning ladies! So yep I’ve been up all night with the most horrendous cramps I’ve ever had in my life. AF has come on in full force. I truly truly believe what I’m having is an early loss as the test we took yesterday morning there was definitly a line and it would explain all of my symptoms before this.

Just sooo sad now. 😞😞 xx

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Waiting2bMum · 07/02/2019 07:55

@MrsE95 how are you today? I do t know what was going on yesterday but I couldn't get in here nothing would load😬😬is it af?? Xxx

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Tryingforno2 · 06/02/2019 20:32

@MrsE95 if you're unsure whether it's actually your period or implantation hold off using a tampon use a pad instead :-)
I'm. It sure about the early cramping but I do know that I had symptoms 2 days after I'd ovulated when they say it's 'impossible' to get symptoms so early - it's isn't! As soon as you conceive your body knows so maybe it was just getting ready for implantation - I'm not sure :-(
If it's brown blood then that's a good sign if it's bright red it could possibly be AF ohhhh I'm so sorry you are going through this xxxxx

MrsE95 · 06/02/2019 20:24

I have had horrendous cramping pains all evening and have just got home and it’s relatively heavy, heavy enough for a light tampon.

My cramps are horrendous though never like AF. But if I’m only implanting now what would explain the cramps on my right side I’ve had since 7/8dpo? 😫😫😫 any idea @waiting2bmum, @tryingforno2? Xx

Tryingforno2 · 06/02/2019 19:52

@MrsE95 just copied this from google xx hope it it helps I am 🤞🏻🤞🏻🤞🏻 that it's implantation bleeding you are experiencing xxx

TTC #1 thread 1 2019
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Waiting2bMum · 06/02/2019 18:19

@MrsE95 ahhh nooo!! It might be implantation, is there lots and deffo different to normal?? Xx

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Tryingforno2 · 06/02/2019 18:13

@MrsE95 is that 14 days since you got a positive ovulation test? Because you actually ovulate approx 36 hours later, Lots of people have implantation bleeding when their period is due and implantation can take 12 days, is the bleeding accompanied by period type cramps - painful ones? Xx

MrsE95 · 06/02/2019 18:03

@tryingforno2 14dpo. 😫😫😫 and still only got pain on my right side. Thinking it may be a chemical/early loss 😭😭😭 xx

Tryingforno2 · 06/02/2019 17:49

@MrsE95 how many dpo are you xx

MrsE95 · 06/02/2019 16:53

@wiating2bmum I’ve started bleeding. 😭😭😭😭😭 it’s far too dark to be period blood and not loads of it just spotting. If I implanted a day or so ago would I get implantation bleeding now? I’m suddenly a lot less sure now. 😭 xx

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Waiting2bMum · 06/02/2019 16:10

@Tryingforno2 aww bless you, we know what it is but we still worry don't we!!🙈🙈xx
@MrsE95 how are you?? Can't wait for you to do a frer I'm getting excited cycle twin!! Xx

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Tryingforno2 · 06/02/2019 11:46

@Waiting2bMum I've had on and off cramps since 6dpo I'm 13 dpo today and last night was the first night I've not had any in bed the only thing I have been getting is a sharp pain when I sneeze which I remember well from being pregnant with my little boy and I believe it's ligament pain as everything starts getting ready to stretch! I think you a right with the burrowing theory implantation cramps can last a good few days xx

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Waiting2bMum · 06/02/2019 11:07

@Tryingforno2 thank you for reassuring me it's really helped. The only symptoms I have today are slightly tender boobs still and a head ache. I'm also 3/4 days away, I don't even like saying the word lol. Hopefully it's burrowed in good and proper that's why the cramps were so bad xxxx

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Tryingforno2 · 06/02/2019 10:28

And! (Sorry 😂) clear blue are defo not as sensitive I only got a strong line on one of those when I was a week late with my little boy xxx

Tryingforno2 · 06/02/2019 10:27

And ps no cramps are a good thing if you ask me! Sign that everything's calmed down xxx

Tryingforno2 · 06/02/2019 10:26

Absolutely I'm just telling myself that if I get a lighter line it doesn't necessarily mean anything in a 2/3 day window so what's the point in worrying myself even more than I already am! Be strong and step away from the tests for a day or 2 xxxxxxx

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Waiting2bMum · 06/02/2019 10:13

@Tryingforno2 I think your right, I need to be strong and not do it. I keep telling myself third time lucky this one will be fine xx

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Tryingforno2 · 06/02/2019 10:10

Yeah @Waiting2bMum yesterday's and today's look the same, why don't you have a little break from testing for a couple of days for your own sanity! I've had to force myself not to test everyday now otherwise I'm going to drive myself mad xx

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