TTC #1 thread 1 2019

Hello everyone am I ok to join in? Xx

Oh my goodness @ChloePD! What a nightmare! February certainly has been a shocker for many on here! Roll on March and hopefully lots of positivity for everyone ❤️

@ChloePD omg what a bunch we all are!! My friend had exactly what you had and she actually fainted with the pain! I'm sorry to hear this and I really hope you get home soon! Xxx

@Tryingforno2 so sorry to hear your news, I'm keeping my fingers crossed for you for only good luck. I really believe everything happens for a reason and your perfect time will come and I'm sure it'll be soon

I have been in Australia for a quick 10 day holiday and was meant to fly home on Friday morning however I'm stuck in hospital here as I had extreme abdominal pain, wasn't allowed to board my flight home as they thought it was appendicitis or an ectopic pregnancy but after extensive tests, turns out to be a ruptured ovarian cyst! Waiting to be seen by the gynaecologist team soon but hopefully this means I have ovulated and should see a period soon- all their tests came back for negative pregnancy.

Send better luck to everyone else on this chat

Awww thank you @Waiting2bMum I'm so so lucky to have a 2 year old Who is a great distraction I don't think it makes it any easier but it just makes you get on with life because you have no choice and I'm actually glad I don't have the chance to sit and mope otherwise I think I would feel a lot worse, how unlucky have the 3 of us been you me and @MrsE95 all bfps at the same time and all resulting in a loss things have got to improve for at least one of us soon 🤞🏻feel lucky to be part of this group it's a great outlet for emotions and great we can all support each other xx

Thanks @MrsE95 fingers crossed for you this month! Xx

Thanks @TheatreMumma yeah I think as soon as you get that positive test you start thinking about how life will be with a baby, it's hard. I just Hope next times our lucky one XX

@tryingforno2 I’m so very sorry to hear that. 😭😭😭 I can only imagine the heartbreak. 😞😞

@waiting2bmum I’m also going to wait until at least 2 days passed missed period (well I’m going to try to anyway 🙈) xx

@Tryingforno2 It must be completely heartbreaking. You can't help but get excited and plan in that time, can you? I really believe that things will get better for you when the time is right though 💐

Thanks @TheatreMumma yeah it's proving painful both physically and emotionally I had a chemical last year but the result of that was just like a period this is a bit different at over 6 weeks it's awful I feel so sorry for anyone who goes through it at a later stage than this, starting to wonder if a bit of luck will ever come our way xx

I'm so so sorry @Tryingforno2 😔 That must have been awful to go through. I really hope the results are as positive as they can be in this situation 💐

Hi all, well @Waiting2bMum and @MrsE95 I'm joining in with the heartbreak this cycle I had some light spotting yesterday morning went to the docs who sent me strait to epu for a scan, they couldn't see anything at all not even an empty sac so had to have bloods done to check for ectopic pregnancy and more blood tomorrow however I have passed quite a large amount of issue accompanied with severe cramping overnight so at this stage I am hoping that this was the pregnancy as I really don't want to lose a tube with an ectopic! The tests tomorrow will hopefully confirm hcg is going down as would be expected with a miscarriage. So I'm going to be back ttc with you ladies I am absolutely devastated and I'm not sure if we will start trying strait away or leave it for a couple of cycles, hoping you guys get some good news soon and get your bfps x

We’re having a lovely time thank you @waiting2bmum! I changed my hotel last minute to a nicer one so much nicer for lots of baby dancing. 🙈 and ooohhh you’re not too far behind me then! I’m enjoying this no stressing about OPKs or anything. Let’s just hope I do the same in the 2ww as well! Just need to keep ourselves busy and hide the pee sticks! 😂 xx

@ChloePD that all sounds promising 🤞🏼 keep us updated!
Yes it's frustrating not knowing what everything means, I'm learning lots through this thread though. I don't think my bleed could have been implantation cause it lasted 4 days and was more like a period. Maybe mines just a sign of ovulation!
Good luck with yours!!! X

@JessHughes17 I'm having the exact same thing but mine has come a week after a suspected implantation bleed (light brown and pink spotting last week, lasted 2 days) and yesterday I had lots of creamy light brown cm and today a cold sore, which I had had only twice before in my life!! It's so frustrating not knowing what your body is doing isn't it!! Good luck

@Tryingforno2 aw no worries, thank you anyway. It's definitely that consistency just not clear, more of a light brown. Xx

Hi @JessHughes17 I'm sorry I'm not sure about that one I know that's not very helpful but didn't want to read and run! I get clear stretchy mucous like egg white in my fertile period but I've never had any brown coloured x

P.S I took a picture but it's a bit grim so decided to try and describe it instead 😆 x

Hi everyone, don't suppose anybody can offer some advice. I'm about a week and a half past my period and I've had a really mucusy discharge (quite a lot) and it's light brown (sorry tmi). Is this a sign of ovulation? xx

Haha @TheatreMumma that will be just your luck! But hey on the bright side I'd be telling people like mums and dads their new grandchild is there Christmas present 😂 save a fortune haha

Ahhhh thanks @MrsE95 it's still early days but so far all seems ok, have a lovely holiday! Xxx

@waiting2bmum so glad you’re back and feeling a little better, we missed you! I am not stressing AT ALL this month. I’m currently away in Poland on holiday and just enjoying a week of lots of baby dancing. I’m not charting or OPKs. I’ve had a look on my app but not inputting any symptom data or anything. App says ov due Thursday maybe but again not really bothered. If it happens it happens if it doesn’t it doesn’t. Can’t go through what I did again last month for a long time yet. 😞😞 how are you doing? What does your cycle look like now? Presuming we’re not twins this month? (But always will be original cycle twins. 😂)

@tryingforno2 So pleased you’ve stopped stressing and everything is going okay! Lots of love to you!💖