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TTC #1 thread 1 2019

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Waiting2bMum · 07/01/2019 13:47

Hi Ladies,

Thought it would be good to start a 2019 support thread for all of us who are trying to conceive. Any one welcome, please join!
I will start:
Age: 26
TTC: baby no.1
Trying: 20 cycles with 2 chemical pregnancies
Currently: 2 ww, due on tomorrow with negative HPT's so far

Would be great to hear your stories and support each other along the way. Wishing you all baby dust☺️💐xx

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laurenomarixxo · 13/02/2019 13:54

missed my period so I tested and omg..

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lizzie198 · 13/02/2019 10:50

@GrapesAndCheese I'm joining you in the TWW according to my app but I'm not sure if I ovulated yesterday as it expected. Only second cycle and I was on the pill for 3 years so may be a while before things are back to normal. Agreed with OH over the weekend we are just going to enjoy it and not get too obsessive as it was starting to make me snappy with him which is not conducive to TTC lol x

GrapesAndCheese · 12/02/2019 23:12

Hi everyone, just trying to catch up.
Im so so sorry about your mc @Waiting2bMum. I hope you get to the bottom of it all Thanks

Dp and I dtd last night and were going to again tomorrow night I think to increase our chances. So I guess the 2WW begins! Anyone else in the 2WW?

Is anyone else trying for DC#2? Or has already had #2? We're your early symptoms different the second time?

Tryingforno2 · 11/02/2019 22:00

@Waiting2bMum so glad you are getting some help and the doctor is taking the right steps to sort this out for you, I suppose the only positive you can take from it is that you can definitely conceive so once they get you on the appropriate meds things should be positive from there, so sorry this has happened hope you are ok xx

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Waiting2bMum · 11/02/2019 15:52

The doctor was great, he has referred me to the gynaecologist so just got to wait for an appointment. I explained all my issues with my cycles and how they have settled and since this I have fell pregnant 3 times. He seems to think my levels maybe low as to why I can't get past 4 weeks. So will have some blood tests and more that likely be put on baby aspirin (I have read about this before) so fingers crossed! I will be sticking around and ready to start again with you all💖xx
@MrsE95 slightly worried now as we haven't heard from you xx
@TheatreMumma @Lemurville Thank you both💖xxx

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TheatreMumma · 11/02/2019 13:59

Really hope the doctors are taking everything seriously @Waiting2bMum and you're able to get some answers. I'm not sure if you're passed the point of a 'my friend...' story but just in case it offers even a glimmer of hope, one of my closest friends had 3 mcs followed by tests which identified natural killer cells. Once she started receiving the appropriate treatment, things moved fairly quickly (probably not for her in all fairness!) and she now has two gorgeous girls 15 months apart. ❤️

Lemurville · 11/02/2019 10:28

Hope the doctor gives you positive news @Waiting2bMum. xx

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Waiting2bMum · 11/02/2019 08:11

Thank you all for your kind words. Sorry I have been quiet over the weekend. All things going through my head questioning why😔I'm booked into the doctors today as this is the 3rd time. I will come back fighting to join you all on this journey. Thank you all for thinking of me and your support💖💖xxx

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Sienna9522 · 10/02/2019 20:12

I’m so so sorry @Waiting2bmum xx

Tryingforno2 · 10/02/2019 18:14

Thank you @meepmoop x

meepmoop · 10/02/2019 17:47

Hope you're okay @Waiting2bMum

I don't think it looks to much different than the other @Tryingforno2. Maybe slightly lighter but not massively noticeable

Rodgers2017 · 10/02/2019 14:52

@Waiting2bMum I'm so sorry 😘😘😘 hope you're keeping ok xx

Tryingforno2 · 10/02/2019 09:17

Sorry should have said the most recent test is at the bottom of the pic xx

Tryingforno2 · 10/02/2019 09:16

@Waiting2bMum I'm so sorry to hear this :-( I hope your holding up ok I know what you're going through and it's so upsetting and I'm just so sorry that this has happened to you again.

I'm sorry to ask but I was hoping for some opinions as I've previously had a loss I just wanted people to look at my tests from the last 4 days, does the final line look lighter? Im sorry to ask and I'm maybe over analysing things I'm just so paranoid and worried 😟

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meepmoop · 10/02/2019 09:04

I'm so sorry @Waiting2bMum Thanks

TheatreMumma · 10/02/2019 08:44

Oh @Waiting2bMum I'm so so sorry. I can't begin to imagine what you're going through 😘

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Waiting2bMum · 10/02/2019 08:20

Morning, thank you all for your support. Just thought I would let you know, I have had a miss carriage. I passed some clots and tests nearly negative now😔😔😢😢back to trying for a 4th time for me now. Words can't describe how I feel xxx

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Tryingforno2 · 09/02/2019 22:24

@Lemurville I hope everything's ok and you get some answers xx
@Waiting2bMum hope you are feeling ok and have rested up today
@MrsE95 really hope you are alright too and are home from hospital now xx

Lemurville · 09/02/2019 21:31

@Waiting2bMum how are you doing now? So want you to keep your bfp xx I have a drs appointment booked for a weeks time cos af has not showed now nearly a week so I just want to check everything is ok or if there’s something serious going on.

ChloePD · 09/02/2019 19:51

@Waiting2bMum sending all my thoughts to you BiscuitI've had an extremely uncomfortable day with CONSTANT visits to the toilet for a wee but nothing else- still positive OPK (clearblue digital)! Worse thing ever not knowing what's going on!!
Hope everyone else is doing well

nwlv · 09/02/2019 19:32

@Waiting2bMum hope your okay! Sending you good vibes xx

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Waiting2bMum · 09/02/2019 10:13

@JessHughes17 thank you for your kind words😘😘going to have a little sleep my head is spinning need to rest. Will keep you updated xx

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JessHughes17 · 09/02/2019 10:06

@Waiting2bMum oh bless you, I've got everything crossed that it'll happen for you. It must be so hard to remain positive after the knock backs but don't give up 😘

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Waiting2bMum · 09/02/2019 09:58

@JessHughes17 your right it does always seem that way. Iv been trying for two years this May😢😢I'm trying to be so so positive, DP has been great reading everything he can bless him xxx

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JessHughes17 · 09/02/2019 09:56

@Waiting2bMum definitely. I always thought it just happened so quickly for everyone. I've only been trying a short while so I really feel for anyone that's been trying a lot longer. Its hard not to get your hopes up. Xxx

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